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Posted: 12 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: freya2

Great post. But I don't agree with it fully.

Khushi might want to see Arnav happy, and therefore she needs to make Anjali happy.. But by getting Shyam back into the house, Khushi should know that she won't see Arnav happy or sad, she will find him dead!😆

Come on if we wanted to see our husband happy we wouldn't bring a man into the house who is a threat to his life and everyone else's, regardless of the situation.

I understand Khushi's plight, but unfortunately I can't agree with her actions, no matter what the reasons are. This man sexually harassed her, tried to kill her and she knows he didn't care about Anjali or the baby's safety one bit, he tried to force himself on her, then he kidnapped her husband, got her husband beaten up, tried to burn her husband to death, tied her up and left her for dead on a road, insulted her in front of everyone, tried to ruin her marriage, and even then we're meant to think, oh how sweet Khushi is for bringing back Shyam into the house because she wants to see Arnav happy??😕 More like dead.

She knows he is a threat to everyone, yet we're meant to believe she is bringing him into the house for everyone's happiness?
I'm sorry but to me it just seems stupid. No woman in her right mind, having the knowledge Khushi does, would want such a man in her house. All the reasons behind it are invalid in relation to how much she knows.

I don't hate Khushi, but I hate the writers. All this time I've been watching IPKKND, I thought Khushi was different to all the heroines I see in other shows. She was intelligent, and not shown to be stupid like most female leads are shown to be in other shows. Women are always shown to be the ones who need rescuing, who lack brains and mental strength, but Khushi was different. She's the one who had the mental strength to fight Shyam and had the brains to find out Shyam's plans, and she rescued Arnav, and I absolutely loved it! I know I sound so emotional about it, but it felt good seeing a woman who was capable of actually being the heroine, rather than a damsel in distress. Finally a woman was shown to be independent and capable of doing things by herself, but at the same time she had all the traditional traits of a woman, someone who is loving and caring.

But now they are ruining it. They are making her typical, and instead of finding reasons behind Khushi's actions, we should be opposing it.. That's why I signed Rima's petition.😊




Exactly what I think most of us are thinking. Great post.👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
#32
Totally agree with you Tia...on how everything revolves around a very selfish woman at heart... Anjali - she is really self centered and unless she is happy, she will ensure that she will make everyone;s life miserable!!!! right now I am so hating the way this character is shaping up... love is not saying it but in action and she is all talk... she is a nice person but totally self driven... and has not for a minute thought of " is there some truth to what they are telling me about shyam?"

I hope the scene goes like this

ASR - Shyam - can you please come home?

Shyam - Sure Sale saab!!!! Mentally - ha ha ha i finally have you on your knees, you are calling me back home!!!! i knew you would have no choice but to call me back... i have you exactly where i want you... "Khushi ji, I am coming back for you" i love you and i will make sure this time, i will succeed in killing my dumb wife RAni Sahiba , prevent your marriage from happening and marry you myself!!!

Anjali - aahhh !!! my chotey is so good, he is giving me back my boy toy, now i can go back to being happy for everyone else, now i can live up to my name of poojali, now i can simper and whimper after my Boy toy... he is handsome after all!!

Naniji - I do not know what Arnav's plan is ... but i trust him completely

Dadiji - finally ... i am the fixer, see i came back and now i managed to bring my damadji who loves my anajali so much back into the house... i refuse to listen to my grandson who has taken care of her for so long!!!

Mamiji - all i want is to say bye bye to sorrow and hello hello to shyam ... to see my anjali happy

Aakash - glad finally shyam is back... i do have short term memory loss so i have forgotten that he was also your kidnapper, oh yeah.. i would have remembered if i had at least asked once on how you were once you came back after the kidnapping!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ASR ----- keep dreaming everyone of you... let Shyam come and then you will see ASR in action

Shyam walks in and is told

ASR - Shyam my dadi is vrey clear that my di your responsibility and not really mine and that you are the one who should be taking care of her since no one can love you more than her.

So, here is Di, ... HP - get Di's suitcases .. I am sure everything is packed...

Here... Di is ready with her bags, you should take care of her ... she is your responsibility and let me be clear that you continue to take care of her, the way you pretend to all the time and also remember that if anything happens to my di ... even accidentally ... you will be jailed for ever... i will make sure of that.

You are a lawyer and earn very well i am sure since you are an excellent actor and liar... so go ahead and support my di ... she is waiting to live with you, do your pooja etccc

Shyam - FAINTWA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry for such a long post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Edited by blrgal - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33
Khushi's plan... Hmmm... bas yahi bacha hai show me... After a stupid thought process, a manipulative, shrewd, planning, calculative and wicked khushi...
Where is my innocent, mad, mischievous, happy go lucky and smarty angel... I wonder...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What a wonderful analysis Tia! You have preciously summarized our opinions and feelings. Agree with you

I have pretty much said quite a lot on this topic already and on the recent events that are shown lately. I have one thing to say, though. I can not seem to understand Arnav-Anjali's relationship. I can relate to the fact that if your sibling is upset or is going through a rough patch, then you as their family will try to make them feel better, to care for them and help sort things out for them to the best of your ability and even feel bad for them, right? But, its unrealistic to show that just because one person is sad or a little upset (the miscarriage track aside) their brother(s) or sister(s) will experience the exact same emotion - that does not happen - you can certainly feel sad, or even cry at times - but to show that it Anjali is unhappy then Arnav is unhappy and same goes for happiness and other emotions. Even twins do not have this connection. If this is how things ought to be, then how come the family did not feel the pain and sadness for all the mental and physical torture Arnav went through during his captivation for weeks? 😕

I am not speaking about Miscarriage as it's a hugely upsetting circumstance and your family are bound to feel sad and might even be alright to cry for you but at other times your emotions can not be in perfect sync.

