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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is evident that most members on the forum are against the idea that Arav is Arnav's son. However, there are some that are questioning the fallacy of this notion. I am no prude and the idea that Arnav bedded many women in his youth does not bother me. That he fathered a child does!

If it turns out that Arav is indeed Arnav's son, what Arnav does with that knowledge can go 2 ways... He can leave Khushi and start a life with his child and his mother, which will be the end of IPK.

Or, he can choose to stay with Khushi, refuse to have anything to do with the mother of his child and include Arav in his life. If this is the case, how is Arnav any different from his father? Was Arnav not mad at his father because he came to know that his father never loved his mother and instead had fallen in love with another woman? Will Arav not be in the exact situation that Arnav was in 14 yrs. ago? Will Arnav not feel guilty of cheating his own son of the very things he felt his Dad cheated him off?

"The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother."
- John Wooden

A guilty Arnav will not make for a very good husband for Khushi nor for any children they may have together. What about the fact that Arhi will be able to give their own child a much better upbringing (considering the parents are together), than they could to Arav (since he will split his time between his mother and Arhi).

What child will not want his parents to be together? He will drive a wedge between Arhi, even if unintentionally.
Many forum members feel that Khushi should fight tooth and nail for her man. On the contrary, I feel, if Arav is Arnav's son, Khushi should walk away to never look back. Morally, as a mother I have to side with the child.

If it is established that Arnav was intimate with Sheetal and we know (at least were led to believe), Lavanya was his girlfriend, so it follows that he must have had other girls in his past? Now to the MOTHER of all kostins...

How do we (or Khushi) eliminate the chance that Arnav could have fathered other children?

*Won't be around online for much longer, but will come back to read all comments, so please do write in your views*
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If they show Aarav as Arnav's son then it is the end of ArShi.
Khusi will have no place in Arnav's life then.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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If Arav was indeed his son...Then his commitment should be to his son in addition to Khushi. And not to the son's mother.

I fail to see why Arnav should leave Khushi to be with Arav's mother. Which son would want their parents to be in an unhappy relationship forcefully for his sake? And that too, a son who never knew his father all this while?

Arnav can still be a father to Arav and husband to Khushi.

But having said all of this, I don't want any of this to happen.

I want Arnav's first child to be Khushi's.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Look here are my two cents:
I have no qualms even if Aarav does turn out to be his son. It depends how the track is planned and executed. Looking at the past history of ipk CV's have never impressed me with the these kind of intense tracks; they have always managed to turn them into illogical nonsense. The whole past revelation is proof of that. Past is an integral part of IPK because that is why Arnav's character was such a cynic before he fell in love with Khushi.
But the way they revealed the past after the major build up didn't make any impact. It just felt rushed and it fell flat. So, you can understand why I really don't trust the CV's will be able to carry out this track maturely if the kid indeed does turn out to be Arnav's. So I think they would definately take the easy way out and show that the whole thing was a hoax planned by Sheetal. Plus, I think 90% of the audience will not accept Aarav as Arnav's son and they know this.
I am out of the 10% of audience that will give a green signal to the track even if Aarav is Arnav's. I think that will be realistic and will show how Arnav deals with the whole situation. It will be his test. Having said that, I would prefer Aarav not being his son purely because I want Arnav's first child to be Khushi's.
I would also like to mention this time Khushi should not be shown as Mahaan and try to bring Sheetal, Aarav and Arnav together. That is an absolute NO NO from me. She could bring Aarav closer to Arnav but not Sheetal.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

If they show Aarav as Arnav's son then it is the end of ArShi.
Khusi will have no place in Arnav's life then.



If CVs want to have a KEKTA show they can do that ..

Make the baby his..
make him regret ..
make khushi suffer..
make her sacrificing wife..

And Make Arshi's life miserable which will be full of sad rabba ves..

Didnt we have this enough? like since feb .. we r suffering.. how long this can go on? A girl like khushi cant have some normal happy life ?

They planned a salman movie track i remembered.. but in that case Salman was a playboy.. Here Asr's youth was not like normal ones.. he had so much responsibilities and being so choosy and planned it was not that normal to happen like this.. so this whole track felt like forced .. I dont care about his past .. Just feel like This is not right for khushi at all.. bas..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: godhuli12



If CVs want to have a KEKTA show they can do that ..

Make the baby his..
make him regret ..
make khushi suffer..
make her sacrificing wife..

And Make Arshi's life miserable which will be full of sad rabba ves..

Didnt we have this enough? like since feb .. we r suffering.. how long this can go on? A girl like khushi cant have some normal happy life ?

They planned a salman movie track i remembered.. but in that case Salman was a playboy.. Here Asr's youth was not like normal ones.. he had so much responsibilities and being so choosy and planned it was not that normal to happen like this.. so this whole track felt like forced .. I dont care about his past .. Just feel like This is not right for khushi at all.. bas..


