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fffan123

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Awesome post Tia. Agree with you

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Tia.0

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Muah, muah, muah back. I'm a big fan of your posts too and always peep in to read refreshing change from ASR mania.

You have picked the perfect quote to describe Khushi's life. Everything in her life is a tip. She has to beg, work, earn every crumb of her life.

Having love is a tip she has to work hard for at the cost of her life; having that said love in her life is a tip she has to work for at the cost of her dignity; having a wedding where she is the center of attention is a tip, she has to beg, plead and work to achieve at the cost of everyone's glare at her own happiness.

For once I want to see her to be the underdog who shakes off the tag. I want her to scream and shout and let loose all frustration on the people of RM and walk out. She can do it. We have seen it before with ASR. Remember the push at the crumbling building? I want that happening with every member of RM family. I just want her to be a human, not a freaking saint.

Originally posted by: rima
tia
muaah
muaah
muaah
take a bow a standing ovation for this write up
how well u analyzed this

everything in this girl's life has come like ASR's famous dialogue 'gift nahi to tip samajh kar rakhlo'

she gets casraways of others like an orphan does
her marriage
her happiness
her very existence is a bheek...
or that is what she thinks

people ask why I fuss over Khushi
Why I love her character so much
Why I act like her lawyer
Why because it is just fictional...

Because in her I see an underdog
whose very existence is for others
and she gets nothing worthy of her

and asr everyone says is a wonderful husband
but to me he is a good husband when he MAKES HER FEEL WORTHY AS WORTHY AS HIS SISTER IF NOT MORE

Edited by tia.o - 12 years ago

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arshi21

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Bang on.

I'd love to chuck out Anjali with Dadi AND Shyam.

Why is it like this Tia? WHY? Why can't everyone f*cking USE their brain? Why are the Raizadas so ...I don't know...weird? The only member of the Raizada clan I like is,Nani. In spite of all, she at least had the balls to defend Khushi and she has been defending her since the very beginning.

Why cannot the focus, once shift to Arshi?

Its like, the CVs are okay with showing all the hatred/fights of Arnav and Khushi but not their love. Its too much.

I am sure, no other serial would have had such a bad timing.

The lead pair of many shows enjoy their honeymoon/bliss/happy state for at least a week or so.

Why can't they?

Why is it that everything good they do has to have SOME bad element? It gets so frustrating.

Now, what about the marriage?

I really need to know whether its happening or not.

I need to know whether that clingy, stubborn, petulant and nonsensical child of Raizada mansion becomes as happy as to grant two poor longing soul SOME freaking amount of happiness.

I really need to know.

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Tia.0

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: geetmaanluv
great analysis

i was mad too .. but its predictable khushi behavior. she wants everything to work out like a dream. and she forgives without a thought. her mother slapped her .. did she even care. buaji got her engaged to shyam.. she was never mad at her. arnav she has always loved so never really stayed mad at him.

as for shyam...

well from what i got she only want to bring him for anjali's happiness and lets be honest.. arnav wont be happy till his di is happy. and khushi cant be happy till aranv is happy. n anjali cant be happy till she has shyam. they are all stuck in a vicious and sick cycle and shyam is reaping the benefits.

i just hope the cv's handle it well and explain that khushi is not forgiving shyam nor show her supporting shyam against arnav. but going by the cv's track record they will mess it up for sure.

Thanks Geet. But believe it or not, Khushi is portraying the typical behaviour of long-term abuse victims. I have volunteered at a shelter for abused women. Those women who were more recently abused, come to those shelters and a higher percentage of them successfully get away from all this and start a new life.

But the long-term abuse victims start to believe that this is what they deserve. That is how their life should be. They are the ones who keep going back again and again to their abuser because they can't comprehend their life away from the abuse.

Now let's Khushi's case. She never demands respect as a human being from Mamiji or Dadiji. No matter how much everyone insults her, she keeps going back again and again with a smile. Slaps, insults, humiliations don't leave marks on her anymore, almost as if she has grown a second skin.

