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Reading this story is like knowingly purchasing agony. I am someone who always prefers to read stories which entertain you but also make you smile at the end.But this story is not going to give me that, whatever the end is,it is not going to be what I wish.I wish to read this story in one go instead of getting into emotional turmoil for a long period .Infact I wish I just discontinue reading it, but every week I comeback here and endure ..

About the plot, i remember reading Pandora's Box, where Arnav cheated on khushi. But there the Arnav author portrayed was imperfect,had a dark past and so on. So his action felt somewhat justified.But here i absolutely cannot relate to your Arnav. You want to show Arnav as responsible man who understands khushi and vice-versa with out even words,who understands how precious khushi is ,how innocent khushi is, how fragile Khushi is and so on...Still he cheated on her when the reasons like " having baby, felt lonely, parents...etc" felt not adequate to me.And i didn't feel this Arnav had a temper to do things with out any thoughts.So i honestly Can't relate to him,his characterization.Also i read author commenting Arnav asking divorce was his one of the biggest mistakes. I don't understand that. I mean, only good thing he did was asking khushi divorce after cheating on her. She deserves better,not a man of no substance.I mean, he is not a teenage boy who can get seduced when some one tries. And Arnav blaming Lavanya and her pa for divorce news getting leaked and giving punishment shows his hypocrisy.He gave khushi ultimate pain and he thinks he can punish others for the pain khushi endured shows his double standards.

Arnav be like" Lav, Manali, Shyam and khushi's villagers ,you guys have no right to Hurt khushi, it is my sole right.Got it."

I don't think Lavanya is the culprit, because Arnav is the one who cheated. Society often blame woman (other woman) for wrecking a family while real culprit is justified.Heights of hypocrisy.

I believe there is no "HEA" or just "Ever After" for them.Because problems can arise again and he might escape from them by cheating on her again.There will be no trust. I hope she finds happiness,with or without a man(not Arnav) .I hope she finds herself, finds her happiness.

And yes if author can tell a date when this story is going to end, please do.I cannot go through this emotional turmoil, better read it in one go.

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

Arnav dad was using his son hard earned money to maintain or revive his royalty by continuing to do charity in his village. Rather than the folks becoming independent they were in perpetual welfare! I will not be surprise if Arnav one day had a showdown about this. It was required to remove one kids glove…and say things the way it is.

Arnav and Khushi. They wanted different things. He finally pursued outdoor hobbies he enjoyed. He started living a life more independently.

Khushi no matter how much he showered love on her had insecurities of not fitting (or liking) with his lifestyle. Khushi finally realized that Arnav was more important than anything else and was willing to do everything like he desired but by then he had moved on.

He found companionship with Lavanya. They bonded maybe the two have shared interests.

I will not be surprised if he also found commonality with his La …maybe her income maintains her parents/ family lavish lifestyle. Just like him.

The vanilla fragrance that was appealing as a young man has lost its appeal. So he not been able to stand Khushi presence matches as his companionship with lavanya grew. (Answers my disgust..toxic environment as Khushi mused)

It is often said that many times one has an affair to find an excuse to end a unhappy union.

So he had an affair or he is genuinely attracted to La. But he is a honest man and knows that was wrong as he is married..so he filed for divorce.

For once I do agree with him..he deserves to live his life. A mantra which everyone seems to sing that Khushi will never will be able to move away for him. She loves him. As he is her universe. Payal said it , he himself has mused. Talk about an emotional blackmail and burdening a person. Is couple love not about two people loving each other?

Next chapter is about his relationship with his La. I feel by the end of it It will be that no one is fault. Lavanya genuinely loves him. Manali does always think about Lavanya, wish she would have been patient and not send the pictures to Khushi. Or maybe Manali did and Lavanya is innocent.

Yes this is Arnav's story . I am now satisfied with why he wanted a divorce. His intentions were not bad but there were some unforseen events.
I am not curious to know more about how’s and why’s about his affair/relationship with La. Unless it is important for the two being a end game.

Ps. I have chosen not to write anything about Khushi heartbreak. Not sure what new I can write from my previous comments.

