Ragini breaks engagement & gives verbal SLAP to Neel

I also don't like it how everybody blames Ragini for everything, even N's tomfoolery.

Same here Sun.

Though im very happy that she showed mirror to him,but she is equally responsilble for Nishi marriage.She was against it and one call from him,in anger she went ahead and fixed the marriage.she told RK and Aman during marriage that Nishis thinks this marriage is happening because of Neil,but she would have agreed anyhow for her happiness.

In no way im supoorying Neil.Im very very happy that finally she gave it back to him but just saying the issue of Nishi marriage,she too is equally responsible.

Pavan, it's more like who's responsible.

The first n true fact which ragini pointed about Neil that he is a selfish brother n yesss he is. Apart from letting all the responsibilities of his kids upbringing on Pam , he never thought about her to move on in life instead she is the one who always forced him. Even in India when he encountered RK being single n even waiting for Pam he never try to convince her for marriage as he has taken her For Granted... N that's very pity.
He always try to find the easy way out from the problem instead of solving them n clarify the same n go under hibernation repeatedly whether it was 15 years or that 9 months leap... He never wants to admit his own mistakes n take all accusations on himself as his biggest misery without analysing that the other person(Ragini) also going through the same. And this has to be understood by his loving sister Pam too who always been biased towards her brother n considered Ragini as his sole cause for all the miseries in her brother's life.
She is strong , she is a principled woman, she never let her broke in front of others but that doesn't mean that she doesn't get hurt but more as she doesnt let out her emotions that's y poor soul smtimes bcm frustrated n all take advantage of her strong headedness n yell on her frequently.
May Neil realise his mistakes n pls don't have one night stand with that woman 😕

Yes I loved both the scenes mentioned in the first post. But, I really didn't expect Aman to be so inconsiderate. He always used to proclaim that he would always be there for Ragini but now when he didn't get what he wanted, he showed his true colours and the way he pulled the engagement ring off Ragini's finger shows that his genteelness was just superficial.

I feel its more of Ragini's fault than Neil. She does not trust him n gives divorce. She has brought up the two kids with her capacity. Aman did wait for her. Same is with Pam. Neil brought up his three kids withhis capacity. He never forced the duty on Pam instead Pam being a very good sister took it as her responsibility n brought up kids.

She gave priority to kids n not her marriage. As they were living happily Neil had never thought of her but when it really came that she loves RK n wants to marry him, he did support her. You may say, she should have thought of her marriage.

Pam and Neil have really gave freedom to kids n they believe in that but still he is a protective father as he puts limits to his daughter Suhani n Kartik..like typical Indian father would do n not a Us father. But Ragini really nagged the kids.

Neil was not responsible to Neeshi's marriage. She again blamed him for not having 'rishtonki samaz'. I think she does not have rishtonki samaz. I do not say she is not a good mother..she is a good mother but has a different thinking process which do puts a lot of burden, a lot of expectation on kids.

She said, ...that is why you are alone...he is not alone ..he is with family with all children with him..if we have to think as a life partner..then he had Nivedita whom he left because of Ragini. She said nobody can tolerate him, or live with him...but the fact is Nivedita is waiting for him. Where was that dose of commitment when Neil told Nivedita that he can not marry her. He was always of the opinion that you should not tie knot just because of commitment..there should be love in the relation. Today she is also all alone as she has broke her engagement..

I am not at all against Ragini's character. This is how life is..how people are... some factors of Ragini are also present in many of mothers..like controlling kids. Fathers are more liberal in that sense. But whatever she blamed him ..I do not agree. For me both are responsible but she is more at fault.

She said sirf pyaar kafi nahi hota rishome..same is applicable to her relation with kids. she is a loving n caring mother but...