Are we really that Unreasonable - Page 21

Originally posted by: rima

your husband is admirable tia

comes with being a western husband

let me assure you in India once people get married

is family family and family

people do go for a honeymoon

but our show is hat ke na

so no honeymoon also😊

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

To feel sorry for the wrong you did, to try and ease the others pain, and to stand up by the person is more an apology than the 5 letter word 'sorry'

When she fought with him initially in lavanya's case/or when she was working for him, she did not know him, but when she married him she got to know the real Arnav. Which is why she never asked for an explanation or held a grudge against him.

She has been shown questioning why he did what he did to her many a times before she came

to know why he married her. When she understood why he had done so, she couldn't hold the grudge anymore, because she had always feared a misunderstanding from his part if he would ever come to know about Shyam being the man who had been engaged to her. They have always given an explanation to what they showed, we just expect a bit too much out of everything.

Originally posted by: prettypri

A virtual hug for asking ths question...

But unfortunately that's how it is...wife is ok as long as she falls in line with family...

Thas why so many posts saying Arnav was right when he was supporting Anjali and not giving the same importance to khush...It was like...she s his family...and Khushi has just come into his life...do you expect him to 'sacrifice' his sister etc???

And this stems from the fact that a wife is expected to adjust always...and treat the husbands family like her own..so obviously their interests would be above hers..skewed logic but thas how It is..

Originally posted by: chaitra2011

@ prettypri - Along with you and a lot of like minded people out here, i hate the fact that a wife is supposed to adjust because it's expected. This logic sucks to the core and if people don't change it themselves they are in trouble. It's always about adjustments and expectations from a wife. Which is why i love husbands who go all the way in supporting their wives and stand up for them. It's a wrong tag they get for being that - 'hen pecked' while it should be "responsible and right'

Originally posted by: prettypri

A virtual hug for asking ths question...

But unfortunately that's how it is...wife is ok as long as she falls in line with family...

Thas why so many posts saying Arnav was right when he was supporting Anjali and not giving the same importance to khush...It was like...she s his family...and Khushi has just come into his life...do you expect him to 'sacrifice' his sister etc???

And this stems from the fact that a wife is expected to adjust always...and treat the husbands family like her own..so obviously their interests would be above hers..skewed logic but thas how It is..

Originally posted by: arshi21

I don't care. I don't want this show to be hatt ke here!

HELL! I WANT A PROPER HONEYMOON TRACK.

Rima, things are getting too irritating.

Originally posted by: tia.o

It's hard for me to understand because precisely for this double standard I married a Canadian guy. The day Indian woman starts to ask for their rights, is the day they will start to matter. But we teach woman in our society to keep their expectations at the rock bottom and not to be demanding wife and tell the men that God forbid you care about your wife's feelings, only wimps and sissies do that.

Strange that a woman completely devoted to her husband is considered the reincarnation of Goddess but a man completely devoted to his wife is a wimp or sissy.

Originally posted by: prettypri

👏

So true...and husbands who do stand up are a rarity..sigh!!!!

I guess this being the reality s why we look fr more in fiction!!!!

Originally posted by: rima

baccha time to take sanyaas from IPK for while

people do not want us to hamper creativity you see

they wuld rather hve people leave the show for the sake of positivity