Yeah, Arnav’s father has been wrong. He admitted he has been wrong about more things as well in the past. As I said, you’re right, Arnav did feel trapped. Why he acted out the way he did, we will see in the next couple of chapters. Yes, infidelity in all cases is wrong. I will leave you guys with a clearer picture in the next updates :)

This is a great discussion guys. The thing is that a lot of it is in the grey area 😅😅😅

Someone sent me a very frustrated email and I actually laughed out loud and your discussion reminded me of that. She wrote -

“Do you want me to hate Arnav or not? Just give me what happened between him and Lavanya so I can hate him in peace. I don’t like oscillation between the urge to murder him and than pity him the next second for all that he went through”

I think she’s right. Unless I tell you guys the full picture of affair, it’s not easy to make up the minds about what to do with this highly frustrating ASR. 😅😅😅

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

There are clearly underlying themes to Arnav’s behaviour. These problems were always there, but it seemed non existent up until now when he reacted rather strongly and poorly to everything. Baby’s demands, cutting down time with his parents. Please note that despite a strained relationship, he does have one with his parents. He was looking at his father’s treatments and had informed the family about divorce himself.

Because as much as Hindi serials make us believe, people don’t just wa

K away from family. Khushi right now is angry too. Does that mean she severed ties with them? Hell, no. People also don’t put conditions in front of their parents. Sometimes, few topics always leave you at an impasse.

Right and wrong in the coming chapters are going to be very subjective. I’m prepared for reading the discussion between you guys 😊😊♥️♥️♥️♥️

I am saying putting conditions on parents in not serious but positive way... Anrav's mom and dad both are ailing and it's hard for Arnav to visit often or take care sitting in Mumbai.. Parents always love and dote on their grandkids, especially Arnav's mom showed her desire even before marriage so they at least would visit often and then might feel comfortable to revisit the decision... It is very normal process for parents and their adult sons / daughters once they realize they can't stay alone in old age and need help...

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

Read the chapter Arpita, it's a calm before the storm chapter. I am just going to take some time to digest this and then will comment

Originally posted by: tashi26

I completely understand what you are saying, in fact it was magnanimous of him to bring Khushi out of Umanagar, he hated that place. I also feel Khushi should take the alimony so that it can assuage some of Arnav’s guilt.

You can’t force someone to love you and I believe khushi understands this.

P.s Wouldn’t it be wonderful as Arnav wanted, he and khushi become best friends after their divorce or rather Lavanya and khushi become best friends. And then Arnav dances at khushi wedding, is genuinely worried for her when she is in labour and having her husbands child(like he was for Payal). They are friends now after all.

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

This is a great discussion guys. The thing is that a lot of it is in the grey area 😅😅😅

Someone sent me a very frustrated email and I actually laughed out loud and your discussion reminded me of that. She wrote -

“Do you want me to hate Arnav or not? Just give me what happened between him and Lavanya so I can hate him in peace. I don’t like oscillation between the urge to murder him and than pity him the next second for all that he went through”

I think she’s right. Unless I tell you guys the full picture of affair, it’s not easy to make up the minds about what to do with this highly frustrating ASR. 😅😅😅

Originally posted by: Sonalikarhi

Handsown you are best in creating a emotional atmosphere..loved the way you have written every single scene with such packed emotions. I litterly can fell khushi's emotions..started hating arnav a little bit. Little bit because i am not sure whats his excuse for his sins but surely its unforgivable. Both khushi and arnav has drifted away but khushi not for once thought of running away from him. He was always the center of her universe. But will have to wait for whats the reasons he has issues about work, family & khushi from his pov. Maybe he was not surrounded by the family but outer world that may be one of the reason. But right now i cant help but feel hate towards him. Thanjs for the wonderful update.

Do you have any schedule for updates if not i dont mind stalking 😁

I generally update on weekends. Saturday or Sunday 😊

Originally posted by: oleeviya

Reading this story is like knowingly purchasing agony. I am someone who always prefers to read stories which entertain you but also make you smile at the end.But this story is not going to give me that, whatever the end is,it is not going to be what I wish.I wish to read this story in one go instead of getting into emotional turmoil for a long period .Infact I wish I just discontinue reading it, but every week I comeback here and endure ..

