21 May : AARAV gone for 2 years = good riddance - Page 25

Originally posted by: poetic

Actually, I didn't understand that bit at all. Why did N let A go out all alone to hide from BB?

Originally posted by: sun29

stupid writing what else...it would have atealst made sense if he directly went to station to elope without consulting his father at all...atleast that would have saved neil's character to some extent...but it seems they needed to make him look like an idiot right before the leap ..let alone a father ..even if it was RK or karan or dimpy in his place they would have hid aarav in their house and stayed with him along with informing the parent and not leave him to find his way on the streets and g out on a date...and fine if he got him a bungalow to hide..why could he not drop him off to that bunglaow instead of asking him to take a bus...this is mumbai ..people get abducted in broad daylight from the crowd also...and it was night time already and aarav was super scared ...he leaves him all alone and goes..i do not blame ragini for lashing out whether her words made sense or not...he was dealing with a gangster ..

Originally posted by: xyze

I agree with your point about Ragini...that is probably her only and the biggest drawback. She fails to express her emotions in the correct manner.

She shows her care and concern for kids through words that make her come across as a controlling, strict and insensitive mother.

All her goodness and love is unseen by the kids because she uses anger to show it.

Unfortunately, only few people manage to look through it- Neil, agham, suhani, ashaben and sunnytai.

And among them, its only Neil who can handle her. Reminds me of what dimpy told Pam once. " hum sab Ragini ko sirf jaante hain, Neil use samajhta hai".

And another misfortune is that Neil's patience is much less than what is required to break the wall around her.( and I don't blame him for this, the wall has become very old and strong in the last fifteen years, it isn't an easy task to break it.)

This is what happened yesterday. Neil knows that she loves him. Her anger is her sadness regarding aarav. He knows she is broken. He tried to handle her, but her despair was too much for her to see sense at that point of time. She kept on blabbering in anger and Neil lost his patience and gave up.

The irony is that Neil has calmness to handle kids in a correct manner which Ragini lacks and Ragini keeps tabs on her children to see if they don't loose their way which Neil fails to do. Each has got the quality which the other lacks and they can do wonderful parenting as a unit.

Its their separation that spoils everything, for them as well as the kids.

Originally posted by: Vidya_Bng

Exactly My Point Son,

How much effort it takes to Protect Your Son... that too when nachiket knows that Arav is Ragini's Life.

How can a father leave his son all alone... Shocking and Hurting

Originally posted by: NeiRaFreak

Wow guys ... Wonderful discussion ... Sun and xyz 👏
I hope NB once read at least you two's discussion to know what characters have she made... Specially what mess has she created out of Nachiket

But guys don't bother yourself much as I posted before one of her tweet a acknowledging about getting mmemory wash after leap and start a fresh 😆

Originally posted by: sun29

let us forget what happened and take a leap like the show...the past would never make sense just like what happened 15 years ago too never made sense...let us spend our weekend discussing those pictures on the walls at ragini's place...it surely was ragini's place