DC - Reflections 73

Originally posted by: redwine1

WHOA WHOA ... i know u guys are wondering how come i am writing on a MONDAY ... well i do have my days 😉

I read thru a DC (fridays) after a long time .. & i came across a discussion of the 4th page between Arshi & Poona ... pasting the same below ..

Hi Ruby,

Glad to read your thoughts on the abandonment scene ... Agree with you completely that it is an internal battle for him throughout ... Even before Khushi showed up ... He has been fighting his Demons ... And now she is accusing him of being one ... He is scared he may more like his dad than he chooses to believes ... His battle is constant ... And his actions reflect that ... He will later on admit to Khushi (Lavanya ) Mein jan booj kar nahi karat ... Mujahay sacch main patta nahi hota ki mein Kay kar raha ho ... Not his exact words but ... para phrasing ...

For me ... The road incident is between him and Khushi ... And is similar to dropping her from the office window ... Both have their backs against the wall ... Neither is ready to back down ... These are not well thought of mulled decisions ... But rather ... reactions ... Careless and in the heat of the moment kind of daring poker moves ... Upping the ante ... Garhi mein batho ... Jab tak aap mafi nahi magogay ... Toh phir ... Who crumbles first ...

Loved the room scene ... His frustration ... His anger ... Her belligerence ... Her tears ... His own stupidity ... It is a battle of a Rajkumar ... And sets out find her coz he is one ... Completely agree ... But he is Khushi's Rajkumar ... Can't really equate the candle wax scene ... But he rushes to help Khushi and not Lavanya ... Her tears are the ones that melt him ...

But I truly believe he would have done it for any girl ... I mean any decent human being would have done that ... He is not such a troll ... But any decent human being wouldn't have left her in the middle of the road to begin with ... I am rambling ... 😛

I dunno if you got a chance to read what I wrote in context with your question ... I have posted what I wrote in response earlier ... I have a slightly different take on the scene ... I do believe he wanted her to turn around and see him ... I watched the scene again and that is how I felt ... He is seeing her sense him for the first time ... For an unbelieving man this has too be somewhat of a shaking ... He see that she feels it too ... He did not do it to make her see ... I came looking for you ... My original response below ...

Now to your question ... For me ... And I only always speak for myself ... It was very very apparent that in that "mehsoos" moment he waits for her to turn around to see him ... I think this is his first time witnessing that she too feels what he feels ( please correct me if I am wrong) ... He wants her to turn and see him ... Not to see that he came looking for her ... But just because of the strength of their connection ... He is not the kind to hide ... Peeping through windows ... Unlike someone else we know .. So all the while he was there ... He was not doing anything to hide his presence as much as he was not doing anything to make his her aware of his presence ... I think the moment is lost ... And he feels the "drooped connection" so to speak .. And leaves ...

Good to have this conversation ... Ruby ...

Edited by Ipoona - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: nishu_shorna

Superb...Poona... ArshiHamesha... and also Ruby...you guys are awesome...I'm going to watch episode 73 now...

Originally posted by: Arshics

Arnav and Khushi:

A romance that is couched in anger

Their dance of passion couched in games of attack and counter attack

Each going all out to prove that what they feel for the other is nafrat and not pyaar

and because for khushi loving is her second nature

she can handle it better

for Arnav love was something not to be

He doesn't believe in stupid romantic nonsense

So obviously he refutes his love with greater passion and intensity!

beautiful post from you again Ipoona, you make the whole episode come alive with your picturesque posts

Originally posted by: redwine1

WHOA WHOA ... i know u guys are wondering how come i am writing on a MONDAY ... well i do have my days 😉

I read thru a DC (fridays) after a long time .. & i came across a discussion of the 4th page between Arshi & Poona ... pasting the same below ..

At this point when he left in the middle of the road was just due to his anger towards Khushi, I don't think he was thinking of taking any revenge or trying to get even with Khushi for what she did during the Janamashtami by bringing him down in the Pooja.

Only time he was actually trying to be taking revenge or rather I should say be mean to her was during the "Farak Padtha" track. Even though he had declared that he would marry Lavanaya on the Diwali night, he never intended to do so. He had realized his mistake right after he had made this hasty decision and that is why he stopped any further developments for his marriage right away. He was very much aware of his feelings as well hers and that is why he says to his Di, Jab pyar nahi karti to kaise nibhagee sadi zindagi. Kya kisi ne zabardasti ki thi. OF course she was compelled to engage to Shyam, which she never wanted too. Her heart was always against that alliance. Arnav was totally in a confused state of mind, he did not want to accept his feelings for Khushi and at the same time he could think of her belonging to someone else. HIs this attitude confused Khushi further as she also could not understand what he really wanted from her.

I am still trying to understand, he broke up his engagement with Lavanya because he realized that he was not being reasonable to her for using her for his own benefit or he had actually realized that he did care a lot about khushi and was very important to him. I think he always knew that he did not love Lavanya.

