Originally posted by: yogifalu
Understanding arnav's likes , dislikes ,pain, mood etc as a person, khushi is connected n related; but understanding passion, longing of arnav's as a hubby ' ermmm... lost my brain here.
For me, above lines sums it up all. latest equation of there married life. lets see how much time its gonna take, to get solved.
lovely post dear. but then you are always faboulous. 🤗
hi yogifalu,
you are too kind, i often see your like on my post, must say i love it 😃.
that in bold, so right. wonder why that happens. and to portray "depth" and "matter" in a relationship must the basic pull of desire played down? khushi can sense arnav's everything but not his need to hang with her. and who says it's all about sex? plus i do think in couples, sex becomes a form of communication, of bonding, of saying things words can't. of going to a deeper layer of being together.
are we and channel and ph still uncomfortable exploring a woman's desires? her facing of and accepting herself? her not being embarrassed about such things? do we consider a girl who loves and wants her lover by her selfish? don't think so. not this audience, certainly. in fact, khushi can explore all of that without it seeming off, the actor is fine and the character strong. would hate to miss out on all that for some portrayal of the imagined "ideal woman." she is allowed controlled bouts of sanak, but no real desires, she just lives to serve others. hmmm.
Edited by indi52 - 12 years ago