Hey.. sorry I slept off.. yes, didn't work.. was too tired after all the excitement in the morning! 😆
Ok, before I start with my comment.. I watched the second half of the episode again.. when Arnav touches her cheek and then pulls her close.. she actually takes three steps towards him.. that is when he hugged her.. she was ready! well then again she moved away when he tried to kiss her.. hmm. .
Though we are not shown it, I'm sure deep down Arnav is feeling guilty for causing pain to Khushi.. and for not giving her the love she deserved.. I think that's why now he just wants her to know how much he loves her! That's why he has been doing everything he can to let her know that he wants her.. I mean sometimes saying I love you is not enough.. sometimes you don't know how much a person loves you until you do it, I guess.. then you know that you are theirs! And yes, Arnav like you, we are also desperate for you both to get together.. it's been more than a year.. and I'm frustrated honestly! Not even a kiss yaar.. what is this??
Akash might have chickened out about kids.. but bachchu has already done it with his wife!! 😳
Fuzzy, you are right.. Khushi is the only person who cheers him up now.. One side there is Dadi, on the other side is his Di.. both are driving him crazy.. Di is now alright.. but soon when she brings back Shyam, she will drive him crazy alright! Today also he was upset initially and seeing Khushi with the box made him smile.. he needs her in his life.. aww..
and now who wants Arnav to change.. 😡 I lift up my invisible dagger and stands up on a high rock.. demanding.. yes.. who wants my Arnie baby to change.. is there anyone who dares challenge me to a fight?? 😡 😆 I dont want him to change.. he is perfect the way he is.. he loves her.. earlier when he brought up the contract and also threatened to throw her family out, I was upset yes, but he did that 'coz that was the only way Khushi would take him seriously.. when he begged her stay, she didn't listen.. so Arnav is perfect..
On the other hand, Khushi is right too.. yes, you should not consummate until you have completed the marriage.. I agree to all that.. I stand by it too.. my friends in the US have a live-in relationship..I mean I understand being in love and all that.. but still if you believe that you cannot consummate until after marriage, you will never enjoy it and you will always think it was wrong.. and you will feel guilty later.. but my problem with Khushi is not that..
You never ever ever turn away when a guy tries to kiss you.. if I were Arnav I would have not bothered to kiss her ever again.. I would have told her, fine if you dont want me coming to you.. then I'm never coming to you.. it's such a mood-kill.. it makes you feel like the other person doesn't want you... I can't even imagine how I will react if my bf turned away when I tried to kiss him.. I will be devastated.. now there is nothing wrong with kissing someone before marriage right.. or is that a crime too in Khushi's eyes??? Seriously which century is she living in??? Now that is my problem with Khushi.. when I wrote that lesbian OS story yesterday.. I was serious.. sometimes I do wonder the way she behaves, if she behaved like that in the real world, I would guess she is a lesbian..
as for opposites attract.. yes.. its better if they are opposites.. only then life will be interesting.. if both are the same. .then you have nothing to change.. and it will be boring.. a relationship blossoms when you both start as poles apart.. and before you know it.. you start blending in.. you pick up other person's traits.. and then you slowly become one.. aaha.. aaha.. now that's love guru's love philosophy.. 😆 we have seen that in them already.. Khushi has picked up Arnav's anger and Arnav has picked up Khushi's naughtiness! aww.. these two are adorable 😳
Fuzzy great post... much much needed one!
Edited by boreddamsel - 12 years ago