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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wait how can u compare these two TOTALLY different issues?

Shyam and his dad were MARRIED and were betraying their WIVES!

Arnav just had a relationship BEFORE he was married! This is NOT betraying or anything! Its his choice to have a relationship and how far he wants to go...

Now in this case i think, if aarav is his son, as sbb said, then he doesnt know it...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I disagree with your point that if arnav had an affair with sheetal in the past then he is no better than his father or shyam….the situation of both the cases is quite different,the way I see it…

Shyam and arnav's father had an extra-marital affairs…they cheated on their wives while being in a relationship with them…both of them did not want to leave their respective wives nor the 'other' women…

While arnav had a thing with sheetal in the past….past where he did not even know that a girl named khushi existed who later would become his wife…

ASR has been shown as a man belonging to sophisticated world…he had a girlfriend but did not believe in marriage…if you recall he did not agree to marry lavanya because he was in love with lavanya,his reasons to marry lavanya had nothing to do with love…

It would be unfair to ASR to compare him with his father and shyam….ASR has principles which clearly shyam lacked ….

I am not shocked with this track…I knew ki asr had past with women…if the CV decides to show something else I will be fine with it.But I am liking this track…

I am not saying that you are not allowed to have your views…but it is unfair to compare asr to his father and shyam…

ASR called khushi characterless because he thought that she was lusting after a married man…a man his sister worshipped…he was thinking from a mind of a brother who was devoted to his sister at that point of time…Shyam was a man who wanted to make khushi his second wife and did not wanted to divorce Anjali…He made that very clear…hewanted to harm anjali afterwards only after khushi got to know the whole truth…Shyam knew that now anjali had to die…if khushi had agreed to marriage with him he would have never divorced anjali as she was a golden goose…

ASR said that he was not like his father…it clearly meant that he did not two-time and that hewould of his family before taking any rash decision…I firmly believe ki if asr knew about arav then sheetal and him would have been married by now…it was sheetal's choice not to tell him about his son…

I know you may hate the track but saying shyam was justified is an insult…

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm sorry but I disagree with you. I am from Canada, and I can guarantee you that majority of the men that live here are not virgins. This is the twenty first century and people do not follow the customs of the past. I myself have never been in a relationship and I would love to get a virgin hubby but there is no guarantee that he would be. I would accept someone that would love me for who I am because you can't judge people just based on whether they are virgins or not. I don't think it's right to compare Malik SR and Shyam to Arnav because both these men were married and cheated on their wives. If Arnav was in past relationships prior to his relationship with Khushi, there is nothing wrong with it if he is committed to her now. In my country, many people get together and then break up if things don't work out but that doesn't mean they are infidel to their partners.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Are u freaking kidding me😡😡😡
So u don't see any difference between between premarital consensual relationship, wherein this is made very clear that marriage is not a future possibility and a man who cheats on his wife, lies to her and the one he claims to love, wants to beguile khushi into a marriage which would be considered illegal without telling her that he is married, just so can satisfy his lust.
Ma'am plz go get ur mental health checked cz u r freaking sick😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tiyali

I am hope he is Virgin Mary



No dearz he was angel gabrial😉
Edited by CravingKhana - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ngeljo

IF

MY CONCLUSION IS IF HE IS NOT A VIRGIN HE CANT BLAME SHYAM FOR CHEATING HIS SISTER OR NEITHER HE CANT BLAME HIS FATHER FOR CHEATING HIS MOTHER BECAUSE HE CHEATED LA,SHEETAL{ AND I DONT KNOW IF SOME ONE ELSE WAS ALSO THERE .}HE KNOW THE PAIN HIS MOTHER SUFFERED BECOZ O HIS FATHERS EXTRA RELATION AND THE DAYS HE SUFERED WITH PAIN BECAUSE OF HIS FATHERS CHEAP BEHAVIOUR.SO GUYS DO U ALL THINK HE COULLD DO THE SAME THING WHICH HIS FATHER HAD DONE WHICH DESTROYED ALL THE HAPPINESS IN THEIR LIVES...

AND I WILL BE IN HEAVEN IF THE CVS SHOW US THAT ARNAV WAS A VIRGIN AND HE IS VERY FAITHFUL AND SICERE TOWARDS KUSHI...😊


Completely agree with u. Thanks for making this sensible post. 👏
Many are of the view that its okay if Arnav had physical relationships in the past all that matters is that in the present he loves Khushi. I don't agree with this particular view.
In case if Arnav was in a relationship in the past & as a result of it if he has a kid...then wont it hurt Khushi like the way it hurt his mother. At the end of the day , Khushi is a normal girl of the Indian middle class family who believes a lot in traditions, morals & values. For her a relationship is a relationship whether it was before or after marriage.
Guys put urself into the shoes of a normal girl of the Indian middle class family & think from her point of view. Would she ever accept if her husband was physically involved before marriage? There is a lot of difference between relationships in abroad & in India (did not mean to offend anybody , just trying to point out the differences). People in abroad r so broad minded & open about relationships but same is not the case in India because majority of the men & women in India do not prefer to marry the person if they were into relationships prior marriage.
Edited by fleurs - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: fleurs


Completely agree with u. Thanks for making this sensible post. 👏
Many are of the view that its okay if Arnav had physical relationships in the past all that matters is that in the present he loves Khushi. I don't agree with this particular view.
In case if Arnav was in a relationship in the past & as a result of it if he has a kid...then wont it hurt Khushi like the way it hurt his mother. At the end of the day , Khushi is a normal girl of the Indian middle class family who believes a lot in traditions, morals & values. For her a relationship is a relationship whether it was before or after marriage.
Guys put urself into the shoes of a normal girl of the Indian middle class family & think from her point of view. Would she ever accept if her husband was physically involved before marriage? There is a lot of difference between relationships in abroad & in India (did not mean to offend anybody , just trying to point out the differences). People in abroad r so broad minded & open about relationships but same is not the case in India because majority of the men & women in India do not prefer to marry the person if they were into relationships prior marriage.



Every person has a past...i am putting myself in a position of a girl...i am a middle class girl...i know it will hurt me a lot to know that my husband has a son with another woman but i think i will be mature enough to believe my husband has a past just like i may have one...i believe that i will be nature enough to undersatnd the situation and not blame the guy of cheating...
it may be difficult to handle but accusing and denail will never help the situation...

Edited by maangeet_rocks - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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OK FIRST Of All A MAN OF 28 Years Old Can Not be VIRGIN... Be realist girl... Nd arnav's father nd shayam was married when are in relationship nd they know it ...they are at fault...
But khushi is arnav's first wife nd she knows arnav was in relationship with lavanya... Nd do you really think arnav was not having physical relation with her...
Lets not compare there situations
Edited by Audiwalia - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Audiwalia

OK FIRST Of All A MAN OF 28 Years Old Can Not be VIRGIN... Be realist girl... Nd arnav's father nd shayam was married when are in relationship nd they know it ...they are at fault...
But khushi is arnav's first wife nd she knows arnav was in relationship with lavanya...
Lets not compare there situations


I disagree with u. I just don't know about Arnav but how can u say that all men of 28 years cannot be virgins.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: fleurs


I disagree with u. I just don't know about Arnav but how can u say that all men of 28 years cannot be virgins.

first u tell me how old are then i'll explain...lol...

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