What is wrong with Khushi? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Soloperson

I don't have a major in psychology or anything but just observing this Khushi character, I feel that girl has gone soo much in life , right from childhood, we have seen her getting blamed for major disasters with or without reason.On the other hand she takes matters in our own hands most of the time and tries to solve them with her own reasoning despite of the dire consequences..

This victim/ martyr complex combined with pleasing people ,trying to find a solution for everything brings out the guilt complex in her when anything goes wrong ..IN this case she is directly involved and in her heart she still feels responsible for Anjali and Shyam fiasco, so I think she will be relieved only when Anjali opens up and tells Khushi that Shyam was wrong and Khushi was at no fault , till then the poor girl will carry that unwanted burden on her shoulders .Now we all know when Anjali will do that right Rima...😆

Originally posted by: Harshitha

ur right Priya

that wait to see it is honestly killing me now

Originally posted by: rima

Why on earth is she guilty for a crime she has not committed?

Why does the taunts to Anjali bring a guilty expression to her face?

Why does she think she is the root cause of all of Anjali's problems?

If she is just sad for Anjali then fine.

But the girl feels guilty.

Arnav's July 12 outburst that he wished he had never met her, did not help this guilt complex in her.

So when are we going to end this guilt track from Khushi. IPK is funny. When we asked for guilt from Arnav they are giving us guilt from Khushi. Wah Kya baat hai. Ok Arnav felt guilty. But he is over and done with it though he was more wrong. But this girl still caries the guilt though it is no fault of hers.

So who is going to put an end to this complex?

Who is going to make her understand she is the victim and not the one who is going to feel guilty?

If you ask me I want Arnav to do it, because Arnav's outburst rooted the complex in her.

If he can do something for this girl, the way he is now doing lovingly, I want this issue to be handled by him.

I want him to make her realize that she has nothing to feel guilty for.

I want him to reverse the July 12 outburst...

Wishful thinking?

Originally posted by: Soloperson

See harshu we are on the same page again..Yay!!!! 🤗

Originally posted by: princessunara

truly wish what u told happens di!!

Poor Khushi!! well i guess that is what happens when one is orphaned and left at the mercy of relatives/ foster family where every day of her life since she was an 8 year old child, she has been reminded of what a burden she is.
she has been reminded what they have done for her,
reminded her that she has to be eternally grateful to them for taking her instead of throwing her in to the streets
made her well aware of the debts to be paid AND most importantly

has taught her that she should try to make it worth for having her!

and the little girl ended up making sure she pleased everyone at the cost of her own happiness, her own welfare

and today we see this Khushi who is more than happy to accept any fault as hers, even when she has done nothing,
cz she thinks it is her fault!

cz as she always though she became a burden to others cz she was orphaned
but was it her fault that she became and orphan? NO it never was! but still she felt guilty for the way she became a burden!

this is the same situation all over again!
She was the one victim who has suffered the most at the destruction shyam created!
she paid for Shyam's faults! she paid to Arnav, Anjali, her family, his family, everyone!!

And even now just like she thought by being an orphan she became a burden, she believes being the object of Shyam's lustful desire she has done some wrong!

She doesn't know that she is more wronged to than she had ever wronged!

Arnav also added to it as u said on that day, when he hurt her all over again, broke her heart, made her cry...
but above all burdened once again to her a guilt that was never hers to carry!

why is this happening to this sweet innocent girl who happily would give up her life to see a smile on a loved one's face!
the sweet girl who had sacrificed so much to make life better for every single loved one in her life...

and yet she thinks she was the cause where she is indeed the victim!

And worst situation of all is that she is always blamed for being the victim too as if it was her own doing!

Arnav needs to rectify this and it is not going to be an easy task!!
this belief that she causes harm to others has been drilled in to her whole character! he needs to start at the beginning and with love and care and infinite patience bring her out of this!!
he owes this to her!!

Originally posted by: -Huma-

I dont think Arnav has realized the impact his words and her own thinking has had on her as far as her guilt over shaym fiasco is concerned...otherwise he would have tried harder to apologize to her...

and I don't think he is going to understand it until Daadi blames her for breaking Anjali's marriage

Originally posted by: Soloperson

I don't have a major in psychology or anything but just observing this Khushi character, I feel that girl has gone soo much in life , right from childhood, we have seen her getting blamed for major disasters with or without reason.On the other hand she takes matters in our own hands most of the time and tries to solve them with her own reasoning despite of the dire consequences..

This victim/ martyr complex combined with pleasing people ,trying to find a solution for everything brings out the guilt complex in her when anything goes wrong ..IN this case she is directly involved and in her heart she still feels responsible for Anjali and Shyam fiasco, so I think she will be relieved only when Anjali opens up and tells Khushi that Shyam was wrong and Khushi was at no fault , till then the poor girl will carry that unwanted burden on her shoulders .Now we all know when Anjali will do that right Rima...😆