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Originally posted by: tashi26

Can I again say same here sister 🙈. I am not a silent reader, I used to comment but they would be like really small, though I did improve with time plus my interaction with forum members was limited but with this story I just need to read all comments and share my opinion. I can be wrong but when Arnav asked Aman where Khushi was she was ready for the party and stylists had left. But when Khushi had spoken to Aman then she was crying and stylists had just come.

Even I am not a reader/writer who indulged this much in comments guys. But loving it nonetheless :D

Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi

BollyBabe - Love your name by the way!

Absolutely, the control freak Arnav here was thrown off by not so expected reaction from Khushi! It makes me think, is he saddist to expect Khushi to cry, beg him to stay in the marriage while he planned to use Lavanya as excuse to convince her for divorce! Gives me jitters to even think..

I am still giving Arnav a benefit of doubt not knowing extent of his involvement with Lavanya, he might have remembered Khushi's reaction when he disclosed his relationship with Anamika, her thoughts about the marriage and it's sanctity and mainly her love and devotion towards him.. Arnav assumed Khushi would never want to break the marriage which is true until she knows he cheated on her! Of course he is used to making all decision including not have kids, divorce and list goes on!

He might have felt sleeping with Lavanya was nail in the coffin for their marriage! But if he had full fledged affair with Lavanya, he is a lost cause. And come to think of it the way he was talking to Lavanya and Manali, maybe he did have an affair with Lavanya and he was prepared for the outcome of leaving Khushi. He was more focused on hiding the pics for his image and not thinking about Khushi will feel. He decided not to tell her when she easily agreed for the divorce.

You are so right, if Arnav had got his opportunity to explain /manipulate Khushi how divorce is the right decision, he would have used it for himself to get closure! His restlessnes is more to do with his control freak nature and Khushi not abiding by his rules and expectations anymore..

And I also like the new Khushi, still submissive but is reading things through the facade people put out there... She is reading Shyam extremely well and hope takes the right decision for herself... I hope she reads through Arnav as well one day that how much ever she loved him, he is not worth her anymore if he has cheated on her..

Khushi should use exact same tactics of deserting him without talks when he admits to his affair in front of Khushi... But our brilliant writer will surprise all of us, I have no doubt...

Thank you, guys, for trusting the story. ❤️ I understand the frustration with Arnav's POV. A person can be right about so many things and still be horribly wrong about a few others. I also know that a lot of readers are waiting for a track that gives them a closure about Arnav's pre divorce behavior with Khushi. But as i have stated earlier, the FF would never make excuses for his infidelity, even if it feels like it does. This is a very imperfect story of very imperfect people. And some mistakes in life, are irredeemable. I also read someone saying they wished Arnav has not cheated. I wish I could pacify them but at this point at least, the story has already established it. Arnav has done this. That part of the story and Arnav/Khushi's life is done and dusted. Both of them cannot do anythig to change it. How they go about it now, once it is out in the open, is the only way to move forward not only in this story, but life :)

Originally posted by: tashi26

First of all its alright and secondly this topic is really sensitive and what Khushi is growing through has really touched all the readers at some deeper level. So it’s completely fine 🤗🤗.

I know cases where men cheat and woman takes the brunt and not all woman walk out. It’s not easy you know. So Khushi walking out shows her strength (I feel she knows about Lavanya). It doesn’t mean women who do not are weak, living with a cheater takes a lot from you.

Also, I somehow wish Arnav has actually not really cheated. Please also understand I never blame the other woman if men actually cheat. I know these discussions are really taxing. I am doing it just so that I can let it all out because honestly I am feeling very emotional with this story.

As you said healthy discussions are important, it helps us understand a different pov and grow as an individual.

Also I trust writerji for handling this topic.🤗🤗

I do understand it guys, believe me. Cheating is a topic that is bound to elicit strong reactions from everyone involved. it is a topic that is personally hard for me to write even. That is why I was worried that some of my personal beliefs will slip into the story, and I will divert from the original storyline/ending. for now, I have made a promise to myself that I will stick to the original storyline. No matter what.

