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rima

@rima

Stunner

+ 10

Posted: 12 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: Ipkknd_ArHi

Is it a crime to care for his di who is so weak that she faints every time no one walks with her?

And I'm talking about the Arshi marriage day when he had just got the biggest shock of his life that Garima was the reason his mother died. I think he is also human and as you said he is a lost boy. That day he was a lost boy... You can understand but why didn't the others?

i understand but i love him

ma be the others don't

but asr is not always wrong

people need to get that

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DKS

@-DKS-

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#82

You seem to be much older on the forum than your ID suggests I wonder why???

But to be frank enough Khushi antics have never caused much trouble for Arnav whereas Arnav has always created a havoc so people in general have more sympathy towards Khushi and it has nothing to do with gender it is just the character traits and the bag of history which is speaking here...

Coming to Arnav he has been criticized not because people want him to be a perfect husband..he is not BTW and they will never be perfect text book Husband and Wife and that is the fun from viewers POV...But defending honor and integrity of his wife is the first priority Anjali after marriage is no more Arnav's responsibility he may love her but that doesn't mean he can neglect his wife...

Moreover he is called spineless as this is the second instance where he has stood his ground and did nothing...no one will criticize him had the makers not shown his concern before marriage...

No one ever criticizes the lead of lamp and wick show he is spineless like most of the male leads on TV from the very beginning...

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Ume Salma Kakal

@sunflower52

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: ainimonaya

sorry peeping in!

Asr has already get over the reason ,he has forget his past!

if u r labelled as not understanding women's pain then we are labelled as abla naris nd even with words like bisexual ..now u'll say i dont use such words but if not u then there are many who use such words for khushi supporters!

@ bold, what how ridiculous to use such word, if you can understand Khushi that's good, I have never used this.

This all started because some of Khushi supporters repeatedly mocked those who understood ASR's actions and reactions by calling them droolers and phangirls in mocking way.

Went a little over board with bashing ASR. That is why those who understood him stopped defending him because of being labelled as droolers.

I am talking about before, not now.

Let me tell you one thing I started to watch this show because of Sanaya Irani, whom I liked as Gunjan.

Could help but stared to like ASR, who was different from all the hero's.

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Human being,apparently

@..mrinalini..

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#84

Thank You for the post...🤗

Well to tell you the truth..Many people here..who call themselves ardent Khushi fans connect with her character...😕And they loathe Arnav..Even though Khushi does not loathe himBecause Arnav has always been branded as some "wife beating...manhandling...lusting" misogynist young tycoon!!And now that he has fallen in love..he is expected to go all gooey and start romancing Khushi in the cheesiest way possible...if that means changing himself completely..while Khushi is never supposed to change...Even though she resorts to some of the most mindless tricks to irritate ASR!!Her sanak is "cute" while an angry ASR is "scary" and ridiculed in every way possible!!Maybe Arnav is equated with all the wife beaters out there...

When Arnav cries for his Di..He is bashed..When he says "sorry"..he is bashed and there are thousand of posts to decide whether that apology has hit the mark!!😕

Again if Khushi cries she is bashed and people say "We want our Jhalli Khushi back"..When she goes OTT..she is bashed again!!

So we have actually given up praising or discussing the love story that IPK is!!There are two camps..ASR camp...Khushi camp...Recently there has been another addition..Barun Vs.Sanaya fan...Insensitive to the core..There's an "official" bashing thread in the forum...People say constructive criticism..What about those sarcastic posts that ridicules the male lead like anything??ASR/ Barun/Sarun/ArHi...The forum is meant for neither of them!!This is a warzone and I have no hopes of getting back a sane place!!

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DushtKanya

@DushtKanya

Alumni

+ 11

Akadu Singh Arnav

Posted: 12 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: rima

i understand but i love him
ma be the others don't
but asr is not always wrong
people need to get that

Agree! 👍🏼

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Ume Salma Kakal

@sunflower52

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: rima

you don't have to relate to khushi at all
but you can still not condone asr's mistakes and say they both are equl
no way
no one will agree to that
throwing a person to the pool side or forcing them to marry cannot be condoned
and please do not even equate khushi's 'flaws' with asr's
she has not even given him her piece of mind for all that he put her through
she just forgave him

I feel she should have
then i wud love to see the forum's reaction

she does something out of love and there are so many posts
i shudder to think what wud happen if she did something out of hate
someting really harmful

I did not like what ASR did with Khushi during hate track, but understood one thing, hatred makes people blind to such an extent that they do not have any sense left to judge between right and wrong.

