It is not about wooing, it is about her ego - Page 12

Originally posted by: cutebarun

Well said Riti dear...!👍🏼 U said it all n we knw what it is..all about!

Anujeee...
You know you should PM me that you have posted something on main forum.. I am a person who spends all my time on REDUX and AT, for some posts on main forum increase my BP... so how am I supposed to know?

Liked the post and agree to all of it...
Just a few tini-mini points to add...

1. TRP audience do not understand Khushi... Online audience do not understand Arnav... basically there's no balance in characterization... CVs need to give equal importance to Arnav and Khushi's characterization...

2. I dont even want to mention about redemption and he crawling from bathroom to temple... as you know, thats just not my type, so no point in discussing it

3. Am I liking this ASR? yes I'm loving his attitude.. Am I convinced about his intentions? yes, he wants to push Khushi to a corner where she has no option about to explode... about her true feelings... Is the execution of his on the right path? I'm confused about it.. because ASR will never ever ask secretory to say such cheap stuffs about his wife... dikhaana kuch aur chahte hain par dikhaate kuch aur hain !!! execution needs to improve.. BIG TIME !!

4. There's absolutely no consistency in the story... Anjali seems to be the only person to have been affected by Shyam's exit while the rest have moved on... Nobody speaks clearly... so every character seems to be confused in one frame or the other !!

5. Finally, comedy cannot win TRP period. Intensity, passion and drama are the three key points they need at the moment.. get back the intensity... the TRP will follow !!! and its not just about TRP... I can watch a show thats nowhere in the TRP race, given that I get to see some sensible episodes!!! OTT comedy is not something I enjoy... subtle comedy is something I appreciate... probably thats why, I can still connect with ASR... for nothing he does has irked me till date... at least not to the level that I feel like shutting off my TV

@BARUN SOBTI: I started watching IPK for him, and till date the reason has been the same... till date my excitement level is the same, for I know everyday he will surprise me with his acting power... be it romance or comedy or subtle pain or furious anger.. he is top notch in everything !!

Originally posted by: riti4u

hi vibha,

So for first point about her fear of breaking the marriage thing- so now she doesnt fear that he will break the marriage when he know about her lies.. When I said about self respect .I was saying about the way she choose to come out of this relation..I never said she is not right in coming out.

Tell me as unbiased view..if she thinks that it will be just 12 day thing left then why not complete the contract and Say -Look Man ,contract you said is up and time to move on.. rather than that she lies that her bua is not well and doesnt tell him reason when he asks..instead say in front of her DM that it was for his di' happiness and his happiness...where did self respect cum in that?

you used term abused woman..I wholeheartedly disagree and dont want to get into that argument .I am woman and it is really sad to see that you feel that an abused woman should go back to abuser..wont say more than this..Why should she go back if she feels he has abused her? Darling he did said to her that I will pay ..but it was she who refused and again it was she who herself said that I will work for you ..he didnt make any deal this time..she did..

She calls herself KKGSR for pacifying her belief that it is not live in than what it is..it is marriage right and if she feels that it is marriage then by your point of view too she considers him to be her husband..then what is stopping her to say it- her ego isnt it?

I love to keep my expectation low about these daily soaps...They are just typical...No ASR is not typical but I cant support him all the time..But I will always watch this show as along as Barun Sobti is there...No, not for drool session because because he simply gives amzing performances.. Even in the most stupid scenes his expressions are priceless and simply a treat to watch...The only thing rare about IPKKND ,for me, is Barun Sobti's subtle style of acting which is something rare on indian tv <3

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Ritu4U,

-- You call me riti if you want

Looks like you did not read my response properly, but that is okay I shall clarify:

1. Well the reason she left is because of that weeping willow that they have at home, Harvard goes hot and cold on her and she never wanted to leave after Harvard got himself kidnapped and then rekidnapped...but again it was HIS outburst that made her come to that conclusion...so that harvard and willow can leave happily ever after...Harvard's sister issues! There are plenty: and at one point I'm sure he's suffering from PTSD and that would explain why he swings high and low. The guy is so Jekyll and Hyde you wonder where the syringe with Thorazine is hiding so that khushi can have some peace and quiet from all that. It's sickening. Without intending to, she has become the submissive, Harvard needs more than one dose apparently. and lets not forget Harvard's temper tantrums. This guy is unhinged to the ultimate power

Actually was not aware of few terms used for characters here so cudnt understand whom you were referring to as Weeping willow... So according to you @underlined if this is the reason that she left ,she believes that by her leaving Harvard grad and his sister can live happily ever after..then she cares about him..? okay so she does right? Then she left because of his happiness so when we say that why bring in issue of self respect in it or any other reason for her leaving RM..it is plain that she left for HIS happiness. Why does she actually care about his happiness? If the guy is so undeserving according to you,then why make an excuse for his happiness and if she doesnt want to get blame for brother-sister troubles,then why not break his heart after contract thing is done and leave. I am not doubting her intentions but just said that she used wrong way perhaps to do it with lying.

2. I never ever said that abused woman SHOULD go back, I said they DO go back...thats the mindset and proven domestic violence victimology...I am the first person who will say that move on girl but sadly that doesnt happen so kindly do not ever suggest that I promote violence but I do NOT...

It is good that you clarify this as honestly I misunderstood your statement but I didnt suggest to any1 that you are promoting voilence.If you felt that way then perhaps you misunderstood me too.

3. It is not her ego that is stopping her, it is Harvard's hot and cold behaviour and his weird techniques to romance her...I would want her to rip her damn mangalsutra and throw it at Harvard's face because he deserves it but that will not happen...she knows that today if she asks for help harvard will bring in another deal who wants that??she doesnt consider him her husband but she is giving herself that assurance that she is not in an illicit relationship with the man...

Pretty confused with what you wanted to say with underlined statement- You meant that she didnt ask for help coz he will make another deal out of it.. but didnt she go back to ask for help..only when he challenged her ego ,she opted for working in return. She doesnt consider her husband according to you but giving herself assurance that she is not in an illicit relationship...is it? How is she giving herself assurance that this is not an illicit relation by naming whatever between them is as Marriage ? If not marriage,would like to knw how her self assurance is there?

Originally posted by: riti4u

Hi there

My reply in blue for your statements.

Take care

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Ritu4U,

Looks like you did not read my response properly, but that is okay I shall clarify:

1. Well the reason she left is because of that weeping willow that they have at home, Harvard goes hot and cold on her and she never wanted to leave after Harvard got himself kidnapped and then rekidnapped...but again it was HIS outburst that made her come to that conclusion...so that harvard and willow can leave happily ever after...Harvard's sister issues! There are plenty: and at one point I'm sure he's suffering from PTSD and that would explain why he swings high and low. The guy is so Jekyll and Hyde you wonder where the syringe with Thorazine is hiding so that khushi can have some peace and quiet from all that. It's sickening. Without intending to, she has become the submissive, Harvard needs more than one dose apparently. and lets not forget Harvard's temper tantrums. This guy is unhinged to the ultimate power

2. I never ever said that abused woman SHOULD go back, I said they DO go back...thats the mindset and proven domestic violence victimology...I am the first person who will say that move on girl but sadly that doesnt happen so kindly do not ever suggest that I promote violence but I do NOT...

3. It is not her ego that is stopping her, it is Harvard's hot and cold behaviour and his weird techniques to romance her...I would want her to rip her damn mangalsutra and throw it at Harvard's face because he deserves it but that will not happen...she knows that today if she asks for help harvard will bring in another deal who wants that??she doesnt consider him her husband but she is giving herself that assurance that she is not in an illicit relationship with the man...