Please correct me if I am wrong here. I am trying to understand but with no success. To me it seems such a silly cycle of happiness and sadness between the 4 characters: Khushi - Arnav - Anjali - Shyaam

I want to mention this quote to mostly Dadi and Anjali with regards to the Shyaam 's past behaviour:

"Everything will line up perfectly when knowing and living the truth becomes more important than looking good" - Alan Cohen




Edited by nina5 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#35
👏thanks tia.o for the post and pm.👏

firstly if she hadn't thought and expressed this way I really doubt😕 myself ever stopping to bash Khushi for thinking of Shyam back at Shantivan.😲

actually sometime in our life we had to compromise/change for your own sake. what she is doing would actually affect her relationship with Arnav positively❤️ or negatively💔, but it would surely affect anyway. if Arnav is contented then only she can live in RM.😊

We must remember that Arnav preffered😡 for Di's appointment to Khushi😳. so Anjali becomes her pathway😃(if she supports Anjali)😃 to Arnav and her wall🤢(if she doesn't support Arnav)🤢.

so the point I was saying that ⭐️sometimes peace is much more important than happiness and vice-versa.⭐️


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Posted: 12 years ago
#36
Once and for all, if Shyam comes back Anjali will stop this Rona Dhona...and hopefully track can focus on Arnav and Khushi😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: arhimaa7

a very nice analysis on khushi's character...

she is really a very beautiful character...
her selfless love ...
i just loved the scene where she goes by arnav and asks him now u can also eat...
she is the only one who thinks about arnav,...
the remaining all just want the baby(anji) to be happy...


True. But I think the audience have a lesson to learn here. Having love and concern for others is good. But if you don't look out for your own happiness, no one else will. Pure & simple...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: arshi21


Yeah. If Anjali gets her Shyam back, Dadi most probably won't care about who is Khushi's mother. She just needs a f*cked up reason to NOT let Khushi into the house because her old brain cells refuse to work and lead her to believe that Khushi is the cause of all the bad things happening in the house.

If Nani finds out about Khushi's mother and her past and all, I still think she would support Khushi. She seems like the ONLY person who would actually think that even Khushi has had lost her parents and she doesn't play a SINGLE role in all the dramas of the past!

I at least hope so.


Why aren't there any spoilers?! WHYYY?? And I cannot take this Anjali-Shyam drama anymore.
I'd rather read the written updates for the next 2-3 episodes at least. It would spare me those annoying women's (dadi and Anjali) faces at least.


I hope so too. Let's keep our fingers crossed. I'm also doing the LU/WU until they have something I want to watch.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: rima

oh yes i know u do come to my posts
we have a MAS going then (mutual admiration society😊)
tia right now the thing stopping her is her boudless love for her arnavji
he rules her heart
khushi by nature can never complain or hold grudges
more so for her arnavji
but some day I want her to stand up for her rights
ask him where she stands
and walk out at least fro some time to make him realize this


One thing I'd really love to see here is that the CVs to show her love as a strength and not a weakness. So far Khushi love for Arnav has been shown as his strength and his love for her as her weakness. I want to see this time Arnav's love as Khushi's strength. Love should empower you, not make you weak and hopeless.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: vandana.sagar

I agree to, ESP the point where she knows that arnavs happiness is unfortunately linked to Di and Di's to Shyam...


But all I want her to do is not go against arnav...talk to him... Tell him that she saw him and tell him that each time he is here Di is happy..till Di is shown some proof she will not believe anyone...so while he is under their nose collect evidence ...keep the enemy close to you..I mean clearly the security that was meant to have been increased or the restraining order he was going to get against Shaym not effective so long as anjali and dadi are around so get him back and expose him...but don't get him back thinking he has changed...don't trust him..he wanted your husband dead and wanted you not very long back...whilst his wife was pregnant...


I just don't want any action taken by her that gives arnav any pain...currently she is the only one who he shares his tears and pain with...and his weakness and what he thinks is his failure..and for Arnav Singh Raizada to even say such a thing given his ego is a big big admission..so she should talk to him...she has in the past got him to listen and agree to a lot of things...and now too.

Don't lie to him or go behind his back! His beloved didi is already deceiving him...don't add your name to that list..be his strength !


Actually Vandana. The key to Arnav's happiness is in his own hands. When he stops reacting to every whim of Anjali, Khushi will devote her time solely to him. But at this moment, the only way Khushi seems to make him happy is through Anjali. Think from her point of view. They can's have a normal life, a normal marriage, unless Anjali is happy. How tiring and frustrating it must be for her. So the day Arnav just lets Anjali have her own life and lives his life completely independent of Anjali's, is the day all these defiance and attempt to go against him to make Anjali happy will stop. I can assure you, if Arnav does not hold himself responsible for Anjali's life, Khushi won't either.

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