Sorry But You
READ IT WRONG!!!!!
HELL NO!!!!
By Sitting In Malaysia I Can't Do Anything???
Who Said That!!!!
We All Want To Do Something For SaRun But Helpless Right...
-- Yaar my parents will get angry
-- I don't have the courage yaar
-- I'm not good at all this
-- What if there's legal action my mom will kill me...
I Understand Your Issues... but I'll tell you a story...
(its last year when I was doing my 2nd degree - 2nd year part time)
Its last year February... I saw this one rich guy disturbing a girl in Uni... She kept crying to leave her alone.. but he didnt.. he kept disturbing her... Until she slapped him... He hold her hair and banged her head in the glass door...Of course she started bleeding badly.. and he went away...
I was numb seeing this... and i was actually standing on the opposite side but 3 floors up...I was shocked and literally shaking... In no time people noticed that girl and they started to call ambulance and all...
She was in coma...Her parents flew down from XXX country..doctors gave up...said 'until she is breathing she is alive... once it stops she is dead'... The girl's dad started asking her friends if they know anything about this issue..
I asked my other friends if they know this girl.. one of my classmate was her roommate but moved out a week before the whole fiasco.. She told me this girl's boyfriend is a troublemaker..he was a crazy possessive guy... they will fight everyday and break-up everyday.. but will get back together also...I was surprised...
2 days later i heard the police caught a guy and he is being charged under attempt to murder. So i was relieve that this girl atleast got the justice. I was passing by the dance studio and I was shocked to see the guy whom i witness banging her head on glass door was sitting and laughing around...I then wondered how come this guy is here? whom did the caught?
I asked the same friend of mine and she said her boyfriend.. I said can't be because i saw him today in uni.. she said no he got caught. i asked if she has their picture.. she told me check in facebook. I told her i dont use such stuff... She then showed me from her account and it was a different guy... I was literally shocked...
So i told this girl the entire story how i saw another guy banging her head on the glass door and all.. she was shocked and told me to show her the guy tomolo in uni... i said sure... So next day we met and i was hoping to see the guy so i could show my friend... He was smoking in the cafe when i saw him.. i showed my friend and in 2 minutes she was like listen Hetal.. this is legal matter don't get into this mess... just leave it possible will do whatever they have too.. I asked her WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH HER!!! she said this guy is a minister's nephew.. so nothing I say will make a difference..
But i was adamant.. I wanted to make sure the girl gets justice. I met this girl's father and told him.. we went to police station and I lodged my report. I bailed the girl's boyfriend out. And told the police to lock up the other guy. They did.. then my parents found out and they were like what the hell am I thinking... i was least bothered because for me truth is alwiz important..
It was the court date and I went to give my statement as witness. The lawyer told me if besides my eyes I have any proof? I said nop... because it wasn't something planned that i would have pictures or videos.. He said off so many people in uni only i saw it? others were not around.. I said many were but all are afraid of his background status... So he asked me.. you are not? I SAID NO!!!
The date was then postponed and the girl's lawyer was to find more proof against the guy. I went back home and at night when i went out for dinner with my boyfriend (now fiance) 2 motorbike kept following us.. My fiance had just came back from china after a business trip so he wasn't aware of it.. Then when i realised the bikers are following us.. I told him the whole fiasco.. and he said I'M MAD!! But i was not according to truth...then he was really worried about me but i told him I'm absolutely fine... he told me to stay my aunt's house and i declined because if really anything will happen i will put my aunt in trouble.
I went home and i went off to bed... at 4.28am i woke up and saw 38 misscalls on my phone... I was surprised.. didnt realise because my phone was on silent (from this date i never silent my phone). I checked and they were all from my parent's house neighbour. I was really surprised and wondered why this neighbour was calling me.. Its too late to call back as well i thought.. but the last misscall was at 4am. So i called... It felt as if i was bombed when I heard its my mother that answered the call. I was stammering.. asked her what happened... she said someone entered the house at 2am and started breaking this... she woke up and they told her to ask me to withdraw my statement or else they will kill my mother.. she was shocked... my dad had gone to another state for work. She was alone and so helpess... I felt like dying.. I put my mother's life in danger...
Next morning i wanted to go and withdraw my statement but I got a call from the girl's father.. he said she is no more...!! then i was so determine that no matter what happens i will not step back.. I made flyers about people coming to give their statements.. not to be afraid.. collectively we stand we will be strong.. he can harm my one family but cant harm everyone's... So many of the people in the uni stepped up... they wrote letters and everything... some came to court to give statement that this guy has troubled the girl alot infact she and her bf alwiz had a fight because of this guy!!!
But the bingo strike when that same friend of mine came to me and handed me a letter... It was written by this guy... he had wrote "In order to have you I can even kill your boyfriend... and If I can't have you.. i wont hesitate to kill you"!!!! She gave me this letter and said that the guy had come to their place sometime back and gave the girl this!! that was the night my friend decided to move out...
Finally with so many witness, my statement and that letter we managed to win the case.. the guy is in prison for 8years... until today I'm afraid when my mother is alone.. i never let her stay alone... until today my dad is worried of my safety... until today every accident that happens with me my mom cries and thinks about that person trying to kill me...
Yet today I'm standing strong and not worried about it at all... So you guys this is not such legal or death matter... Its fighting for the truth... for your rights... for innocent souls...
Its easy to say yes I agree... its hard to act... I know...
BUT IS IT IMPOSSIBLE??? NO RIGHT!!!!
If you are protesting.. as long as it is quiet and peaceful.. you are fine...
Make flyers and distribute... is that harmful? NO!!!
Call on radio stations and just like you dedicate a message... dedicate it to SaRun and make people know about the fiasco...
Calling, spamming, tweeting all is going on... but we need huge difference... and that will only and only happen when...
YOU STOP FEARING!!!
YOU STOP DOUBTING YOUR CAPABILITIES!!!
YOU STOP ASKING FOR WINNING CHANCES!!!
YOU STOP RELYING ON OTHERS TO MOTIVATE YOU!!!
YOU STOP ASKING PEOPLE WHAT TO DO!!!
NOW... I LEAVE IT UP TO YOU!!!
ONLY FIGHT IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE STOP ALL THE MENTIONED ABOVE!!!!!
I'm standing strong and fighting... do you want to join me??
I'm cursing myself for being in Malaysia because SP doesn't broadcast here but does it mean I can't make difference???
Will one or two setbacks stop me???
NO!!! If my family security didn't stop me... this is absolutely nothing for me!!!
But You decide what is your choice!
Edited by hetalmkn - 12 years ago
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