Anjali's character-An attempt at an anaysis - Page 3

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JollyJabeen-


Anjali just wants every thing to go back to normal, She's just confused and believes Shyam loves her and would NEVER cheat on her but at the same time, It's like she doesn't want to leave the family members behind


A married woman's home will be with her husband and not her maayka. If you remember she came as guest for few days in the beginning of the show and not to settle here perfectly. Even when her husband was back from his so called camps why didnt she think that she should leave to her husband's home?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarunfan4ever


A married woman's home will be with her husband and not her maayka. If you remember she came as guest for few days in the beginning of the show and not to settle here perfectly. Even when her husband was back from his so called camps why didnt she think that she should leave to her husband's home?


Actually thats what i was thinking while watching previous episodes, Shyam is a ghar jamai. But i guess Anjali is in Shantivan for so long because 1. Shyam is never home and he must have said it's not right to leave her alone and 2. Anjali can stay with the family members, Arnav needs her!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JollyJabeen-


Actually thats what i was thinking while watching previous episodes, Shyam is a ghar jamai. But i guess Anjali is in Shantivan for so long because 1. Shyam is never home and he must have said it's not right to leave her alone and 2. Anjali can stay with the family members, Arnav needs her!


Where does it fit to stay at her brother's house for a woman who strongly believes in reeti and rivaz? The worst part is trying to bring her husband back to same place where he was insulted. If you love your husband will you bring him where he was insulted, slapped and not respected? (let me remind she want to abort her child because her family doesnt respect him) How can she use her brother's money and give her credit to her husband? Isnt this not cheating, lying?Why dont she ask her husband about his earnings? She blamed Arnav lying to spend time with his wife. Why she is lying day and night to meet her husband? Why dont she clearly state that she want her husband back? If she is over reliance on poojas and very religious, why is she lying in the name of God?
Edited by sarunfan4ever - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Anjali is a sweet,loving,caring person only when she is happy.
Anjali wants to live in a perfect world were beds are of roses,were roads are filled with stars,were there is no sorrow,no pain.Anjali wants to get pampered by everybody,she wants everybody to think of herself.And when everything is in favor of her she is loving,caring and sweet.Once something goes wrong she gets back to her real self.She becomes the selfish woman which she really is.
Being an elder sister she should have taken care of Arnav.But it was Arnav who always gave her a shoulder to cry.Why the family always need to hide bad events from Anjali?because instead of helping the family to get out of the bad situation she makes situation worse by crying buckets.She is a 35 years old woman but she wants to remain a 5 years old kid.she only wants to hear happy news and turns deaf and blind when something bad happens.Even a child when feels that her family is worried for her tries to look happy in front of them.But Anjali starts crying even at the slightest wound so that she gets pampered.

Any traditional Indian woman will leave her brother's home when her brother insults her husband.But here she is living with her brother and meeting her husband whom his brother dislikes.Did she ever try to find out why her brother is pointing fingers towards her husband?No girl no matter how much weak she is will tolerate someone speak such things about her husband.She will try to find out the truth.
And when she feels that her brother is lying to her she becomes angry.But she can lie.When she sees her brother spending time with her wife she becomes sad.But she can meet her husband.All of these indicate that the only thing she wants in life is attention.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sanika-

Nice post! If one needs to solve a problem, it is very imp to see other's POV in any situation. Unless you understand that, you cannot formulate your own action to counter act it. In her way, Anjali's isn't wrong. I agree 😊



Prakal, you should really copy paste what you wrote in my post here 😊 You put up some really good points about Anjali that got with this discussion.


Thanks SANIKA 😃 I copied it and also made some edits to what I wrote here earlier!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@SarunFan4eva and @ItsMyLife You guys are seriously persuasive and know your stuff, To an extent, I love Anjali but her character is really something.

What you said abour rituals has totally tongue tied me. EPIC! ;)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In a situation like this I would try to put myself in her situation (God forbid though). If my brother came to me one day and randomly told me that my loving husband who loves me and adores me since day 1 wants HIS wife aka my sister-in-law (out of no where and without any sabooth) and is trying to cheat on me, A.) I would be shocked out of my mind and B.) since I'm in a really bad state of shock I would refuse to believe it unless there was solid evidence that I would see with my own eyes. Only because my husband seemed so perfect until this second. The thing is, Anjali is so blindsided b/c she has never seen another side to Shyam that it's difficult for her, like we all know. So psychologically she is in a state of denial, a type of survival mode, since Shyam is her "man," her "familial protection" from an evolutionary standpoint. Btw I'm not married (yet hehe, hopefully soon though) but I'm just trying to evaluate the situation.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JollyJabeen-

@SarunFan4eva and @ItsMyLife You guys are seriously persuasive and know your stuff, To an extent, I love Anjali but her character is really something.


What you said abour rituals has totally tongue tied me. EPIC! ;)


😆 thanks.I never liked her from the beginning(for my own reasons). I was always neutral about her. But from the time she started feeling jealous of her brother spending time with his wife, I started hating her. Now, with her constant lying, deceiving her family and her brother in the name of God and for being a hypocrite I started to abhor her now.
Edited by sarunfan4ever - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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okay agree with you ...but technically...Anjali should have openly declared to her Chote..i.e. Arnav that she will Shyam outside of RM if he is not allowed to stay in RM or she herself should have walk out of the house..she is the best manipulator or blackmailer whatever you guys call her,she could easily blackmail everyone in the house...I think, she herself doesn't want to leave all the comforts she is getting from her brother...yeah I know she even talked about leaving RM once or twice...but then, as I said, she should have walked out of the house when he was thrown out of the house...but she didn't...she expects her Chote to be honest with her but then, what she is doing right now...she is deciving her chote big time now..and this will shatter Arnav the most...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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have to agree eveyone is forgetting that anjali is a very conservative indian woman who feels her "pati" is her everything etc and without him she is nothing. It is very hard for women in pakistan and I am guessing India too to walk out of a marriage as she is always seen as one at fault etc.
People have to remember before bashing anjali remember it is a n indian soap and not set in the west even there women stick to unfaithful men due to circumstances. It is not as black and white as some posters would like us to believe.

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