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Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: nina5
What a wonderful analysis Tia! You have preciously summarized our opinions and feelings. Agree with you
I have pretty much said quite a lot on this topic already and on the recent events that are shown lately. I have one thing to say, though. I can not seem to understand Arnav-Anjali's relationship. I can relate to the fact that if your sibling is upset or is going through a rough patch, then you as their family will try to make them feel better, to care for them and help sort things out for them to the best of your ability and even feel bad for them, right? But, its unrealistic to show that just because one person is sad or a little upset (the miscarriage track aside) their brother(s) or sister(s) will experience the exact same emotion - that does not happen - you can certainly feel sad, or even cry at times - but to show that it Anjali is unhappy then Arnav is unhappy and same goes for happiness and other emotions. Even twins do not have this connection. If this is how things ought to be, then how come the family did not feel the pain and sadness for all the mental and physical torture Arnav went through during his captivation for weeks? 😕 - BINGO... I was saying it from the very start. But now what I was saying is making sense. It's almost as if everyone's life is secondary to Anjali's life. That is creepy and weird.

I am not speaking about Miscarriage as it's a hugely upsetting circumstance and your family are bound to feel sad and might even be alright to cry for you but at other times your emotions can not be in perfect sync. - However, where the hell those glass pieces go? How come she can walk just fine now? Why does not the doctor discuss that with the patient's family?

Please correct me if I am wrong here. I am trying to understand but with no success. To me it seems such a silly cycle of happiness and sadness between the 4 characters: Khushi - Arnav - Anjali - Shyaam

I want to mention this quote to mostly Dadi and Anjali with regards to the Shyaam 's past behaviour:

"Everything will line up perfectly when knowing and living the truth becomes more important than looking good" - Alan Cohen

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Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: Fleur_de_Lis
👏thanks tia.o for the post and pm.👏

firstly if she hadn't thought and expressed this way I really doubt😕 myself ever stopping to bash Khushi for thinking of Shyam back at Shantivan.😲

actually sometime in our life we had to compromise/change for your own sake. what she is doing would actually affect her relationship with Arnav positively❤️ or negatively💔, but it would surely affect anyway. if Arnav is contented then only she can live in RM.😊

We must remember that Arnav preffered😡 for Di's appointment to Khushi😳. so Anjali becomes her pathway😃(if she supports Anjali)😃 to Arnav and her wall🤢(if she doesn't support Arnav)🤢.

so the point I was saying that ⭐️sometimes peace is much more important than happiness and vice-versa.⭐️

I think at this point, Khushi has given up on happiness. She will now settle for peace. Aarthi said something yesterday and I found it interesting. She was watching another serial where the lead actress makes pickles. She was hoping CVs show Khushi making pickles.

IPK have become so complicated that now we want to see boring every day tasks... Now imagine it's your life. You are always on tight rope based on someone's else's mood swings. Every morning you wake up dreading and praying that someone is in good mood so the rest of the family is. How tiring that is?

When did Khushi made jalebies last? She has stopped making jalebies. Not because she is not stressed or worried. But she has gone beyond that now.

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Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: priya_86
Once and for all, if Shyam comes back Anjali will stop this Rona Dhona...and hopefully track can focus on Arnav and Khushi😊

It won't go back to Arnav and Khushi track. If you stop expecting anything, should it does go there, you will be happy. Or be prepared to be disappointed.

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muna

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Shyam tried to kill Arnav,so would she be comfortable getting the killer back under the same roof??

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Exactly!!!

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Priyanka

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Posted: 13 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: stafhtad
Tia. I have run out of praises for you, Swathi, Priyanka (all though she keeps ignoring me), Rima. You are making the experience of visiting IF forums much more worth while than this serial ever did.

Take a bow dear. So proud to be able to call all of you as friends.

Loopy I'm going to strangle you the next time you say that!! I have never ignored you...in fact you are the one who is always mean to me for no reason, even though I love you! 😭 You are Arnav and I am Khushi. Aside from that, what a wonderful comment you have written dear!

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rina25

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Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Hi tia

This is for u

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Wow yaar wonderful Fantastic Analyze on Khushi character

I think you can do it once a week or month

It is really nice

& you are right Mamiji get really less

I really do not understand Anjali character once she is taking care of everyone even Khushi when Khushi was a poor girl Lavanja too even when La has not have any tradition but now

DOSE IT MEAN THAT PEOPLE CAN ONLY BE PLEASED & HAPPY ONLY IF SHE IS HAPPY WITH THAT GOD DAMN ... Shayam (usually i did not use bad word but yeah it is that f word) 🤢

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Posted: 13 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

Loopy I'm going to strangle you the next time you say that!! I have never ignored you...in fact you are the one who is always mean to me for no reason, even though I love you! 😭 You are Arnav and I am Khushi. Aside from that, what a wonderful comment you have written dear!

Priyanka Dear,

If i evoked you the feeling that I am Arnav and You are Kushi, then you shouldnt be crying. You should be wearing an Ulta Sari, and singing, Dhak Dhak Karne Laga.

Instead you are crying.

But wait, how does a crying ulta sari wearing dhak dhak dancing looks like.

Wait while I go visulaise it.

Would it be...

Sob Sob Karne Laga...

Oh mere Naino rone laga...

but you are still writhing in a ulta sari...

What a visual !!!

😛😉

Psst...

When you strangle me.. do it with a forehead kiss. Now visualise that😆😆

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Priyanka

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Posted: 13 years ago

#58

🤣 🤣 🤣

Glad to have you back Loopy! *Hugs*

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Aparamegha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#59

what an explanation girl..brought tears to my eyes...👏👏👏

Must say I have never ever felt so much attached to a fictional character as I have done with Khushi..her every single pain, every single humiliation leaves a mark on my heart and I so yearn for her to live some moment of her life when she is not thinking about the happiness of other people...I so want her to be wanted, loved, cherished properly and not use as a punching bag most of the time..despite of knowing the fact the man she loves so much will always give priority to his sister she bears no malice...at this juncture she is ready to forget everything so that Anjali and Arnav can be happy...

I admire this innocent soul...I love Khushi as if I know her...as if through her pain I relive my pain...as if her happiness will bring a sense of relief in me as well...I just hope that the Cv do proper justice to this wonderful character they have created and give her all the respect in the future track that she so much deserves...

Edited by apara_loves_IPK - 13 years ago