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Posted: 12 years ago
#41
The point is, Arnav is not cheating on his wife, Kushi.
If this kid is his, it's from his past relationship, he hadn't even met Kushi then.

But in case of Shyam, he was married to Anjali when he also wanted to marry Kushi.

Arnav's father too was married to Arnav's mom, when he was in a relationship with Garima.

It doesn't make sense to compare Arnav to his dad or to Shyam



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: fleurs


I don't know about other countries. In India if a women of that age is a virgin then definitely men can also be virgins. How sure are u that all are not virgins? It's like u are offending them by using the term <font color="#FF0000" size="3">ALL. <font color="#000000" size="2">May be some are not virgins so don't say all are not</font></font>

oh god losing a virganity is not a such a big issue come on if a person ... Anybody virganity is his or her personal choice whether she/ he want to lose it or not wats issue behind it... I don't know konse sadi key india ki baat kar rahe ho ... I toh personally can never understand the term called viganity... Anyways I m 25 nd still a virgin but by my choice... People should listen their hearts they want to or not ...not because log kya sochtey hai so called wood be husband ya wife kya socheti hai... My point is its not a sin if ur not VIRGIN
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CravingKhana


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Funny this is cyber space..and fleur has not confirmed her age...so she just might be older than u...just putting it out there

i m 25 nd i can guess she not married or elder then me its not about age its about how u take about life i guess...but kuch chize issi hoyi hai jo hum age key sath jyada aachey sey samajh paatey hai
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Posted: 12 years ago
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the whole is it a sin or not topic depends on one's personal beliefs. In some religions it IS a sin, in other's, it's NOT. So, I guess, at the end of the day, it just depends on one's religion and to what extent that person follows it. Arnav was more on the atheist side, so if he was NOT one then it makes sense, because in his dictionary it's all good. But if he was as religious as Anjali/Naniji or even khushi, then it would be a sin (just remember Khushi's samosa scene when she found out about live-in's from La). That's all. I mean, it really depends on every person's own perspective on whether or not someone being an unmarried non-virgin is a bad thing or not. It's not even about being modern or not.

And lastly, there ARE lots of people who are 28 and virgins - girls AND guys. It all just depends on what pool you are looking at.
Just my two cents 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Audiwalia

oh god losing a virganity is not a such a big issue come on if a person ... Anybody virganity is his or her personal choice whether she/ he want to lose it or not wats issue behind it... I don't know konse sadi key india ki baat kar rahe ho ... I toh personally can never understand the term called viganity... Anyways I m 25 nd still a virgin but by my choice... People should listen their hearts they want to or not ...not because log kya sochtey hai so called wood be husband ya wife kya socheti hai... My point is its not a sin if ur not VIRGIN


Agree to ur views that " Anybody virginity is his or her personal choice whether she/ he wants to lose it or not " & " its not a sin if ur not VIRGIN" But I think u saying that A MAN OF 28 years can not be a VIRGIN is not acceptable . Its like u r offending the men of that age.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: fleurs


Agree to ur views that " Anybody virginity is his or her personal choice whether she/ he wants to lose it or not " & " its not a sin if ur not VIRGIN" But I think u saying that<font size="3"></font>A MAN OF 28 years can not be a VIRGIN is not acceptable . Its like u r offending the men of that age.

ARE a man of 28 ??????? I m not offending them i m cool with a fact that they are not virgin even if my future husband whoever he is agar woh virgin nahi hoga toh mujhe koi problem nahi honey wali... Yeh ek practical baat hai main fantacy main believe nahi karti...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Darling I understand that you are upset that Arnav might not be a virgin but shouting is not going to help.
You do know that posts made in caps are considered rude, don't you...
Your post has too many weak links:
1. Shyam did not have an 'affair' with Khushi, yo have an affair the other person should be a willing partner. Did you see Khushi doing that?
2. You truly need to let go off those pink-tinted glasses and get your facts right...Arnav's father was a married man and a father when he became involved with Garima. Whether the relationship was physical or not is irrelevant here. Was Arnav married when he had a fling with Sheetal?
3. And you are sure that Arav is Arnav's son...wow? Please share your views with proof please.
4.Arnav had affairs before he got married to Khushi...that was BEFORE he met Khushi and not after. I hope you can understand the difference. You can google the meanings...
5. Shyam LOVED Khushi...you are so delusional, are not you?
6, Arnav's father and Shyam were both married men trying to get into other relationship. Arnav was not married the...