Originally posted by: ArshiHamesha

EPISODE 73

EPI STARTS where Khushi wants La to get the idea of the significance of the Marriage through Ramayan and then Sindoor and then Radha Krishna's story.La irrites ,"tumhari har baat Shadi par khatum Kyon hoti hai"[Why everything of yours is related with marriage...

PONDERING POINT:Though Khushi herself has to learn that too as she is denying Sindoor's significance and her Arnavji's in her life under the banner of"eik chutki Sindoor" which dropped all over her like an ocean of Sindoor by Arnav.Anjali's hint got the target unintentionally and Khushi was about to dive in it when the ocean came right to her Jalaibi Bai.

Pause here"Radha Krishna story to La as they were not married reminding me the Suhaag Raat which went upside down for them and for us but Indi's story was awesome.

Arnav wants to have BIG meeting at home and want "No garbar"[no disturbance]Khushi,"hum khuch ghalat nahin kar rahe eik ghalat insaan ko uski sahi jagha dikha rahe hain"[I am not doing anything wrong but to show a wrong person the difference between right and wrong] He throw me out of car,force me to leave the job and broke my phone too...Folks AS I am saying over and over time has been frozen for them."Hisaab Barabar karna hai dono nain"[They want to be equal at their terms] He sensed her "garbar" on his phone.

Garbar of "Jailaibi bai" was heard loud and clear to everyone in the house as Queen got her King a new throne today.A throne of "Jaiaibi Bai".Ok Akhroo you want to throw her out ,now she is throwing her tantrum out through your phone ."Aur panga lo iss se"...She is not done yet.Love how the house ladies were making fun at the "Flustered King" of the house...as Naniji'"Ms Kushyp wanders around your room in the night may be she is behind it as "Character Dheela."

Queen's next move to wet the throne of shoes with mango juice.Arnav sees her coming smiling while walking towards his room in his throne.Her mimicking was way too cute only Khushi could possibly do that.Sanaya was superb.👏👏👏

"Shurup"'Shurup" 'Shurup..King is walking down with his noisy juicy throne to provide another laughter to the house ladies.His anger has no limits this time.Anjali,"Hum samjhe tumhari bachpan ki aadat laut aeyi hai"[I thought your childhood habits are back]'throws another round of laughter but Khushi's"Mango juice Mamji ,aap aur leingi" was the last nail in this throne' He glares at Khushi but throws his tantrum at La'"Very Funny"

Pause here:"kal ki meeting mein apna decision bata diya tha ab mujhe kuch nahin suna hai"[I told my decision yesterday and I don't want to hear anything now] hmmm'indicates his inner turmoil as he wants her out of his life but then why did you go back to search for her Akhroo.😆

Missed this one too ... He wants her gone ... But no one is listening to him ... 😊

Pondering point:Whenever they are in front of each other ,they are always make and take rash decisions.Their distance brings them closer.As During Telepathy,Arnav,When I go away from you always think to get back to you"

Lovely point ... Their distance brings them closer ... I forgot what I was going to say ... Am staring at Arnav in white and black below 😃 Lovely collage ...

Symbolism:Two Mangoes [mango juice in 2 shoes]

Mango symbolizes Love,Lust,immortality and sexual desires.In India ,the leaves of manog trees are used in wedding ceremonies in order to ensure that couple bears many children.and mangoes are right infront od grandmother as their wishes are always having grand kids...

Did not know any of this ... Meray liya toh aam bas aam hi tha ...

# 2 also represents Love

Connection: AS we are watching all the divine signs of their wedding so this is another one.Their love is going to grow as a immortal love ,in a divine way no matter what.

Also Anjali will be pregnant...

Arnav and La's Baby was not approved by Naniji or even by our Khushi Bitya'.La irritates with Khushi's advice,"Lavanya ban kar aeyi thi pata nahin kia ban kar reh gyei hoo'Dum ghut ta hai maira"[ I came home as La and have no clue what am I now?I can't breath in this environment]

Conversation in between Mamiji and La was interesting.La is indeed a passenger train and She wants to win Naniji's bullet train heart by catching "Lakhshamiji" Dear Lord''..What a trainee'..La is??

Her explanation of Love with Goatwa was kind a outwa to my brainwa'.but Naniji some how agreed with this planwa.Her attitude towards Khushi is way too shallow.

Symbolism:#3 Meaning victory'.[Naniji gave La three days for winning Lakhmiji]

Connection:La will win heart partially but through Khushi as Khushi will take the blame of loosing Lakhshami but in return Khushi wins La's heart and they become friends.

King's Howard brain in action while sitting with his throne,"Juice in my shoes the same way ringtone of my phone'both things in the same day.."

His suspicion changes into belief when Akash tells him about "Mishri" in the fuel tank..All the puzzle pieces got connection and takes the signal directly to one and the only one "Khushi Kumari Gupta"''."Jitni bar bhi batao tum apni aukat bhool hi jati ho'iss baar nahin bhoolnai doonga"'[No matter how many times I told you about your status but you forget it 'but this time I will make sure you will never forget it.]..hmmm yeah right Akhroo we will see about that'''She is your mirror image don't forget that she won't let you forget her either'If you are Yummilicious! she is Temptalicious!...