about asr - Page 6

Originally posted by: ranjitha

yes THINKING is out of fashion, especially in soap-land. Khushi has noe truly become the perfect SP bahu. Her entire family supports her, she never does anything wrong, and if somebody questions her noble intentions, they should be ready to face the wrath of the audience... how typical this show has become 😆

Its not just the story, but direction also has become second grade these days. The characters have sort of pledged to be OTT all the time... the show has become too loud and one person who believed in 'subtle' touch is being cornered for the sake of 'DIKRA'GIRI 😆

AD calling dii.. will get back if time permits.
I always love the way you put up your thoughts in a meaningful and dignified way 👏

Originally posted by: Ash_Rajendra8

A 360 degree turn post from you. Are you the same person who made post during weekend? Are we both watching the same show ? They have shown growth of this character and towards good.he was arnav always inside asr was just a mask ,which has slipped almost but not completely removed yet.he wants to change come out of drak ,he wants to be loved,be normal and happy in life like others.khushi is just a catalyst helping him in his meta morphosis. This character arnav growth is consistent has not taken two steps back unlike khusi character which is very flexible for the markers to take two steps back to keep the show to be running.

I agree topics are made for good discussions but without the logics topics being created is just surprising for me from you?in asrs word "unbelievable"
Sorry for sounding rude but neither i am sorry for what i said either.

This is just a show meant for entertainment which they are doing well even though they slip at times,never the less its quite an intertesting show to watch compared to other shows on tv honestly speaking.

Break for mind and peace!

Thank you.

Originally posted by: Angels11

First of all kudos to you for voicing ur opinion in this forum where anything KKG does is automatically right coz she is the girl with the supposedly golden heart & anything ASR does is automatically wrong coz he is the guy who wronged her.

Its surprising that while we cringe at KKG's bratty antics b it in a public place or in the sterilized environment of an office & point it out ppl jump at u saying this is how KKG is, bubbly, cheerful, sanka devi blah blah blah & why s'd she change, even ASR told her never to change etc etc.

But at the same time no1 finds it wrong that KKG always wants to change ASR. Be it his religious beliefs or beliefs bt marriage or celebrating festivals or occasions like Birthday, anniversary etc.

Why these different yardsticks for different ppl. If KKG can continue 2 b sanka devi & loved for it, y cant ASR continue 2 b the brooding, passionate grey anti-hero. Why change only him & make him bend to every whims & fancies of the mahan KKG.

Din't KKG get hurt coz ASR dint celebrate her b'day the way she wanted & dint like ASR style gifts & cake. If so then y does she expect ASR alone to celebrate his b'day in her style & not the way he wants.

Either both of u change for each other which is v normal with all couples or neither should change & remain the same which of course is not realistic.

Here only ASR is made to bend & change while KKG continues to waltz around in the same manner!

This inconsistency is what bothers me!

Originally posted by: nebuna

indi thoughtful post
the celebrations i feel is not to change him
but to get him enjoy his life and feel being special
without the anger quotient and accept it with heart
she could have wished him happy birthday and moved on
but she wanted that B day wishes to be special
and make him cherish his day
she is showing that he s special to her in her way
make his life colorful where he s been in dark
but i feel somewhere he wanted all this attention
but sadly family couldnt understand him
may be that was the reason for his anger and wanting to be alone
now he s getting it and longing for more attention
along with his 14 years of heart desires is peeking out slowly

Originally posted by: Jusad

I am sorry but i dont agree with you that she is trying to change him.

I think she is just trying to make him accept the fact which he has always tried to deny.
He has been always like this , loved Khushi but could not accept,wanted to hug her back in hospital but could not do it,felt bad when she got hurt- wanted to say sorry but again could not (not unless he came to know abt her being orphan), wanted to confess his love but could not ..

so many times wanted but could not. THis is the same scenario wants to be wished, but cannot accept it.What is wrong if Khushi is making him realize his inner feelings, what is wrong if she wants to make him confess that yes I want to be wished by my wife.I can relate with ASR because I actually know people like him, they give all the necessary clues but not accept the fact that yes this is what I want.

He is ASR because he wants Arnav to be hidden from the world, he wants to be strong to protect his family but this does not mean Arnav is non-existant.This is ASR here, he wouldnt have understood if she tried to convince him , well she kinda tried but he didnt agree.So she had to make him understand the only he can - go to extremes.

P.S:Did not like the measurment scene but after office debacle no more expectations from Khushi.

Originally posted by: indi52

hi jusad,

thanks, great comment. in bold, all you say is true. but now as asr is, he has evolved and released his flowing loving soul a lot don't you feel? ever since khushi has touched his life and he has submitted with: i don't need anything else. remember that beautiful telepathic conversation?

you are probably right, maybe he does want someone to celebrate his big day, but i feel he wants it to be khushi. and that too in a very private, intimate way. the way he is. he possibly wants khushi to understand him in a way only a lover can. that's his expectation perhaps. though i really don't know.

what i do find difficult to deal with is the change being imposed from above. this whole set up and game playing, and in fact ending up hurting him better part of his birthday.

our sensitive, loving, clever khushi could have found a much better way i feel.

i don't blame khushi. there is a strange tweaking of characters going on for a while. i don't know why. i feel this is the result of that. but i keep watching with hope. every single day. thanks again.

perhaps what was missing in the measurement scene was a key factor: khushi's awareness of asr. another strange thing for a while as we know.

Originally posted by: indi52

hi jusad,

thanks, great comment. in bold, all you say is true. but now as asr is, he has evolved and released his flowing loving soul a lot don't you feel? ever since khushi has touched his life and he has submitted with: i don't need anything else. remember that beautiful telepathic conversation?

you are probably right, maybe he does want someone to celebrate his big day, but i feel he wants it to be khushi. and that too in a very private, intimate way. the way he is. he possibly wants khushi to understand him in a way only a lover can. that's his expectation perhaps. though i really don't know.

what i do find difficult to deal with is the change being imposed from above. this whole set up and game playing, and in fact ending up hurting him better part of his birthday.

our sensitive, loving, clever khushi could have found a much better way i feel.

i don't blame khushi. there is a strange tweaking of characters going on for a while. i don't know why. i feel this is the result of that. but i keep watching with hope. every single day. thanks again.

perhaps what was missing in the measurement scene was a key factor: khushi's awareness of asr. another strange thing for a while as we know.

Originally posted by: sampin

Ranjitha..I agree...and Di...I always agree with you!!😆

The thing is...we have a general tendency to say..We like Khushi...just the way she is...she is chirpy..vivacious...full of life..the sunshine girl of IPK...ASR loves her the way she is...People bash ASR...call him names...and does not think twice to say..that ASR's love for Khushi is restricted within the narrow boundaries of physicality and carnal desires!!😲But then..why do we want ASR to change?Yes..he has evolved in love...and that tough crust has eroded away...but why would we want him to become just like Khushi is??I don't think he has ever consciously asked Khushi to change herself for him...So why do we want him to change his sets of beliefs and faiths??Why can't we just let him be??Why his space should be invaded??If Khushi is good as she is..then ASR's 'khatta-meetha' nature should also be respected and maintained...

I for one would cringe to see a mushy ASR becoming a piece of furniture without a say in his own house!!