hi there! i see no id of yours to msg you on, had i seen a sn i'd have written 2 u..anyhowz, hope allz well and i see as moderator you closed my topics...which's fine i got no probz w/ that and i understand, some people cannot maturely handle conversations..
i did state my view on the situation i saw and i dont believe i was vulgar in words about it (am not an uneducated fool here)...rather truthfully stated negative words but i truly couldnt think of a lesser appropriate word to describe.
Let me put it again that i carry no animosity towards him, his bro, penny, sharad, anyone but rather only stated the obvious to me from that situation which the world wittnessed! That situation was negative and distasteful indeed so had it not been brought up or rather handled in a more respectful way while still getting itz message across is what woulda been more admirable and was expected from Ronit as by the image he "displays"
This may hurt his fanz but to frankly tell you i as a person no matter how big fan of anyone on TV or real life...do always prefer to stick to the side of Truth and Humanity and what's infact right by justice. Ironically dear you called my stra8 fwd speaking to not carry hidden agenda😆 and the irony lies that i infact spoke very bluntly what i felt and was rather speaking of the situation that what these brothers displayed here was contradictory to what image they try to protray...so take ur pick on where the hidden agenda lies hun.
Yes, thank you for enlightening me on life being good a certain way and yes i'm quite aware of it sweetheart...Life is not also about blind-foldedly allowing injustice to pass by. One must Conquer the angry man by love.
Conquer the ill-natured man by goodness.
Conquer the miser with generosity.
Conquer the liar with truth.
One should do the above with genuine wisdom who rebukes one for one's faults (as penny did with ronit), as one would follow a guide to some buried treasure. To one who follows such a wise man, it will be an advantage and not a disadvantage. (he would've been far more respected in the "image he shows" had he pointed out her ill words to her one on one...making her truly sorry to the point where she would've came on stage herself and genuinely apologized, rather than what the two brothers pulled off here)
For example, as Shaimak commented to Prachi that she's put out an image and platform of herself where more was expected in her performance! Just parallel that to here with Ronitji who's displayed such a "Saintly" image and then behavied opposite to it...so i was quite disappointed in seeing that from him due to that reason particularly. Even Smriti n Penny carried their behavior but they dont display something and do something different so wasnt much disappointment there, although i did not like nor agree w/ it...
We all must Cast off pretense and self-deception and be ourself as you really are. Despite all appearances, no one is really evil. They are led astray by ignorance. If you ponder this truth always you will offer more light. The actions of each of us, human or nonhuman, have contributed to the world in which we live. We all have a common responsibility for our world and are connected with everything in it.
So, the tendency of our childish nature is to take small things too seriously and get easily offended, whereas when we are confronted with situations which have long-term consequences, we tend to take things less seriously or ignore. It is indeed wonderful to take life the "good way" as you said it. That's what our Religions with immense values teach us...however, even the purpose of all the major religious traditions is not to construct big temples on the outside, but to create temples of goodness and compassion inside, in our hearts. Our actions should follow exactly that...penny was an avg. gal and commented negatively, Ronit however, better was expected of him in terms of handling situation than "being nice" the way he was...if he truly wanted to and had that agenda in heart he would've approached her one on one with it respectfully! I stand my ground firmly on this conclusion i drew and pointed out not in rudeness but enlightment! If was Ronit/Rohit were indeed my friend or i knew them in real life...i'd surely point this out to them.
wishes, Harmoni
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