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Posted: 10 years ago
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NOT TO OFFEND ANYONE Ok so the miscarriage track happened, it is sad but we all knew it was coming...some may say right now the CVS are making Roshni out to be weak as she is crying all the time...Yes I admit she is crying all the time but that is what happens to a mother when she loses her baby, the CVS are showing a reality track right now...
When a newly married couple announces the arrival of their first child families tend to get excited and when a miscarriage happens it leaves everyone shattered...Just think of Sid crying in the halls hugging that photo..it is because he knows deep down he was expecting his baby, something he can actually share with Roshni...a little child to show the symbol of their love...and now she is gone, not breathing or living anymore..he will never get to see her smile, cry , laugh or talk...he is in pain..Sid is trying to be strong for Roshni when deep down he himself is feeling that same pain
Roshni is a broken soul the most...she had that baby inside her, she felt its company...in her time she was not alons as she knew she had her baby...the bond between mother and child is unbreakable hence Roshni and that child shared a bond...now that she is no more Roshni has every right to cry as much as she want...In any miscarriage case normally mothers goes into depression and that is what the CVS are showing what happens to couples when a miscarriage hits them
take example from BD thinking...in most cases when a couple suffers from a miscarriage and then hear they cannot make another baby, elders in the family who want grandchildren will make a scene accuse the mother for being careless or the father...Miscarriages has torn families apart and we see BD mindset already wants Sid to divorce Roshni, why because she want a bay and Roshni cannot giver them baby...another realistic fact
So I know this post might not make no sense what so ever and we might just say it is a show...but the CVS are showing a real case scenario and the way SidNi are shown right now is what real couples go through

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Stephie, I agree with each and every word of yours. This track is realistic but what is not realistic is the adoption idea; I understand that Sid wants to see Roshni happy and he thinks that only Ayesha can make her smile. But miscarriage doesn't mean adoption is the only option. All SidNi need is time for now away from the psycho people in their family and eventually they will learn to cope up with the situation. I am against this adoption track because SidNi are still young and they have their future ahead of them. They don't need to be parents so soon. I don't understand if Sid can come up with the idea of adopting Ayesha than why not adopt the whole NGO. All of these kids are orphan. It will save their money too nah. What's the point for Roshni to run NGO? So I don't find it necessary for them to adopt as of now but maybe in the near future if by chance Roshni can't conceive at all than its okay, I won't mind.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: paru10

Stephie, I agree with each and every word of yours. This track is realistic but what is not realistic is the adoption idea; I understand that Sid wants to see Roshni happy and he thinks that only Ayesha can make her smile. But miscarriage doesn't mean adoption is the only option. All SidNi need is time for now away from the psycho people in their family and eventually they will learn to cope up with the situation. I am against this adoption track because SidNi are still young and they have their future ahead of them. They don't need to be parents so soon. I don't understand if Sid can come up with the idea of adopting Ayesha than why not adopt the whole NGO. All of these kids are orphan. It will save their money too nah. What's the point for Roshni to run NGO? So I don't find it necessary for them to adopt as of now but maybe in the near future if by chance Roshni can't conceive at all than its okay, I won't mind.



Sid should not be jumping to adoption and if they adopt why not the whole NGO...that was a perfect example and I agree with you entire reply, the sensible thing for them is time to heal and time away from that entire mad house...that being said I feel Sid must be thinking Ayesha can be the key to healing Roshni
..right now when he looks at her all he see is her sad eyes and feelings...but today when Roshni came out to see if Ayesha was ok and the way they were at the pool like if nothing had happened to Roshni...Sid is seeing all this and he feels Roshni will be happy if they get Ayesha...I agree.with them having an NGO and all why not adopt the entire clan rather than choose one of them...but since Roshni met Ayesha she always thought of her as being cute...she always looked at her like a daughter...when Ayesha had to go she was sad as she did not want to part from her...all that Sid took into consideration...still it is a bad idea


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Posted: 10 years ago
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i agree with u fully stephie
but i want the cvs to handle this in a sensitive way
sid should explain DB that he will be with roshni forever
he loves her so he will always support her com what may
family members should shower her with love and care most now
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Totally agree with you...Roshni lost her baby and her reaction is justified and BD is from old generation so she will think like that and in real life such people do exist...😡

regarding adoption, hope sid don't compel Rosh for adoption.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree...it is a very realistic track and NiVi are doing a tremendous job.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with u word to word Stephie👍🏼 This is one of the most realistic track JR have ever had..The pain a couple goes through during miscarriage is wonderfully portrayed by CVs and SidNi.. I can very well relate to Roshni and she is being shown to be very real.. Even BD's reaction looked real, that is how old fashioned people think first.. Ghar ka chirag type thinking

And eventhough I feel Sid should have not jumped to adoption idea, I won't blame him b'coz he'll do anything which he feels may keep Roshni happy.. The decision may not be always right, but his intention is always Roshni's happiness😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with each and every word stephie😊 nothing to add... waiting how this track leads further😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agreed wid each ndvevrything thing...hope roshni never accepts adoption😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you steph... it is reality.. this is how everyone behaves.. good part is that there is no plotting or planning in the show which lead to all this.. it was just misfortune that lead to miscarriage.. and regarding siddharth adopting ayesha.. it is bad idea when we look at it..but keeping his frame of mind, then it is just his desperate attempt to bring back happiness in roshni and his own life...

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