Request for Peace in the Forum! - Page 5

Originally posted by: Afya

I am glad you want peace too. It is sad. Many seem to be fighting endlessly😲 And the groupism! 😔

My request to you would be to not form groups. That's the root cause of the problem. If people discuss as individuals, there will be peaceful discussions. If someone writes a stupid post like the one you have mentioned, just ignore it. Let's be peaceful yaar. This Forum is getting unpleasant. Join with me to spread the peace!

hehe there was no chance of fighting anymore yaar 😆
becoz i stopped visiting the forum lately and only comment on posts that really make sense or if its from my friends😕
i cant help it yaar because even i want to support some posts or want to present my opinion they will make fun of u or label u as from that group ...so y to bang my head on the wall so i left it ...

Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav

i am always n will be the one to want peace in the forum...its sad to see the state of the forum lately... gone were the days when everyone are united for sarun...and i agree i am from barun's group because i am forced to choose the side even yesterday when i made a topic i got the comment like"i dont need to answer your post as ur name tells all😕"what should i call that???
the forum is in very sad state now ...before 1 month i always used to find time to visit forum and read all most all posts but these days its so hard to visit forum reading the posts is dhoor ki baat hain

Originally posted by: neenaLUVarnav

hehe there was no chance of fighting anymore yaar 😆
becoz i stopped visiting the forum lately and only comment on posts that really make sense or if its from my friends😕
i cant help it yaar because even i want to support some posts or want to present my opinion they will make fun of u or label u as from that group ...so y to bang my head on the wall so i left it ...

Originally posted by: aditi_arshi

same here...although i belong to grp BARUN...but if ppl wants to take dig at us,going personal..thn what to expect??

Anyways nice post afya

hope ur post reaches every1..

Originally posted by: ASR4eva

I agree. I love IPKKND and the show which has Arshi in it not just Arnav or Khushi. I support the character which is right and give credit where it's due. That's all.

If Arnav is wrong, he's wrong and if Khushi's wrong, she's wrong and if any other character's wrong they're plain wrong. We can't change the facts.

If the show is not going in the right way then we all crib and cry.

And in the end it's just a fictional show and we all have to understand that. 😊

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

Great post Swati 🤗

My only problem is when people can't differentiate between Arnav and Barun. I have never in my time here "bashed" Barun the actor/person...you can look up my history and won't find anything. I don't think I could love a show if I didn't love the lead actor in it. So it is annoying when his fangirls call everyone bashers...they don't realize they are doing him more harm than good. I've seen so many sane and objective people who are turned off by their behavior and poor Barun has to suffer the consequences.

I have criticized Arnav, the fictional guy, in the past when he deserves it. I always root for the underdog so I feel more for Khushi's pain. Arnav has been wrong more often than Khushi so naturally he will get criticized more often than her.

One other thing, being a straight female doesn't mean you have to drool over an actor. I'd rather drool over my boyfriend and appreciate actors for their talent.

If that was the case, actresses like Sandra Bullock, Aishwarya Rai and Kareena Kapoor wouldn't have such massive female fanbases. Same for Sanaya Irani, I'm actually glad she has many fans here. Thank god there are open-minded, sensible and secure females who can support other females without getting envious or threatened.

I know I went off on a tangent but just making a general observation here (not directed at the TM).

Originally posted by: Afya

So, why be a part of a group? Why not discuss peacefully as an individual? Why discuss only in your friend's post? Why not all the posts you want to share your thoughts on? This is your forum too. We need to stop groupism to maintain peace in this forum.

wait a little long dear u will see the replies here ...being in group doesnt mean i fight with others dear its just that when people are rude then i feel very hurt so i keep my distance n tats y i comment mostly on friends thread anyway i hardly comment these days and after so long i am commenting on some discussion ...becoz i always want to see positivity in the forum😊

I am neither...I love both, to me they are what they are because of the other...I critique both for things I don't like they do...and applaud for what I like..

Thank you sweetie for this post.. i hope u dont mind my callin u that as many people have objections even when we call them buddy here.. I am positive person ..yes it is fictional show for me ..I take it as fiction only ..when I joined this forum , I was neutral ,I almost talked with everyone,never thought that few posts belonged to particular group and few to other group.. but somehow when people constantly post their views on a particular character and criticising a certain character ,you generally know that where their priorities are.I am not saying arnav was not wrong at all but he was never praised even by those who claimed him to be wrong when he was right. I have nothin against khushi's character,ofcourse one as woman feels strongly for her ,it is understandable but if you show bit sympathy for hero ,then views are seen as biased due to our attraction to him.So yes one gets disturbed when your views are not treated with respect but as immature and childish.. As much as I never wanted to take sides..I was forced too..I wished I cud say I am in team arhi but then there is no such team here... I am individual when it comes to my opinion ..as said earlier I am optimist... and I believe in love...this will always be THEIR story for me... both Arnav-Khushi makes it complete.

completely agree😊 with u much needed post continue the positivity don't let go😊