Actually I feel I wasted my time...you, for sure, would not understand...




Originally posted by: ngeljo

IF ARNAV IS NOT A VIRGIN THEN SHYAM IS NOT AT FAULT OF HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH KUSHI BECAUSE HE IS ALSO A MAN AND WHY THERE IS AN EXCEPTION IN HIS CASE ...

AND ALSO ARNAVS FATHER ALSO IS NOT AT FAULT BECAUSE HE IS A MEN AND HE HAVNT HVE ANY RELATION WITH GARIMA ...HE JUST LOVED HER. SAME CASE WITH SHYAM ALSO HE HAVNT HAD ANY RELATION WITH KUSHI BUT HE JUST LOVED HER
FOR THOSE WHO SUPPORT ARNAV OF NOT BECOMING A VIRGIN...::::::::..,,,,,,,,,,,,,

BUT ARNAV IS NOT LIKE TAT BEFORE MARRIAGE HE HAD SOME DEEP RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEOTHER LADIES {LA ,SHEETAL...etc...}AND HE MARRIED GIRL OF GREAT MORAL VALUES AND HE EVEN HAD A KID IN HIS FIRST RELATION...SO HE CANT BLAME SHYAM OR HIS FATHER...GUYS U ALL KNOW TAT HE EVEN ACCUSED KUSHI OF HAVING RELATION WITH SHYAM...WHY SHUD HE DO TAT IF HE IS NOT A VIRGIN .MY CONCLUSION IS IF HE IS NOT A VIRGIN HE CANT BLAME SHYAM FOR CHEATING HIS SISTER OR NEITHER HE CANT BLAME HIS FATHER FOR CHEATING HIS MOTHER BECAUSE HE CHEATED LA,SHEETAL{ AND I DONT KNOW IF SOME ONE ELSE WAS ALSO THERE .}HE KNOW THE PAIN HIS MOTHER SUFFERED BECOZ O HIS FATHERS EXTRA RELATION AND THE DAYS HE SUFERED WITH PAIN BECAUSE OF HIS FATHERS CHEAP BEHAVIOUR.SO GUYS DO U ALL THINK HE COULLD DO THE SAME THING WHICH HIS FATHER HAD DONE WHICH DESTROYED ALL THE HAPPINESS IN THEIR LIVES...
I THINK THE PAST IS REPEATING JUST LIKE HIS MOTHER MISUNDER STOOD HIS FATHER KUSHI ALSO MAY MISUNDERSTAND ARNAV ...REMEMBER ONCE ARNAV SAID TO GARIMA TAT HOPE OUR PAST WILL NOT COMEIN B/W AGAIN AND DISTURB US ..SO MAY THIS TRACK IS TO REVEAL THEIR PAST COMPLETELY BECOZ IT IS NOT CLEAR...

HOPE ARNAV IS A VIRGIN...HE IS BLAIMING SHYAM AND HIS FATHER BECOZ HE IS NOT LIKE HIM HE IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT FROM THEM...AND HE CANT DO SUCH CHEAP THINGS {BY THINKING ABOUT THE PAIN TAT HE SUFFERED IN HIS PAST DAYS}..
AND I WILL BE IN HEAVEN IF THE CVS SHOW US THAT ARNAV WAS A VIRGIN AND HE IS VERY FAITHFUL AND SICERE TOWARDS KUSHI...😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Audiwalia

ARE a man of 28 ??????? I m not offending them i m cool with a fact that they are not virgin even if my future husband whoever he is agar woh virgin nahi hoga toh mujhe koi problem nahi honey wali... Yeh ek practical baat hai main fantacy main believe nahi karti...


It is not fantasy , many men like them do exist. If u would accept a man who is not a ….. its ur choice. I don't think everybody would accept it. If a man would have stated that , a women of 28 years cannot be a virgin , would all women accept this statement. I don't think so. We would have made it an issue stating that men are offending us.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ReemaRani

the whole is it a sin or not topic depends on one's personal beliefs. In some religions it IS a sin, in other's, it's NOT. So, I guess, at the end of the day, it just depends on one's religion and to what extent that person follows it. I mean, it really depends on every person's own perspective on whether or not someone being an unmarried non-virgin is a bad thing or not. It's not even about being modern or not.

And lastly, there ARE lots of people who are 28 and virgins - girls AND guys. It all just depends on what pool you are looking at.


Agree with the above
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Posted: 12 years ago
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