What hurt most about ASR today - Page 2

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

Rima, that's exactly what I was thinking...wonderful post.

Dadi won because she succeeded in swaying Arnav and humiliating Khushi on her wedding day.

Arnav has seen this happen with his sister in the past, when her wedding was ruined at the altar. He always has flashbacks of that day. So why didn't he think for a second about how much it would hurt Khushi if he didn't show up at the altar?

I understand his pain but as usual, he didn't think of Khushi. He thought about himself, his sister, his family. He is so sensitive when it comes to his family. Yet he always proves to be insensitive to Khushi's feelings. She is never his number one priority. If she was, he would ignore Dadi, show up and marry her on time and deal with the drama later.

Khushi is the only character on this show who puts everyone else and their feelings above hers, and never gets anything in return.

Originally posted by: .A.l.i.a.

I agree with you ..

What hurt me the most , that Khushi didn't need a second to thought before forgiving him for his OWN sins and destroying her life, and made her live in a physical & emotional torture for 1.5 years ..
and he is thinking before marrying her-after all what happened- just because of her MASI's fault , not her fault ..

Thant why I always said the he don't deserve her .. That why I'm disappointed with him even though I knew that he will come later ..

Originally posted by: dipaj

I love ASR and I know he in shocked and pain and he will come to marry her but my POV is "har chees ka ek waqt hota hai, har kam agar time per pure na hoto uska koi matlab bahi rehta..some time life dose not give u time to think u have ti decide in a second other wise is too late..marne wale ki akhari khwahish useke marnese pehle hi puchi jati hai baad ma nahi..." understood his pain but life don't give him time it's action time only...

Originally posted by: .A.l.i.a.

I agree with you ..

What hurt me the most , that Khushi didn't need a second to thought before forgiving him for his OWN sins ..for destroying her life ..

Hmm.gud point..Khushi definitely has a very big heart..ASR doesn't have her large and forgiving heart..no doubt...

But,it is a little easier to forgive wrong doings done to oneself than wrongdoings done to ppl close to u...but let me not take anything away from Khushi..She is defintiely way more large hearted, emphathetic, forgiving and emotionally stable and stronger than ASR ...😊
and he is thinking before marrying her-after all what happened- just because of her MASI's fault , not her fualt ..

Thant why I always said the he don't deserve her .. That why I'm disappointed with him even though I knew that he will come later ..

Originally posted by: rock&roll

The whole thing is neither person's fault..Just that ASR needs his time..that's the way the man is cut out..That's the way he has always dealt with with his problems..alone and taking time off..and thinking before marrying her is actually a very gud thing...we don't want ppl to act in haste and repent at leisure,like last time 😊

PS:Sorry Rima,I turn up at all ur posts to contradict u..Nothing personal or intentional...just different POVs 🤗

Originally posted by: rima

pri

do i need to tell you that you and i are on the same page

u always speak my heart

and today you expressed my deepest agony for this girl

Originally posted by: sree07

Sorry rima...i disagree with this.

As much as i felt for khushi's plight, ASR is in no less position. It is a shock for him, may be shock of his life. He is just collecting himself and he deserves few minutes of loneliness. I do not think his choice should be an obvious one and he should opt for khushi's happiness in a nano second. I would have been so against ASRs character. His choice is tough and I am happy he is thinking thorough on that! Finally love overcomes hatred but it takes time especially for a person with anger management issues like ASR, it def takes time.