why should Khushi get hurt to teach Arnav a lesson

I seriously don't understand why do all of my fav. OS, FF, SS and simple review writers of IF want khushi to get hurt to teach Arnav a lesson to care for his wife. I would rather khushi gives him such a cold and silent treatment that he is forced to realize his mistakes; actually khushi should start being frank with all else ignoring her husband completely to teach him a lesson.
Actually some writers have demanded another suave male to enter and pose a competition to Arnav and fall in love with Khushi, but I don't think so. Again why do we need some "DSR" to bring them close, I mean what kind of a love comes out to show itself when someone else wants khushi but not when times are not tempestuous and things are normal????????
Arnav is behaving this way primarily because he is too full of his own superiority over khushi and perhaps unconsciously he thinks that a small town girl like khushi should be content with the scraps of attention he throws her way and he is also smug enough to think that he has her love and nothing he does should effect it in any way. Actually at times I think that khushi is nothing but "pagal" and an entertainer with "fringe benefits" for him that is why he needles her when he wants to and uses her as a door mat or a punching bag whenever the mood strikes. Is he merely thankful to her for saving his and his Di's precious rich tushes several times in a row or he actually has any feelings for her besides "acidity, dhak dhak and the occasional carnal urge to get physical".
In plain words "ghar ki murghi daal barabar" he is taking her for granted but it does not mean that khushi should get hurt to teach him a lesson. khushi can save his smug ass again to teach him the same lesson. so what do you think?????????😆

Hahaah. Well said my dear.. I think it is our mentality (as in us with South-east Asian origin) have a set notion that female are all 'bechari' and 'abla' even the ones as brave as Khushi get hurt and that tugs at our heartstrings. No matter how much we are against the 'rona-dhona drama' we are still inclined towards that very same thing, but in a modernized version. I have read FFs where Khushi is portrayed to be HIGHLY independant and haughty-taughty mighty as Arnav, but as per demand the character had to be twitched a bit

so true...i to totally agree with you..he loves her unconditionally we know that.but he doesn't value her because she is always easy to get for him.so why should she be hurt???

he actually missed her when she ignored him during hate marriage period

Originally posted by: dididumb

I seriously don't understand why do all of my fav. OS, FF, SS and simple review writers of IF want khushi to get hurt to teach Arnav a lesson to care for his wife. I would rather khushi gives him such a cold and silent treatment that he is forced to realize his mistakes; actually khushi should start being frank with all else ignoring her husband completely to teach him a lesson.
Actually some writers have demanded another suave male to enter and pose a competition to Arnav and fall in love with Khushi, but I don't think so. Again why do we need some "DSR" to bring them close, I mean what kind of a love comes out to show itself when someone else wants khushi but not when times are not tempestuous and things are normal????????
Arnav is behaving this way primarily because he is too full of his own superiority over khushi and perhaps unconsciously he thinks that a small town girl like khushi should be content with the scraps of attention he throws her way and he is also smug enough to think that he has her love and nothing he does should effect it in any way. Actually at times I think that khushi is nothing but "pagal" and an entertainer with "fringe benefits" for him that is why he needles her when he wants to and uses her as a door mat or a punching bag whenever the mood strikes. Is he merely thankful to her for saving his and his Di's precious rich tushes several times in a row or he actually has any feelings for her besides "acidity, dhak dhak and the occasional carnal urge to get physical".
In plain words "ghar ki murghi daal barabar" he is taking her for granted but it does not mean that khushi should get hurt to teach him a lesson. khushi can save his smug ass again to teach him the same lesson. so what do you think?????????😆

she can be quiet and not talk to him better than gettin hurt

I agree. He should love her at all times, not only when he thinks he is gonna lose her. I would really like the strong Kushi to be back (bhar mei gaye aap or bhar mei gaye aapki nokri Kushi.)

You know, I really don't mean to offend you, but don't you think blaming the Fiction writers for Arnav and Khushi's character build up sounds really interfering?

Originally posted by: Looneytoons

so true...i to totally agree with you..he loves her unconditionally we know that.but he doesn't value her because she is always easy to get for him.so why should she be hurt???

i agree wid ur post...