Never defend ASR - Page 4

Originally posted by: rozy

friend i understand what u mean but i firmly believe when a person is in love he/she forgets his own characteristics even that to safeguard it he can crawl down too. ASR is not an alien,he is a human being who might have a torrid past.But why shall Khushi suffer his wrath?? Everyone has to pay price for his/her own karma.

If u said ASR has progressed thats what i told.He is now in love , He has progressed , he knows what khushi means to him and yet again his policies are hurtful. One side he is too concerned about di, its Good but why a different methodology for khushi at distress. He is simply contradicting himself.

All are entitled to their own opinion and u r free to justify ASR tactics. But i cant digest..How he went ahead so far by gifting her bangles, even in hate marriage there were moments of care..but now all MU have ended,situation is crystal clear..he has taken 10 steps backwards with all his flop ideas. i dont subscribe. His character has been messed up severely.

Edited by RickyBahl - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Drwho

You have made totally valid points, this is not ASR, the character has been totally decimated!

But it may not be ASR's fault...it may be the kheer, there may be something wrong with it, probably brown sugar instead of sugar free??

Sorry, for butting into a serious discussion, only trying to spread some laughter around😃, I have been told I am too 'negative'...

Originally posted by: RickyBahl

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on a serious note if speaking truth is negative i dont mind. Truth hurts, thats the problem

SATYAMEVA JAYATE

Originally posted by: sana_sugarbun

LOVED your post. Seriously this guy tortured her to the extreme and then finally when the truth is out he doesn't even realize the damage he has done in her life??? This is so called Love...I swear my blood boiled at 400C today when i saw his behavior with his Di today and now ofcourse with the RB coming up and all his surprises for her. Its always been anjali anjali anjali since day 1 for RM ppl. Makes me puke🤢. I dont like Khushi's behavior too these days. This girl cant give him a piece of her mind rather then fooling around uselessly???😕

Originally posted by: tia.o

Ah... Did I hear a voice of reason somewhere? 😉

As much as I love to see their cute little fights, a lot of strings have been left untied here when it comes to Khushi. She is cheerful, happy person for the world so no one understands that it's her coping technique when it comes to dealing with harsh realities.

I had hopes that Arnav will realize his mistakes and woo her with his charm (I'm sure he has some here and there). But neither the realization came in nor the care. He just wants her back because she is essential to his existence, not because she needs him. He can't breathe without her so she has to come back... It's still all about him.

But when he realizes that she needs to come back, she needs her happiness because that's what she wants from life, then he will be truly redeemed in my eyes. He needs to make her realize the extent of his love for her and true love does not require any strategy. It just requires someone to make the effort and look into the heart of the person they love.

The only time I saw the extent of his love was when he was kidnapped. The hut scene where he hides Khushi and goes with the kidnappers, when he dreams about her and talks to her in his heart. That's when the intense love he has for her showed. After that, I never saw that feelings in him.

But it does not mean that he is insensitive. He is sensitive to his sister's suffering, he is capable of tenderness when he runs back to home to feed his sister Kheer to bring a smile on her face, he is capable of caring when he asks his sister if she took her medicine.

Then why can't he be sensitive, caring and tender with Khushi. She just came out of a very tough time due to no fault of her own. The cute fights are not going anywhere. They are still there for the rest of their lives. But once Khushi gets upset and gives up on him ever caring (because we are seeing his feelings, Khushi is not seeing them), she might just give up on their relationship.

Mark my words. There is a limit to everyone's patience. Khushi is very slowly reaching hers. As you guys saw in spoiler, that Khushi did not take his offer and told him to do as he please. Then where would they go? There are two options. As per Avni, they can go back to Lucknow and ASR can follow them there. As per Shilpa's spoiler, they will move to a chawl (which is just one step up the slums)... Either way, Arnav will pay for his mistake when he sees Khushi and her family struggling or uprooted from their home.

But then again, take today's episode and put it in a time when their relationship is rock solid and they know each other's feelings, it would have been a whole different story. But now is not the time for this.