At times, I want to completely backpedal on Khushi's character and write for her to emerge as this woman who doesn't need anyone anymore. Husband, family, friends. But there are limitations that the story poses on her character. She cannot just get up and start fighting for herself one day when she has been beaten down by life in one of the worst ways possible. I have stopped telling myself if it is an Arnav story, A khaushi story or a couple's story. I will see it through the end, and let you guys decide that. :)

Till then, believe me when I say I am loving these POVs. All of them. It is a matter of pride to me that my writing is important enough to discuss and I dont say that very often. This is the very reason I write anonymously. My IRL friends might just lose their minds if they find out I have this whole other world that is just mine. And you guys are making it worth it :)

Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi

Tashi,

My personal apology and glad that you and I stand on the same ground...

I agree with you, I am getting over emotional with one angle and over thinking... I have seen real Arnav in my life and I will share the experience once we get to know Lavanya details...

At one point yesterday, I was even debating in my mind even to continue reading or not, but I have decided to be strong and see through the end of the tunnel... I need to stop remembering things, digging things too for my own sanity!

I have decided just stick to the story and one comment and not overly involve! In no way I meant to hurt your feelings girl... I hope my apology reaches you because I mean it from my heart!

That is exactly what I planned, though I don't know how much I am succeeding in it but I am trying. That is why i said yesterday that it takes everything in me to control the urge of not replying everyone. And the fact that each of you write such intense thought provoking comments makes it harder. But i am trying hard, as getting this overly involved and continuously commenting had taken me to a space where i just could not take this story out of head. I have teared up while praying, meditating, just after waking up in the morning, and the cherry on the top was in the middle of writing my exam, yes you heard it right. That is when i decided i cannot go like this, felling this gloomy all throughout the day and tearing up in such important situations, and the worst thing is how do you even explain this situation to an onlooker, like tearing up in the middle of an exam for what because you remembered khushi?!

Ufffff! I was EXHAUSTED mentally and then i decided i need to take a break for 1 or 2 chapters and during that time even writerji didn't updated for nearly 2 weeks so it helped a little and now atleast i am not tearing up in mid of nothing.

The fact that you have crossed paths with an Arnav in your real life I can understand it can get too much for you. Take your time and do what feels right for your sanity.❤

I understand everything that you say Tashi, crying, shivering, commenting because you need to take it out of your system, can't help but still read everything including replies to each & every comment. Give it some time, this initial flood of emotions will subside gradually.❤

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

Even I am not a reader/writer who indulged this much in comments guys. But loving it nonetheless :D

I am not too, i was mute all these years, this is my first and the intensity surprises me.

Credit- You dear writerji.❤

You in future can think about publishing this.

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

I do understand it guys, believe me. Cheating is a topic that is bound to elicit strong reactions from everyone involved. it is a topic that is personally hard for me to write even. That is why I was worried that some of my personal beliefs will slip into the story, and I will divert from the original storyline/ending. for now, I have made a promise to myself that I will stick to the original storyline. No matter what.

At times, I want to completely backpedal on Khushi's character and write for her to emerge as this woman who doesn't need anyone anymore. Husband, family, friends. But there are limitations that the story poses on her character. She cannot just get up and start fighting for herself one day when she has been beaten down by life in one of the worst ways possible. I have stopped telling myself if it is an Arnav story, A khaushi story or a couple's story. I will see it through the end, and let you guys decide that. :)

Till then, believe me when I say I am loving these POVs. All of them. It is a matter of pride to me that my writing is important enough to discuss and I dont say that very often. This is the very reason I write anonymously. My IRL friends might just lose their minds if they find out I have this whole other world that is just mine. And you guys are making it worth it :)

I cried and was shivering and actually needed time to gather myself.

I need to start disassociating my personal beliefs as a reader too and understand that Khushi is not me. Though in my heart I wish she learns to prioritise herself.

Whatever you have decided about the end, I will try and understand it. It may make me grow as an individual.

This topic is such that some strong emotions come out and I really appreciate that you are so understanding as a writer. At the end it is your story.

P.s I feel like appreciating my mother more though I do that but god just run and hug her. Because I know if I was Khushi, my mum would have told me to get out of this marriage and not adjust with a cheater. Believe me when I say this she is from a small town, where women adjust and adjust.

