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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav



This is absolutely wrong in my dictionary ! I mean, a man cheats his wife for LONG 9-10 yrs, and suddenly when he discovers his wife's infidelity, he decides to 'sudhraofy' huh !🤢 Shailendra is not a bacha who's doing this unintentionally....mistakes can be of 1 day/1 month/ max 1 yr....but if u repeat same mistake 1000000000 times, it's crime😔😔

And Shailendra doesnt deserve to be forgiven by his wife even if he realises his crime😔😔he should be punished😔😔

šŸ‘šŸ‘very well said i agree to ur view
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Posted: 16 years ago
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yeah dats true. agar aadmi galti karen toh usko maaf & agar aurat karen toh usko saza..... yeh toh galat hain......aur yeh Shailendra ne jo galti ki hain actually its not a mistake..its a crime...... he shld be punished........
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: crazyfan

see the way i see it, specifically in this case, the girl wont be wrong when she starts having an affair. why? because i think when a woman marries a man, she doesnt marry him, but his entire family. in this case, aradhana has done that, she has completely made the guy's family her own; because her husband is cheating on her and not caring about her one bit, how can she leave the family which she considers her own now for 10 long years??

n i dont think they'll just show her having an affair, it will be a tough inner struggle, whcih if potrayed right, will make sense..

exactly dats da point waise bhi its corretcly said when a guy n girl marries its a marriage bet two familie but a girl has to adjust accept nurture n keep on ding it her whole life but at wot cost dumping like a garbage by her won hubby its not to be taken anymore aaj ki naari knows to raise her voice against every torture n wot shaiendra did to aradhna is stabbing her trust
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shijhu

its a way how u see it n how u take it whe n she gets ditched by her own hubby for whom she sacrificed everything nurturing his family as her own n when gets ditched da first frdship hand offered is like a man drowning n gets sm kind of wood to hold psychological dilemma is too much at dat time so no one can decide abt her feelings n double standards is just not da owrd to be used

Totally agree wid ur views Shijhu......... well said
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: princezna

yeah dats true. agar aadmi galti karen toh usko maaf & agar aurat karen toh usko saza..... yeh toh galat hain......aur yeh Shailendra ne jo galti ki hain actually its not a mistake..its a crime...... he shld be punished........

very true well said he shud be punished n if he gets punished psychologically i dont think its wrong
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shijhu

exactly dats da point waise bhi its corretcly said when a guy n girl marries its a marriage bet two familie but a girl has to adjust accept nurture n keep on ding it her whole life but at wot cost dumping like a garbage by her won hubby its not to be taken anymore aaj ki naari knows to raise her voice against every torture n wot shaiendra did to aradhna is stabbing her trust

yeah true Shijhu......... aaj ki naar ab woh abla nahin rahin.. ajsie ki pehle kehte they ki
Abla naari teri yahin kahani
aanchal mein dudh aankhon mein pani"
bt ab yeh change ho gaya hain.......... aaj ki naari knws abt her rights..........
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: princezna

yeah true Shijhu......... aaj ki naar ab woh abla nahin rahin.. ajsie ki pehle kehte they ki
Abla naari teri yahin kahani
aanchal mein dudh aankhon mein pani"
bt ab yeh change ho gaya hain.......... aaj ki naari knws abt her rights..........

well said aaj ki naari sabla hai she does everything including pampering her hubby like a child but when he does soemthing bad she knows how to ctrl her life without getting emotionally shattered
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Well the topic of JKBH is quite sensitive....

But the bottom line is not to show whether the girl is doing right/wrong, it's to show the double standard of the society.... I hate Extra Marital Affairs and m not gonna support anything related to this....I will not like the step of Aradhana's as well....But I will hate it if tht f*****g Shailendra gets escaped from being questioned and Aradhana will be stuck to answer to to her in-laws😔I have a guts feeling that her Mom-in-law will be helping her to get divorced from her spoilt brat and will help aradhana....I want divorce, not EMA😔😔

A woman has FULL right to get her happiness...but before that, divorce is a MUST😔😔



Great discussion guysšŸ‘šŸ‘ I agree with u, it is not a question of wrong or right, it is a question of hypocrisy in the society that this show is trying to portray. I bet when Shailendra's parents find out about his affair, they will get upset at him but be willing to forgive him if he promises to 'fix' his ways but when they find out about Aradhana's infidelity, they will never forgive or understand her and in fact accuse of her for being a 'slut' and 'immoral'

Both shailendra and aradhana are wrong in straying outside their marriage without divorcing each other but it's the hypocrisy of the society that this show is trying to portray.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi



Great discussion guysšŸ‘šŸ‘ I agree with u, it is not a question of wrong or right, it is a question of hypocrisy in the society that this show is trying to portray. I bet when Shailendra's parents find out about his affair, they will get upset at him but be willing to forgive him if he promises to 'fix' his ways but when they find out about Aradhana's infidelity, they will never forgive or understand her and in fact accuse of her for being a 'slut' and 'immoral'

Both shailendra and aradhana are wrong in straying outside their marriage without divorcing each other but it's the hypocrisy of the society that this show is trying to portray.



Yes exactly😊Both are wrong, but then same laws should be applied to both😔😔

I want tht Mom-in-law to support my jaanuā­ļøšŸ˜³

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Posted: 16 years ago
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i wasnt saying that it is okay to have an extra marital affair.
i think wats going to happen is unlike shailender who KNOWS what he is doing by going around with other women and is consciously making those decisions, aradhana will unconsciously fall in love with the new guy and wont ACTUALLY have an illicit affair but rather that slowly they will begin to spend a lot of time together and then so on and so forth!
also, in this story, though maybe she is going to have an illicit affair, they are not showing that it is RIGHT to have an illicit affair either by a man or a woman, they are trying to portray how DIFFERENTLY both sexes are treated for committing the SAME crime.

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