An Answer to those who still seek Redemption!! - Page 7

Originally posted by: -CoolChick-

wowww Riti...lovely post...👏⭐️👏

Well i have gotten so allergic to this "R" word...i guess itz the most abused/over-used word in the forum...🥱...but i belong to the small group of people here who DON'T want to see the cliched REDEMPTION.

For me, actions speak louder than words and of course REALIZATION is very imp. - and he has DONE both the things. For me, his realization came when he never questioned or doubted for a second Khushi's love & innocence after what all she did to save him and did also accept that he was WRONG and misunderstood Khushi all along in-front of naani. Arnav, we all know is neither good at words nor at expressing his feelings, so what he does- speaks for the Unspoken & Unexpressed.

He is not the typical "Majnu" kind of lover, still he TRIED lot of things that could make Khushi happy- whether it be paying up for the rent without informing anybody, or planning a b'day surprise- for a guy, who never wishes anybody on b'day...did TRY his level best to make his wife happy on her bday- give the guy some credit atleast. When he realized, that a genuine lovely bday wish holds more importance to Khushi than those gifts- he DID that too- the guy is still "learning" man. He has confessed his love verbally, has accepted her as his legally wedded wife in front of the whole family, stands by her whenever somebody points fingers at her, demands the "respect" that a badi bahu shud get...what else should he do now??????

i certainly dont want the "contract issue" to come infront of everybody. Y shud it come in the first place?? It is very personal husband-wife issue, that shud remain inside the bedroom and not bought out in full public. It shud be sorted out between them- n it has also- he has ACCEPTED in front of her that it was his mistake...he forced her into this marriage and that she was and is innocent all through. What more do people want??? For me..all this is repentance, the word "SORRY" holds no importance unless it is felt and said from the heart. Just bcoz he hasn't uttered that word...does everything...every action of his that shows his repentance...his apology and true love go unnoticed?!!!

For me He has "redeemed".

Originally posted by: -Delicious_BS-

you you.. senseless drooler.. dont know the difference between Arnav and Barun.. thus you said that.. you are immature!! 🤣 no offense.. i LOVED your post🤗 and i am just so glad that people like you having this kind of thinking still there in forum who understands the things and dont hold it for a fictional character!! love this❤️

i have hated this word "redemption" more than i hated Shyam or Dadi! but i am happy that finally he said sorry.. at least now i can get rid of his word from this forum!! :)

for me Arnav's redemption was done the moment he said "i dont need anything else Khushi" during that telepathic thing!! i never hold anything for him.. never!! 😳 i love him! ❤️

Originally posted by: nyxx

Very well written Riti.

Arnav SIngh Raizada has a conscience and he has already started realizing, accepting, and justifying all the wrongs he has done...not because she demands it but mainly for himself.

But above all, just like you stated...all of this really falls on what Khushi wants. Her actions, feelings so far have never demanded his apology but I guess tomorrow is for those (bashers, haters, those who complain on wanting this "R" word) who want him to repeatedly say the word "sorry".

Get over it people, these two lovers have moved past that stage...their love has already reached a much greater level...where their silence speaks volumes.

Tomorrow is probably also for Khushi to lessen the burden from Arnav, to tell him that regardless of anything he has done, she still loves him and has loved him every single time.

Thank you for making this post :)

If some people still do go on with wanting this redemption track...then, well whats the point of talking to a dead end ;)

Originally posted by: kaadal

Rayka, hope I don't upset you but we never know until the loop is closed isn't it...I still feel the contract thing mostly will be out and he will own it up in front of everyone..he won't let Kushi take the blame. I surely feel the family will come to know the circumstance of their marriage since CV's have always closed the main loops. But we need to enjoy it with the flow.
Riti, good post I agree completely with you..I have seen many posts saying ASR needs to cry remembering what he did to Kushi and all, he is doing his best in his own way. He has actually done everything to fulfill her dreams, everyone small wish and the only thing is owning up in front of the family which I feel is soon coming. If he was ready to tell it to Nani, then we have to be sure when time comes he won't hesitate to accept it in front of everyone.

Originally posted by: xxChanga_Jixx

here 15 years ...and my husband is not tht romantic...and he has anger too...never said sorry...but his action after tht make things work...so i dont ask him to cry for tht ...
i do understand whn some person angry and they think they right they do say words which hurts other but they dont mean it...and how can v forget tht his life was like tht but now after Khushi came.. u see the diff..and u cant expect things change over night...

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Baby!! Love you more for making this post!!

First of all - let me state this is a considerable difference between the word Redemption and Repentance. Redemption is needed for people who are criminals and who need to change themselves inside and out - while repentance is sought by people who need to correct what they did wrong and apologize for the grave mistakes they committed.

Two cases here - Shyam is the one - who would need to do redemption and redeem himself - though I think he is way beyond that! Arnav needs to only seek repentance and he has been repenting since the day he entered into RM after his kidnap. Every single day was his repentance and his apologies to the woman he knew he had hurt. And no always cryling and howling and crawling is not required to seek repentance - its the actions that speak - and it has been speaking left right and center! Otherwise a man like him would never agree to get married just for the sake of a woman! He has been repenting and if anyone doubts that - then I guess they are watching a completely different show.

And yes - at the end - Khushi herself has forgiven him. She understood his reasons and she has no problems with the past. I wish everyone would just grow up and accept that the more you get stuck in the past and complaint about them - your present and future also keep churning into past.

Loved your post Riti darling! Thanks for the PM :)