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Posted: 12 years ago
#31
Firstly thanks for the post rima.

As u pointed out, I dont want to comment on anything that has happened before in Arshi's life but the bond these two have shared in the last couple of days, to be precise" from the time they agreed to get re-married" was wonderful. I thght they have grown in there relationship. what khushi has for Arnav and what she can do was never ever to be questioned, i think she has proved that enough no. of times.
But Arnav i dont know and i dont think khushi will ever be so imp in his life, i thght he has changed, he knows his priorities but NO.
I understand Arnav is in pain I truly empathize with him but can we forget everything that he has done to khushi.

" His sister's marriage was broken so was Khushi's sister's" "His mom was cheated so was Khushi". "His sister lost her child, Khushi lost her family twice". " He married Khushi for 6months to punish her for ruining his sister's life and what khushi did she brought Shyam ji back to make his sister happy"
I think i can go on and on to prove khushi's love for Arnav but do I have anything which proves Arnav's love for Khushi then "I DID SAY A BIG NO"

Thanks again rima
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Posted: 12 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: princessunara

i think di, that story i wrote 2 days back about there never being a decision, well that is exactly this!!

cz it was NOT khushi who cheated his mother with his father, so how could he even for a moment equate
His mom dying to him Marrying Khushi...

Pray tell me is he marrying 'woh dusri aurat ki beti' ya 'apni Khushi' ?

u nailed it there sunara
it shud be his 'apni khushi' and not his mom's sauth's neice
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: rima


i respectfully degree
love is never a choice
it is one's life
or nothing



It's not all that black or white rima I think. What about the love for his mother? Is that a choice then?

Again Arnav's love for Khushi and that of his towards his family are two mutually exclusive things.

I mentioned it earlier with this kind of love there is no 'more' and 'less'.

Stop making awesome debate topics rima. RC is tired and wants to sleep now. 😆 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: luckyarnav

Firstly thanks for the post rima.


As u pointed out, I dont want to comment on anything that has happened before in Arshi's life but the bond these two have shared in the last couple of days, to be precise" from the time they agreed to get re-married" was wonderful. I thght they have grown in there relationship. what khushi has for Arnav and what she can do was never ever to be questioned, i think she has proved that enough no. of times.
But Arnav i dont know and i dont think khushi will ever be so imp in his life, i thght he has changed, he knows his priorities but NO.
I understand Arnav is in pain I truly empathize with him but can we forget everything that he has done to khushi.

" His sister's marriage was broken so was Khushi's sister's" "His mom was cheated so was Khushi". "His sister lost her child, Khushi lost her family twice". " He married Khushi for 6months to punish her for ruining his sister's life and what khushi did she brought Shyam ji back to make his sister happy"
I think i can go on and on to prove khushi's love for Arnav but do I have anything which proves Arnav's love for Khushi then "I DID SAY A BIG NO"

Thanks again rima

welcome
on the whole khushi has suffered twice or three times more than arnav due to life and him
yet she never chooses
but he always does
that is the tragedy
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Posted: 12 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: rock&roll


Hmm.gud point..Khushi definitely has a very big heart..ASR doesn't have her large and forgiving heart..no doubt...

But,it is a little easier to forgive wrong doings done to oneself than wrongdoings done to ppl close to u...but let me not take anything away from Khushi..She is defintiely way more large hearted, emphathetic, forgiving and emotionally stable and stronger than ASR ...😊



Arnav done a lot of bad thing to Khushi, and her family ..
lets only talk about her family .. he forced them to send their daughters away from them to Delhi becuase of his MU, he ruined their repetation in the city that they live in ..
Arnav made her family expose to the social accountability after the way he married Khushi ..
Arnav today again was a reason for her and her entire fmaily humiliation .. her mother has been described with a dirty words in front of all the gusts ..

Why she is still waiting for him to marry her .. why she still clinging to him after all the hurt that he gave her & her family ..

and ya , What have Khushi done for his closet ?! No thing ..
Its her Aunt NOT her .. How can he make her responsible of her aunt's fault ..

I don't expect Arnav to go and accept her and her aunt too .. but at least I expect him to do as he promised her ..
and then , he ask her to cut her relationship with her Aunt .. and etc ...

It would be much better .. at least , Dadi wouldn't insulate her and her family in the PUBLIC .. !



The whole thing is neither person's fault..Just that ASR needs his time..that's the way the man is cut out..That's the way he has always dealt with with his problems..alone and taking time off..and thinking before marrying her is actually a very gud thing...we don't want ppl to act in haste and repent at leisure,like last time 😊..

PS:Sorry Rima,I turn up at all ur posts to contradict u..Nothing personal or intentional...just different POVs 🤗



Always he think about him self , his family ..
He never thought about her or her family situation .. He didn't before, and he didn't now .. and I doubt it he will ever do ..

and If it was Khushi fault I will understand and digest the fact that he need to think .. but it is not her in any form !!




Edited by .A.l.i.a. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36
Well, there is just one benifit of doubt I am willing to give Arnav. I do not know how it feels -- 1. To loose your mother when you are 14 years old
2. And then the way you loose her...seeing her commit suicide in front of you
3. Coupled with loosing another parent on the same day in the same manner
4. Sisters wedding being cancelled due to all these reasons
5. Being thrown out of the house and not having a shelter..
Me in his place, wouldn't I take a moment or two to go through the agony after realising who the perpetrator for all these trauma was. Let us not forget that he still does not know Garima's side of the story.
I think he is not taking his time to decide if he wants to marry Khushi or not. Rather he is trying to come to terms with the past vs present. Let us give him a few moments of personal space and he will be back Bang On !
Meanwhile, I, like Khushi completely trust Arnav will not only be back but will make up for the pain she had to go through.
Hope I am proved right this time.
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Today I am happy to have been proven right ! Thank you CV's.
Edited by After20at42 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: rima

he will ask her to disown garima


Yeah definitely... But will Khushi agree to that?
I hope Khushi stays back at G.H after the wedding.

He didn't realize the mistake that he made in Shyam's matter.
He just takes decision by listening to one side.
He should confront garima also.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38
It's a debatable post actually😊 My mind is torn b/w Arnav & Khushi. I agree logically also Khushi has nothing to do with his parents death but sometimes as some one mentioned it's not always black and white...ASR is a human so I expect some flaws but I am sure he understands the importance of Khushi in his life. On Khushi's side I was wondering why Khushi didn't call Arnav and try to clarify( have not watched today's epi yet..not sure if she did that already) instead of listening crap from dadi who always exaggerates things.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39
rima...I luv ASR only for this atitude...coz he's tooo vulnerable...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#40
Yup Rima, it hurts and hurts pretty bad to always be the third wheel...

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