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Posted: 12 years ago
#51
OMG FINALLY SOMEONE VOICING MY EXACT OPINIONS AND THOUGHTS!!!

THIS POST WAS VERY MUCH NEEDED!!
Great job!!
Tfs:)...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52
😃 😃 😃
your post made me smile ... especially when most of the ppl are busy in bashing. Most of them are bashing ASR though.

I totally agree with you! 😊
ASR and khushi--both are true to their feelings and values.
ASR is not lusty as many people are accusing him to be, but a man in love who loves and cares for his wife. ASR whose whole world has changed because of his love now... who now respects the feeling called "love" and can do anything for khushi. ❤️

Khushi doesn't have any faults either-- she has always respected the rituals and she can't let go her values for her love. 😊

We should love and appreciate both characters, not BASH them!!
Can't believe some ppl can be crazy like that!
Being so crazy that they can see everything but the LOVE between the two!? 😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: boreddamsel

Hey.. sorry I slept off.. yes, didn't work.. was too tired after all the excitement in the morning! 😆


Ok, before I start with my comment.. I watched the second half of the episode again.. when Arnav touches her cheek and then pulls her close.. she actually takes three steps towards him.. that is when he hugged her.. she was ready! well then again she moved away when he tried to kiss her.. hmm. .

Though we are not shown it, I'm sure deep down Arnav is feeling guilty for causing pain to Khushi.. and for not giving her the love she deserved.. I think that's why now he just wants her to know how much he loves her! That's why he has been doing everything he can to let her know that he wants her.. I mean sometimes saying I love you is not enough.. sometimes you don't know how much a person loves you until you do it, I guess.. then you know that you are theirs! And yes, Arnav like you, we are also desperate for you both to get together.. it's been more than a year.. and I'm frustrated honestly! Not even a kiss yaar.. what is this??

Akash might have chickened out about kids.. but bachchu has already done it with his wife!! 😳

Fuzzy, you are right.. Khushi is the only person who cheers him up now.. One side there is Dadi, on the other side is his Di.. both are driving him crazy.. Di is now alright.. but soon when she brings back Shyam, she will drive him crazy alright! Today also he was upset initially and seeing Khushi with the box made him smile.. he needs her in his life.. aww..

and now who wants Arnav to change.. 😡 I lift up my invisible dagger and stands up on a high rock.. demanding.. yes.. who wants my Arnie baby to change.. is there anyone who dares challenge me to a fight?? 😡 😆 I dont want him to change.. he is perfect the way he is.. he loves her.. earlier when he brought up the contract and also threatened to throw her family out, I was upset yes, but he did that 'coz that was the only way Khushi would take him seriously.. when he begged her stay, she didn't listen.. so Arnav is perfect..

On the other hand, Khushi is right too.. yes, you should not consummate until you have completed the marriage.. I agree to all that.. I stand by it too.. my friends in the US have a live-in relationship..I mean I understand being in love and all that.. but still if you believe that you cannot consummate until after marriage, you will never enjoy it and you will always think it was wrong.. and you will feel guilty later.. but my problem with Khushi is not that..

You never ever ever turn away when a guy tries to kiss you.. if I were Arnav I would have not bothered to kiss her ever again.. I would have told her, fine if you dont want me coming to you.. then I'm never coming to you.. it's such a mood-kill.. it makes you feel like the other person doesn't want you... I can't even imagine how I will react if my bf turned away when I tried to kiss him.. I will be devastated.. now there is nothing wrong with kissing someone before marriage right.. or is that a crime too in Khushi's eyes??? Seriously which century is she living in??? Now that is my problem with Khushi.. when I wrote that lesbian OS story yesterday.. I was serious.. sometimes I do wonder the way she behaves, if she behaved like that in the real world, I would guess she is a lesbian..


as for opposites attract.. yes.. its better if they are opposites.. only then life will be interesting.. if both are the same. .then you have nothing to change.. and it will be boring.. a relationship blossoms when you both start as poles apart.. and before you know it.. you start blending in.. you pick up other person's traits.. and then you slowly become one.. aaha.. aaha.. now that's love guru's love philosophy.. 😆 we have seen that in them already.. Khushi has picked up Arnav's anger and Arnav has picked up Khushi's naughtiness! aww.. these two are adorable 😳

Fuzzy great post... much much needed one!

