Originally posted by: Hiphop_R
JB...agreed to sum of your points...but if you tell me dat ragini does not take decisions at the spur of the moment...i totally disagree...and it needs to be changed big tyme...60%- Ragini and 40% -Neil...and dere are examples dat u mentioned.Firstly talking abt the most renounced apology where ragini admits her mistake about doubting Neil's loyalty...Yes she did admit...but conveniently forgets to trust neil when ronnie throws an accusation...she immediately tells neil "I dont trust you" and walks out like we dont meet again... is dat not a decision at the spur of the moment..ok not at dat moment..but later should you not give neil a chance to defend himself...if he had not bothered to clear it out...dey were on the verge of committing another mistake..again a separation..is dat so easy.. just to walk out of each other's lives without thinking about the kids..so wat happens to the renounced apology...so its so easy for another person to ruin ur married life??? Secondly talking abt the aarav issue...how can it not be another at the spur of the moment decision..r u serious??? My son has gone to jail..and wat do i do for him..tell my ex husband to go back..fine but wat abt ur other kids..no consideration whatsoever...and i get engaged and try to move on in life...all dat im sayin is a decision sumwhere made so hastily...will make matters only worse..neil made a mistake and ragini screwd it up royally...aarav's life could have been saved from being ruined..so if a person has committed a mistake..wat will you do??? keep on taunting him till the end instead of finding a solution.
Next cumin to ragin's self respect...yes here i would blame Neil-70% and Ragini-30%...neil has to stop blaming ragini for evrythng and acknowledge his mistakes as well..and he got it right yesterday.. ragini has totally ruined neil and her relationship status in front of aman...evrytime only letting him down and neil on the other hand does d same...so dey both need to respect each other big tyme
I'm merely saying that most of her spur do the decisions have valid reasons as pointed out yet this audience seems to forget that all of her spur moments are reactions to bold events. As for her engagement to Aman, it is not clear whether it was a one moment aspect or divided over days hence I will not speak on that. Apart from that, other events that you pointed out have solid reasons as I've stated, misunderstandings could be cleared yet she is given reasons to react the way she does.
Yet you missed my point regardless, this is not the major problem. Try to see WHY Ragini took those hasty decisions instead of analyzing their time span solely. That is the major problem.
Since you understand the sum of my points, I do not wish to repeat them. However you do not understand my main ideas, I am not arguing that Ragini does not make hasty decisions in the spur of the moment, rather I am arguing why she makes them and that too with concrete reasons.
-as for the renounced apology, you do realize that Neil yet again hid the fact from Ragini about his incident with roopali. Therefore that page of information enforced her first decision and even then Ragini eventually agreed and reasonably only asked for his honesty in return.
-again the court decision had good reasons behind it which I already stated.
Why she told Neil to leave is also explained and they were not married, be it lovers she realized their parental methods were far from compromising and made a decision which was reasonable. Thinking along her lines, why should she marry someone again to only have another divorce again later. That is rather pitiful and cause their children to suffer even more so.
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