Now let's go back to the Khushi before marriage. ASR sends her to a crumbling building, she pushes him and gives him the piece of her mind, ASR starts to get out of hand, she throws his job on his face and walks out. ASR insults her, she walks out until Anjali emotionally blackmails her to come back for La's training.

Six months of constant husband's insult and abuse, then another month of the rest of the family's insult and abuse have now made her immune to insult and humiliation. Now she actually has started to believe that this is how her life is going to be from now on. Funnily enough, her sister or any member of her family walk up to Arnav and says, "We won't send our daughter to your home to be constantly humiliated and insulted. The day you can ensure, no one will harm her dignity and self-respect, come back here to ask for her hand.

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souryadeep

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

god save khushi

hope anjali and shyam fly away to some distant beach if not anjali s sasural

arnav must get back his asr brain

why has he become so dumbass now?

and finally we have an end to this pathetic relationship

my sis says" thank god I m not a psycho like roodali"

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Fari

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Ohhh I loved your post and I sooo agree with every word of yours 😳 oh the tampon bit... 🤣 🤣

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Tia.0

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: DiehardYMfan
god save khushi
hope anjali and shyam fly away to some distant beach if not anjali s sasural
arnav must get back his asr brain
why has he become so dumbass now?
and finally we have an end to this pathetic relationship
my sis says" thank god I m not a psycho like roodali"

First of all, Anjali and Shyam will never fly away because their cushy life style comes from Arnav. Hence, her attachment to her brother's home. Her Chotey has badey bank balance.

Secondly, Arnav's half brain cells has been sucked out by Zombie Anjali whose brain has been completely sucked out by Shyam. So right now, ASR is part-time zombie and only when he sees Anjali. When he is with Khushi, she let's him use her brain and then he appears smart. Now unless Anjali vomits it his brain cells back, he will have to be part-time zombie man.

Thirdly, Until Arnav finds his brain cells back, he will be part-time zombie. So it's a vicious cycle. The only way to break it is for Khushi to take Arnav out of RM to allow him exclusive time with her to let him grow his brain cells back. Without Arnav to feed on, Anjali will grow weak and Shyam will leave her. Then Anjali will be zombie no more and Arnav can be cured too.

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Anshi7

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

a very nice analysis on khushi's character...

she is really a very beautiful character...

her selfless love ...

i just loved the scene where she goes by arnav and asks him now u can also eat...

she is the only one who thinks about arnav,...

the remaining all just want the baby(anji) to be happy...

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arshi21

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: tia.o

Yeah. If Anjali gets her Shyam back, Dadi most probably won't care about who is Khushi's mother. She just needs a f*cked up reason to NOT let Khushi into the house because her old brain cells refuse to work and lead her to believe that Khushi is the cause of all the bad things happening in the house.

If Nani finds out about Khushi's mother and her past and all, I still think she would support Khushi. She seems like the ONLY person who would actually think that even Khushi has had lost her parents and she doesn't play a SINGLE role in all the dramas of the past!

I at least hope so.

Why aren't there any spoilers?! WHYYY?? And I cannot take this Anjali-Shyam drama anymore.

I'd rather read the written updates for the next 2-3 episodes at least. It would spare me those annoying women's (dadi and Anjali) faces at least.

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souryadeep

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: tia.o

First of all, Anjali and Shyam will never fly away because their cushy life style comes from Arnav. Hence, her attachment to her brother's home. Her Chotey has badey bank balance.

Secondly, Arnav's half brain cells has been sucked out by Zombie Anjali whose brain has been completely sucked out by Shyam. So right now, ASR is part-time zombie and only when he sees Anjali. When he is with Khushi, she let's him use her brain and then he appears smart. Now unless Anjali vomits it his brain cells back, he will have to be part-time zombie man.

Thirdly, Until Arnav finds his brain cells back, he will be part-time zombie. So it's a vicious cycle. The only way to break it is for Khushi to take Arnav out of RM to allow him exclusive time with her to let him grow his brain cells back. Without Arnav to feed on, Anjali will grow weak and Shyam will leave her. Then Anjali will be zombie no more and Arnav can be cured too.

hope the cvs are hearing you😉

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