loved it Damsel.
Khushi's antics made depressed Arnie happy.She is just perfect for him.CVs did a brilliant job here.
It's really frustrating why Khushi rejects the kiss every time.May be that is one of her antics too.She may think kissing is a sin. Oh God this girl is impossible! Arnav knows her well, so that he doesn't get upset. love guru your lesson is not working.Do a new session with her.
I absolutely agree with you. ASR is already changed himself so much for Khushi.I really don't want him to change more. He must have some individuality. It's time for Khushi to change.I agree it's not right to have sex before marriage.As they are not properly married it's better to refrain from physical relation.But she should be reciprocal to Arnav in showing her love.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54
Awesome post! Can't believe people are freaking out like that! 😲
The difference between ASR and khushi lies in their beliefs about rituals--not in their feeling of love! Both of them loves and respects each other--and we all know that! ❤️
Edited by Flora3333 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks for making this post dear.much needed post..today morning when i got up i was shocked to see soo many criticism posts especially for yest episode...which made me very sad😭..especially i felt very good of yest epsiode in all aspects..but still dont understand what people actually want..😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockingcouple

Thanks for making this post dear.much needed post..today morning when i got up i was shocked to see soo many criticism posts especially for yest episode...which made me very sad😭..especially i felt very good of yest epsiode in all aspects..but still dont understand what people actually want..😕



I have the same feeling.
You don't know what people want??
they want everything to happen the way they want--ASR to become an ideal man (like a robot) and do everything like an angel.
and after that... there will be no twists in the show left, and thus the show will end in a day!
Doesn't that sound cool? 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Flora3333




I have the same feeling.
You don't know what people want??
they want everything to happen the way they want--ASR to become an ideal man (like a robot) and do everything like an angel.
and after that... there will be no twists in the show left, and thus the show will end in a day!
Doesn't that sound cool? 😡



EXACTLY!!

This made me go back what i learned in my Economics class...

UNLIMITED WANTS AND LIMITED RESOURCES..

PEOPLE WANT EVERYTHING ALL AT ONCE..when CVs are trying to satisfy our wants but by bit!!...

What do some people want?...a redemption?love sick puppy Arnav? A wedding night? Khushi leaving RM?

Well CVS cant just portray everything all at once...people need to have patience...
And i cant belive many people are expecting the love sick puppy Arnav as we all know that ASR will stay the same!..and trust me..im liking the fact that he isnt changing into a typical serial Male lead...
Doing whatever his wife wants him too..
ASR Belives that him and Khushi should equally be dominant in the relationship..
And also this show is super different from all the other shows so obviously the characters will be differnent including the love story..

So people need to chill out and sit back and go with the flow..
Im sure CVs have something good in store for us..:)..

Im sorry if i offended anyone:)...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: Mahrin17478

Nice post...Agree in so many ways...but yes Khushi can never accept the relationship to be valid unless it satisfies her belief ...for ASR will always be ASR ,loves with toughness...😉 isn't this keeps us glued to this show...




😊
Totally agree with u 😊
The differences and conflicts, and the most important thing between arnav-khushi --LOVE ...
these are all that keep us glued to the show! ❤️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArhiAbhiya



EXACTLY!!

This made me go back what i learned in my Economics class...

UNLIMITED WANTS AND LIMITED RESOURCES..

PEOPLE WANT EVERYTHING ALL AT ONCE..when CVs are trying to satisfy our wants but by bit!!...

What do some people want?...a redemption?love sick puppy Arnav? A wedding night? Khushi leaving RM?

Well CVS cant just portray everything all at once...people need to have patience...
And i cant belive many people are expecting the love sick puppy Arnav as we all know that ASR will stay the same!..and trust me..im liking the fact that he isnt changing into a typical serial Male lead...
Doing whatever his wife wants him too..
ASR Belives that him and Khushi should equally be dominant in the relationship..
And also this show is super different from all the other shows so obviously the characters will be differnent including the love story..

So people need to chill out and sit back and go with the flow..
Im sure CVs have something good in store for us..:)..

Im sorry if i offended anyone:)...


Seriously till now even arnav thought that even khushi loves him equally...and she accepts him as her husband..and even yest she said in the room " is this tha way you talk to your wife" that means she accepted na..and even she hugged him back..and what people talking about uncomfortable and all..even he may felt it as she is scared thatswhy she is behaving in that way and she khows arnav is talking about suhaag raat and even though she went changed to the dress which he gifted...at that time khushi can refuse as she always do and fights with him na..but she went ahead and changed what all this means ..according to me what i understood is she is ready to be one..then from where the scenario came that arnav forced her..seriously its very tough to understand to expect what some people want..😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post - a balanced view on both the characters

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