@BOLD: That is my big problem with this track! No matter what, Khushi will suffer and I find that unacceptable! She deserves happiness in her life and I am just tired of all Khushi bearing the brunt of all the emotional baggage the Raizadas come with. That is why, I want Khushi to pack up and leave if the boy is Arnav's.
Edited by ipkknd_2011 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soni22

Look here are my two cents:
I have no qualms even if Aarav does turn out to be his son. It depends how the track is planned and executed. Looking at the past history of ipk CV's have never impressed me with the these kind of intense tracks; they have always managed to turn them into illogical nonsense. The whole past revelation is proof of that. Past is an integral part of IPK because that is why Arnav's character was such a cynic before he fell in love with Khushi.
But the way they revealed the past after the major build up didn't make any impact. It just felt rushed and it fell flat. So, you can understand why I really don't trust the CV's will be able to carry out this track maturely if the kid indeed does turn out to be Arnav's. So I think they would definately take the easy way out and show that the whole thing was a hoax planned by Sheetal. Plus, I think 90% of the audience will not accept Aarav as Arnav's son and they know this.
I am out of the 10% of audience that will give a green signal to the track even if Aarav is Arnav's. I think that will be realistic and will show how Arnav deals with the whole situation. It will be his test. Having said that, I would prefer Aarav not being his son purely because I want Arnav's first child to be Khushi's.
I would also like to mention this time Khushi should not be shown as Mahaan and try to bring Sheetal, Aarav and Arnav together. That is an absolute NO NO from me. She could bring Aarav closer to Arnav but not Sheetal.


@BOLD: That is my fear too and hence the aversion of this new track! If the boy is Arnav's, the CVs will either make a comedy circus out of it or have Khushi sobbing for another 2/4/6 months!

This track would probably have had a little more support from the audience if the the CVs had built up a passionate story post remarriage for Arshi before jumoing from one frying pan to another!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice post

my POV is from i watch the show from the lovers & the tag line POV & not the children
so i think from Khushi's perspective & the USP of the show will not allow ASR to be aarav's dad or ASR leave Khushi

if the show was based on the children i would think the way you are thinking

I m not against the child by the way but the CV"s do not know how to handle such tracks sigh

Edited by Arhi-Did-IT - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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you nailed it
the so called emancipated lo miss the simple fact that even in emancipated societies illegitimte children are sad sufferers
the family disintegrates
there is no 'happily ever after for such couples
there are so many choices to make
as to what is the right thing to do
I worked in a child support project for my organization in US
And I can tell you all this romaticisation of casual sex is bull
The reality is ugly
And this is not about morality
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ipkknd_2011



It is evident that most members on the forum are against the idea that Arav is Arnav's son. However, there are some that are questioning the fallacy of this notion. I am no prude and the idea that Arnav bedded many women in his youth does not bother me. That he fathered a child does!

If it turns out that Arav is indeed Arnav's son, what Arnav does with that knowledge can go 2 ways... He can leave Khushi and start a life with his child and his mother, which will be the end of IPK.

Or, he can choose to stay with Khushi, refuse to have anything to do with the mother of his child and include Arav in his life. If this is the case, how is Arnav any different from his father? Was Arnav not mad at his father because he came to know that his father never loved his mother and instead had fallen in love with another woman? Will Arav not be in the exact situation that Arnav was in 14 yrs. ago? Will Arnav not feel guilty of cheating his own son of the very things he felt his Dad cheated him off?

"The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother."
- John Wooden

A guilty Arnav will not make for a very good husband for Khushi nor for any children they may have together. What about the fact that Arhi will be able to give their own child a much better upbringing (considering the parents are together), than they could to Arav (since he will split his time between his mother and Arhi).

What child will not want his parents to be together? He will drive a wedge between Arhi, even if unintentionally.
Many forum members feel that Khushi should fight tooth and nail for her man. On the contrary, I feel, if Arav is Arnav's son, Khushi should walk away to never look back. Morally, as a mother I have to side with the child.

If it is established that Arnav was intimate with Sheetal and we know (at least were led to believe), Lavanya was his girlfriend, so it follows that he must have had other girls in his past? Now to the MOTHER of all kostins...

How do we (or Khushi) eliminate the chance that Arnav could have fathered other children?

*Won't be around online for much longer, but will come back to read all comments, so please do write in your views*


All good points...however I Don't agree tat Khushi shild walk away if Aarav is Arnavs son...Arnav would then have a responsibility towards the child and nt the mom...he didn't knw about the child and it's been so many years...it's not hs fault he moved on and certainly not Khushis fault that she is now in his life...
It's an unfortunate situation...and the kid is an innocent victim agreed but all will have to compromise in that case...I don't think he would have a normal life even if Arnav were to build a life with his mom as he doesn't love her..so Khushis sacrifice would have no meaning then...

Anyway ths is conjecture... Don't think we are heading for this in the show as it would be too complicated..

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