Originally posted by: psaniya
I feel its more of Ragini's fault than Neil. She does not trust him n gives divorce. She has brought up the two kids with her capacity. Aman did wait for her. Same is with Pam. Neil brought up his three kids withhis capacity. He never forced the duty on Pam instead Pam being a very good sister took it as her responsibility n brought up kids.
She gave priority to kids n not her marriage. As they were living happily Neil had never thought of her but when it really came that she loves RK n wants to marry him, he did support her. You may say, she should have thought of her marriage.
Pam and Neil have really gave freedom to kids n they believe in that but still he is a protective father as he puts limits to his daughter Suhani n Kartik..like typical Indian father would do n not a Us father. But Ragini really nagged the kids.
Neil was not responsible to Neeshi's marriage. She again blamed him for not having 'rishtonki samaz'. I think she does not have rishtonki samaz. I do not say she is not a good mother..she is a good mother but has a different thinking process which do puts a lot of burden, a lot of expectation on kids.
She said, ...that is why you are alone...he is not alone ..he is with family with all children with him..if we have to think as a life partner..then he had Nivedita whom he left because of Ragini. She said nobody can tolerate him, or live with him...but the fact is Nivedita is waiting for him. Where was that dose of commitment when Neil told Nivedita that he can not marry her. He was always of the opinion that you should not tie knot just because of commitment..there should be love in the relation. Today she is also all alone as she has broke her engagement..
I am not at all against Ragini's character. This is how life is..how people are... some factors of Ragini are also present in many of mothers..like controlling kids. Fathers are more liberal in that sense. But whatever she blamed him ..I do not agree. For me both are responsible but she is more at fault.
She said sirf pyaar kafi nahi hota rishome..same is applicable to her relation with kids. she is a loving n caring mother but...
Totally agree with u.
Ragini was dictating to Nishi nd Aarav so dey started disliking her.Neil never did .
Because of Ragini she called her pappa for help ,For marrying Jignesh(Ragini was against) nd wen she was sick.She knows her Dad will be der for her.
Ragini puts all the blame on neil which is nt rite.
Whatever mistake Ragini did before , nt trusting Neil , d same mistake Nishi is doing. by nt trusting jignesh.
Aman showed his true color .Anyone will talk about marriage wen her daughters marriage is in d verge of breaking..He is nt bother about anyone he is selfish.The way he snatched d Ring from Ragini was ridiculous.
Let's c wat Navidita will do to pull Neil to her side.
Edited by jyothi- - 10 years ago
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