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Posted: 13 years ago
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A lie leads to many more.

A lie is wrong.

A lie never solves anything.

A lie traps you.'.

And knowing all this Khushi still keeps doing it.

She lied by omission about Shyam and she got into big time trouble with Arnav

She has lied by omission to her family and now they do not know her suffering

She has lied by omission about her problems with Shyam and she suffered

She has lied by omission to her family and Payal about how Arnav has hurt and threatened and now she is cornered

In all of the above she never actually lied. She simply hid the truth. In all of the above situations what is she expected to do?

In each of the above instances can you see her intentions? There is absolutely no thought for herself. It is just for others. That is Khushi'she can harm herself, put herself in trouble, suffer'but she will protect her loved ones.

And then there are the lies she told Shyam for trapping him

The lies she told Raizadas to get away from RM

The lies she told Arnav to escape the last 10 days of marriage'

These were lies she said once again to protect Anjali, her family'

It is foolish to lie, when the world will know the truth soon.

But she is simply putting off hell to another day. One cannot go and tell an unassuming middle class family, one's marriage was for 6 months and now it is over. She is doing it as much for her family as for Arnav's image. Again a lot of selflessness (hate this mahanta. But sigh that is her character)

And then there is another lie which we do not notice.

The lie she tells herself'

That she does not matter,

She can go on with life,

She can live without him,

The marriage does not mean anything,

Arnav will move on without her.

Her heart won't break for Arnav

She can survive'

This is the biggest lie if you ask me. Because you can lie to the world and go on. But if you lie to yourself, you suffer and it is more damaging.

And this is why I am not bothered about the first two set of lies because it is for others. I am bothered about the last set of lies because that is going to hurt her and not let her face her emotions, deal with them and heal'

If Arnav can do anything for this girl (I have given up on redemption) it is to make her face her own feelings: the feelings of hurt, abuse, insult, worthlessness'

The day Arnav makes Khushi deal with her emotions and gives her the reassurance that she imatters, she is worth it and not just a stray orphan picked up and living in charity, a girl simply married to save someone else's marriage'is the day he becomes her husband (consummation is just the physical part of it)

PS: Khushi's character has always been complex. And to think people think only ASR is complex. This girl is more twisted inside than the endless jalebis she consumes

Sorry guys during the day when I do get away to make posts, I am unable to comment due to work pressure.

But do share your views

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Posted: 13 years ago
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khushi's character is like dat na dear,caring beyond everything...she keeps thinking about others n for dem she keeps lying !!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Res.!!

Thank u so much rima for this post..! 🤗

Khushi's lies were getting on my nerves, i hope after reading ur post, it mellows down a bit.!

Actually i was too mad at both ArHi yesterday so i need posts like these to cool me down.. 😆

I'll read it now.. :)
Edited by CandYlicious_MS - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think i will happily admit even though i always support khushi because she is right
her selfless factor really irritates me to the core
this is one trait of hers which I may never relate to

keeping aside all her so called lies due to her selfless character one thing which u said is perfectly right she lying the most with her self which is bound to cause more chaos then the other so called lies

I really miss the old Khushi who used to give it back as & when she felt the need
but somehow i never found her as complex as ASR or anjali, rather i understand her much better then arnav & anjali

arnav is the only person who can get through her & make her face her feelings
but the method in use currently is going to break her even more

Edited by Harshitha - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think her lies are a result of her zero farsightedness. She just lives "in the moment". No dreams about future and no memories of past. She forgets & forgives and she has no plans. But even in the web of lies... I one see her innocence, strength and selflessness.
Bahut ajeeb hai Khushi 😆
Edited by vellainsaan - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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But her Mahanata is getting on my nerves.It is not a crime to think about yourself for once.She is taking her life for granted which wrong.

And hiding truth never solves any problem.It generates bigger problems.One must remember the sayings,"Even if you bury truth and true love they will come in open someday."

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Posted: 13 years ago
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The day Arnav makes Khushi deal with her emotions and gives her the reassurance that she imatters, she is worth it and not just a stray orphan picked up and living in charity, a girl simply married to save someone else's marriage'is the day he becomes her husband.

So true!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In psychiatric terms, she can be described as a compulsive liar. In layman's terms, she is someone who tells a good few white lies. She is indeed a very complex character but with a heart of gold.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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This is extremely true, I don't get y she bothers lying ESP to someone who can clearly tell that she's lying and she's already seen how far of a mess one can create by lying even if it's a white lie, I feel most of the time if not all times white lies are the worst and have the most bitter outcomes, you should never decide for another person yes sometimes u should check the time, place, circumstances b4 telling someone something that is a harsh and brutal/cruel/bitter reality/truth but creating at white lie or sugar coating doesn't do any good, Anjali is a good example of that bc of all the white lies and over protectiveness any simple "lie" or misinterpreted situation is just as great or of greater betrayal to her, I feel if she was fed truth whether it be cruel or bitter if she managed it with understanding and maturity she would have been an extremely strong character and an admirable independent woman

In the end Khushi's intentions are just as pure and sweet (selfless) as a jalebi but also lead to confusion and swirl of problems like the jalebi's shape

*sigh*

Iss (yeh) complexity (complexities) ko kya naam doon (deh)?😆
Edited by SaJanLuv14 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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A nice, thought-provoking topic, Rima!! I think we all have discussed a lot about Arnav's flaws in this forum. And so this is one of Khushi's flaws- her lies.
I think Khushi uses lies/or omission of truth to avoid certain difficult situations - some sort of an escapism method she has developed. The time she hid about Shyam's truth to Anjali and Raizadas was because she feared the consequences of the truth on Anjali and Raizadas. She lied about Buaji's health to everyone because she wanted to avoid staying at RM before the contract is over and she fears the consequences of the contract truth coming in front of everyone. Here, she is basically trying to delay the consequences. Again, this is the same reason she has been lying to Arnav as well... she wants to avoid going back with Arnav but instead of directly telling what is in her mind, she avoids the actual reason and resorts to a lot of lies.
Frankly, I do not consider Khushi's lies as an act of mahaanta. Yes, I agree she does all this with good intentions and yes, she thinks about others but lying can never be mahaan. Plus, seeing how Khushi uses her lies to avoid certain consequences, etc can never be a mahaan act (esp the lie about Shyam's truth that caused grave consequences to everyone and her cannot be called mahaan).
But I agree that most of Khushi's lies are because she has been a person who tries to deal with all the problems on her own... she doesn't include anyone dear to her to be involved. Its like she is trying to dispose off life's difficult situations without anyone's knowledge... and in trying to do so, she uses these lies (thinking that they are the right solutions)... but alas, she ends up creating more mess and entangling in the mess herself.

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