1st of all the whole hate marriage track was half baked and MU was forced on us viewers that did not make sense.

I would have said "Bravo" to Khushi, for voicing it out.

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Breeeezy

@Breeeezy

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: rima

what justice for ASR do you want
for the public bath
for the swami track

or

for the contract marriage
for the office track
for the hate marriage
for the characterless dialogue

khushi is not the abla nari
ASR is the abla nar for whom the girls are always crying and shedding tears
for a past even he has got over
people cry that we do not understand what makes him what he is...his past

khushi's present is much worse
so why do you not want us to sympathize with her?

No one is crying here , atleast not me !! I have seen only posts crying for Khushi and what she went thru and what she deserves etc etc day in and day out ... Most of ASR fans don't even bother to make posts because they know the state and mind of forum !! ... And I am glad to see few ppl trying to barge in people's mindset in this forum from couple of days!

Very few demanded justice to ASR's kidnap and torture , even at that time ppl were more focussed at punishing Shyam for wat he did to Khushi!

And for Anji I dislike her but when it comes to humanity she too should have been given some consideration for her fault but this forum never gave an ounce of sympathy for her even after she realized her mistakes and was shattered!! She was criticised for forgetting a big thing like miscarriage and demanding to get her hubby back the very next day , and when Khushi arranged movie the immediate day after Shyam's revelation she was hailed as DM !!wasn't that also innappropriate!!

There are 100s of incidents where we can make comparisons ... not all ppl feel that only intentions matter , actions and consequences also matter !!

And TBH Rima , I have hated ASR for his a** behaviour till hate marriage ...post that I only saw improvements in him and I for once have no issues or shame admitting I like his character the best so far in the show...He has grown by leaps and bounds as a person !! Call me drooler or phangurl I can connect more logically with ASR ... Keeping present in mind he is a very good human and very good husband and not to mention the best brother !!

and sorry I did not get why Khushi's present is much worse !!🤔

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Ain

@OnepoundChic

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: sunflower52

@ bold, what how ridiculous to use such word, if you can understand Khushi that's good, I have never used this.

This all started because some of Khushi supporters repeatedly mocked those who understood ASR's actions and reactions by calling them droolers and phangirls in mocking way.

Went a little over board with bashing ASR. That is why those who understood him stopped defending him because of being labelled as droolers.

I am talking about before, not now.

Let me tell you one thing I started to watch this show because of Sanaya Irani, whom I liked as Gunjan.

Could help but stared to like ASR, who was different from all the hero's.

see i understand ur point! may be others don't feel like but i love Asr ro the same extent i love khushi! i started watching the show 4 sanaya but now i love barun the same much!

just one thing..no one here is less than other! i already said if Asr fans are names with different names khushi fans are also named! but stop making posts or hiding some where is not a solution of any thing ..coz this is a public forum nd differing in opinions is must!

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DushtKanya

@DushtKanya

Alumni

+ 11

Akadu Singh Arnav

Posted: 12 years ago

#89

Ok, I'm going now! :) Phew! Thanks again TM! Come and see the comments here yaar! You'll love them 😆 Bye guys! 🤗

Love you Sarun! <3

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Human being,apparently

@..mrinalini..

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#90

Originally posted by: rima

you don't have to relate to khushi at all
but you can still not condone asr's mistakes and say they both are equl
no way
no one will agree to that
throwing a person to the pool side or forcing them to marry cannot be condoned
and please do not even equate khushi's 'flaws' with asr's
she has not even given him her piece of mind for all that he put her through
she just forgave him

I feel she should have
then i wud love to see the forum's reaction

she does something out of love and there are so many posts
i shudder to think what wud happen if she did something out of hate
someting really harmful

Rima..

I still for the life of me cannot understand how can a newly married..so in love girl "out of love" irritate her husband to that extent!And ASR is supposed to take it all lightly??Isn't this the same girl who comforted him on the marriage night??!!

Well if you see...I might be an ASR fan..but am not a biased person...I can find a fault in ASR and accept it ..anytime...I really like Khushi...But I really cannot agree that "out of love"a girl cannot realize that ASR wants to spend time with her!!This is the same girl who gave into her throes of passion a DAY BEFORE MARRIAGE!!She might have endured hell but she is not a flawless person as many perceive her to be!!

Just my opinion..Don't take it personally!!