About the plot, i remember reading Pandora's Box, where Arnav cheated on khushi. But there the Arnav author portrayed was imperfect,had a dark past and so on. So his action felt somewhat justified.But here i absolutely cannot relate to your Arnav. You want to show Arnav as responsible man who understands khushi and vice-versa with out even words,who understands how precious khushi is ,how innocent khushi is, how fragile Khushi is and so on...Still he cheated on her when the reasons like " having baby, felt lonely, parents...etc" felt not adequate to me.And i didn't feel this Arnav had a temper to do things with out any thoughts.So i honestly Can't relate to him,his characterization.Also i read author commenting Arnav asking divorce was his one of the biggest mistakes. I don't understand that. I mean, only good thing he did was asking khushi divorce after cheating on her. She deserves better,not a man of no substance.I mean, he is not a teenage boy who can get seduced when some one tries. And Arnav blaming Lavanya and her pa for divorce news getting leaked and giving punishment shows his hypocrisy.He gave khushi ultimate pain and he thinks he can punish others for the pain khushi endured shows his double standards.

Arnav be like" Lav, Manali, Shyam and khushi's villagers ,you guys have no right to Hurt khushi, it is my sole right.Got it."

I don't think Lavanya is the culprit, because Arnav is the one who cheated. Society often blame woman (other woman) for wrecking a family while real culprit is justified.Heights of hypocrisy.

I believe there is no "HEA" or just "Ever After" for them.Because problems can arise again and he might escape from them by cheating on her again.There will be no trust. I hope she finds happiness,with or without a man(not Arnav) .I hope she finds herself, finds her happiness.

And yes if author can tell a date when this story is going to end, please do.I cannot go through this emotional turmoil, better read it in one go.

Hey Oleeviya. I can understand the kind of emotions the story induces. If you want to visit after the story has ended, I believe it’s going to take another 3-4 months.

The comment about Arnav asking for divorce being a mistake was Arnav’s musing in the story. He was so sure of Khushi being unhappy with him too that when the letter came forward, he was shocked. He then did wondered if he made a blunder with divorce proceedings.

About Arnav’s character, this is exactly why his betrayal stings more. It wasn’t expected out of a man like him. I mean Payal knows he is hiding something and has divorced Khushi, and she still doesn’t think it has something to do with infidelity. Someone in the earlier comments pointed this out quite cleverly.

Apart from that, Arnav clearly has deep reservations about the place. His anger had landed on himself too for putting Khushi in a situation. He had decided to divorce her, but la and Manali’s stupidity almost forced her into a marriage with a monster. He is obviously angry on them, but if you go to previous chapters he clearly knows his role in the story too.

I was on the edge of my seat throughout. As much as the history leading up to this moment was important, I cannot help but wait with bated breath to read the encounter between the 2 of them.

As much as pitied Arnav for trying to be his best to be by his family even when they forced him to do things beyond his beliefs. All the pity was washed away in a wave when I saw the photos through Khushi's eyes. His "thing" with Lavanya was not just a one-time thing, it was a full-blown affair.

Seeing how their relationship was during the early years, Arnav was the mature one who communicated and made Khushi understand his previous relationship, even when Khushi was afraid. Why couldn't he do the same? As much as the couple needed to communicate, I would forgive him if would share his pain with his friends instead of running into the arms of another woman.

Oh, and my heart just sobs for Khushi. My heart just cries for her. Finding that your husband is having an affair, just when you have gone above and beyond to do everything you could to salvage this relationship. Her resilience to put on the mask and have not an ounce of hatred for Arnav for all those years of companionship, if not love.

This was such a cliffhanger!!! I need to read the Showdown. I need Khushi to stand up for herself and give Arnav a taste of his own medicine. I don't know what made him agree to have a kid with Khushi, but I am glad that they don't have a child together. If this was where the relationship was headed, the child did not deserve to fall into this mess. Thank god for Khushi to take the right decision and not get off her pills.

I am sooo angry at Arnav at the moment, and the people around me are going to wonder who this hatred is directed to. It's hard to see a redemption arc for Arnav from this betrayal