Originally posted by: tashi26

Oh god, I had actually thought that Arnav just stopped before he slept with Lavanya, had thought may be he was going to but good sense prevailed. Even after reading 8 chapters I had faith in Arnav that may be if not love he respected Khushi. I know it does not happen in real world. And this story is too real.

I cried and was shivering and actually needed time to gather myself.

I need to start disassociating my personal beliefs as a reader too and understand that Khushi is not me. Though in my heart I wish she learns to prioritise herself.

Whatever you have decided about the end, I will try and understand it. It may make me grow as an individual.

This topic is such that some strong emotions come out and I really appreciate that you are so understanding as a writer. At the end it is your story.

P.s I feel like appreciating my mother more though I do that but god just run and hug her. Because I know if I was Khushi, my mum would have told me to get out of this marriage and not adjust with a cheater. Believe me when I say this she is from a small town, where women adjust and adjust.

Please hug your mum for me too. What have we done to deserve mothers? ❤️

I have always felt i lucked out in the parents' department. But as I am growing up, i can understand the extent of struggles they went through to give me a good life. They are my whole support system.

Yeah, the end of the story will remain the same. don't worry about it. And about me understanding the different POVs, that's just a bi product of knowing that this is a severely sensitive topic. I knew the story is uncomfortable. Both to write and read.

But so far, I am enjoying the ride :)

Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

That is exactly what I planned, though I don't know how much I am succeeding in it but I am trying. That is why i said yesterday that it takes everything in me to control the urge of not replying everyone. And the fact that each of you write such intense thought provoking comments makes it harder. But i am trying hard, as getting this overly involved and continuously commenting had taken me to a space where i just could not take this story out of head. I have teared up while praying, meditating, just after waking up in the morning, and the cherry on the top was in the middle of writing my exam, yes you heard it right. That is when i decided i cannot go like this, felling this gloomy all throughout the day and tearing up in such important situations, and the worst thing is how do you even explain this situation to an onlooker, like tearing up in the middle of an exam for what because you remembered khushi?!

Ufffff! I was EXHAUSTED mentally and then i decided i need to take a break for 1 or 2 chapters and during that time even writerji didn't updated for nearly 2 weeks so it helped a little and now atleast i am not tearing up in mid of nothing.

The fact that you have crossed paths with an Arnav in your real life I can understand it can get too much for you. Take your time and do what feels right for your sanity.❤

I understand everything that you say Tashi, crying, shivering, commenting because you need to take it out of your system, can't help but still read everything including replies to each & every comment. Give it some time, this initial flood of emotions will subside gradually.❤

As I have said earlier Puja, I know the topic is sensitive. And as much as I appreciate your love and support to the FF, Asli Duniya is always a priority. I will say the same thing to you Arshi. Do whatever you feel like is needed for your peace of mind guys. The story isn't going anywhere ❤️

Arpita,

We want your story and not the story last minute influenced by our thoughts... None of us want to be in the situation Khushi is in but as you said, every situation, people involved still might be different and the outcomes as well...

Some of them don't deserve forgiveness but some of them do, who knows! I would love to read your version...

I will be strong enough to read and live through for sure... It's some memories bother me, I will share it today after work hours...

I have read like a hudred stories here but never reacted like this one, so take a bow! Your writing has been phenomenal stirring our emotions like crazy!

Cheers,

Swati

Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi

Arpita,

We want your story and not the story last minute influenced by our thoughts... None of us want to be in the situation Khushi is in but as you said, every situation, people involved still might be different and the outcomes as well...

Some of them don't deserve forgiveness but some of them do, who knows! I would love to read your version...

I will be strong enough to read and live through for sure... It's some memories bother me, I will share it today after work hours...

I have read like a hudred stories here but never reacted like this one, so take a bow! Your writing has been phenomenal stirring our emotions like crazy!

Cheers,

Swati

Also, I don’t think I’m qualified enough to give suggestions on someone’s personal life, but all I can say is good luck and good wishes to you. No matter how much we think, life doesn’t stop for one person. Things always get better with time. Always. I hope whatever experience you are referring to, serves to make you even stronger. Lots of love ♥️♥️♥️