Another MU...created by Arnav's lie????Edited..

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Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Fazila~
😭 from morning my hearts crying for khushi...now that Arnav has admitted he loves her..shes still suffering...he hasnt told her openly...what he thinks she will hear it???? Men!!!!!!!!!😡

Agreed completely Fuzzy...

And another point is that Arnav still has not revealed that Shyam himself confessed to him that he loves Khushi. All he said, correct me if I'm wrong, "I thought Shyam and Khushi were having an affair and that's why to save your marriage I married her."

Again a big gap of communication that Shyam can fill with his lies.

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boreddamsel

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: tia.o

Honestly speaking, here's what message he is giving Anjali...

a. He reinforced in her mind that she is still the most important person in this world and he can even marry a girl he did not love just to protect her. So Arnav lied to pacify Anjali leaving a door open for further misunderstandings. He conveniently left out that he was going to propose to Khushi, the night of the wedding. He also did not mention why Khushi married him and because of that Shyam can claim now that Khushi married him for money and trap him in love for the same reason...

b. After marriage, he started to fall in love with her. That could be due to close proximity, living as husband & wife or Khushi trapping him for money. But that did not particularly clear how much he loves Khushi and what is her position in his life. A woman gets only as much respect in her in-laws as much her husband gives her. It's sad but it's true.

And another point is that Arnav still has not revealed that Shyam himself confessed to him that he loves Khushi. All he said, correct me if I'm wrong, "I thought Shyam and Khushi were having an affair and that's why to save your marriage I married her."

Again a big gap of communication that Shyam can fill with his lies.

well said! 👏 and Madamji will blindly believe everything her god=like husband tells her right!!! See this is why everyone in the Raizada family, especially Arnav and Khushi need a lecture on how important it is to communicate.. hiding and lying always puts you in trouble! that's why a wise man/woman once said that Honesty is the best policy!!!! sheesh! you lie or hide something and you expect your lover to be honest with you??

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xodramalover

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

I don't think Arnav realized he loved Khushi before the marriage.

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EmmaKing

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

I'd have to agree with the majority people here...

The fact is that Arnav has always been in love with Khushi. He began falling in love with her when she wore the red sari in his office...the only difference is that after he was trying to reject his love for Khushi through spewing hatred...but eventually he accepted his love for Khushi during Payal & Aakash wedding and started to pursue her aggressively as he became jealous and possessive due to NK & he was about to confess his true love to Khushi before the misunderstanding on the terrace happened.

Now, some people are saying he truly fell in love with Khushi after their wedding or during the kidnapping track. Uhm..heck no!! He was already madly in love with Khushi but was angry with her due to which he spew hatred on her. After wedding sequences, you can see Arnav's pain whenever Khushi was in tears,hence it proved he always cared for her. The kidnapping track made Arnav realize that how much he was in love with Khushi and ultimately he couldn't live without her.

So I am also surprised as to why Arnav lied to Anjali. Although, it is true that he married Khushi only b/c of Anjali and at that specific moment he did hate Khushi due to the misunderstanding...so perhaps, to Arnav he didn't love at that particular time...therefore, he told Anjali that he didn't love Khushi before..but Anjali and Nani both knew how Arnav felt about Khushi during Payash's marriage...so I don't know why Anjali believed Arnav :/

Anyway..i hope Arnav doesn't believe that he didn't love Khushi before their contract marriage :( if so..than it would be sad and all the ArShi moments before would be pointless. :(

Edited by EmmaKing - 13 years ago

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boreddamsel

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Fazila~
😭 from morning my hearts crying for khushi...now that Arnav has admitted he loves her..shes still suffering...he hasnt told her openly...what he thinks she will hear it???? Men!!!!!!!!!😡

Agreed.. he keeps challenging her and rubbing his victory in her face.. and expects her to treat him like a husband.. she will consider you her husband the day you fold that ego of yours and drown it in that 3 feet pool!

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No1KoosieFan-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Infatuation or love... good ques... I'd say he was in luv wid khushi before... According to the source, diff b/w infatuation + love Sc: google
Infatuation: Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning desire.Selfish uncontrollable desire.Physical desire, crush, or lust , hormonal activity, addictive chemical reactions in the brain

Love:A decision to commit oneself to another and to work through conflicts instead of giving up. A deeper understanding or care.Decision to devote yourself to another person for better or worse.
^^isnt that confessing his love dat nite? Descision of commitment? So I say he was in love before marriage...

Edited by -.-RajeevK-.- - 13 years ago

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chatterbug

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

I dont think ASR lied !

In his mind he did not realize what he has towards khushi until his kidnapping !

Even khushi was trying to figure out what her feelings were. And suddenly the terrace scene define a clear MU that took out any potential next steps in Love .

So in my opinion arnav is just stating what he truly felt.

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boreddamsel

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Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Babe.. i just realized something else..

He says I married Khushi because of you.

Love happened after marriage.

implying that I am in love because of you.. everything is because of you.. you are the reason I'm happy now.. you are the most important person in my life.. even Khushi came in my life because of you..

and that makes me want to throw up! 😡

Ok.. I'm going to stop thinking about this.. else I will end up hating Arnav..

let's just leave it at maybe it was a blooper.. 😆 and try not to think too much about it!!

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vellainsaan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#29

I would have understood if he had said "I married her because of you (Anjali)" but him saying CLEARLY "I didn't love her before the wedding, I fell in love with her after the wedding" was such.a.lie. Then what the hell was he doing at the terrace in the first place? And what was he doing today, confessing he loves Khushi and then next moment uttering I love you DI? 😕

Why does everyone in this show keeps hiding stuff from each other? Khushi thinks RM ppl and ASR will never find out that Buaji is not sick... Buaji will never find out that she has left RM? Why doesn't ASR give a clear view of what exactly happened during the wedding night so that Khushi's name is cleared from the mess he created, he might exclude the contract but come on.. who's sentiments is he worried about now, everything is out in the open anyway.. and most importantly what will Khushi achieve out of not telling the truth to the Guptas now? Payal is hiding her high heels, Akaash is hiding his spine, Mami is hiding Mamaji, Nani is hiding her goatwa.. WHY???

I'm confused.com

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Tia.0

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Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: boreddamsel

well said! 👏 and Madamji will blindly believe everything her god=like husband tells her right!!! See this is why everyone in the Raizada family, especially Arnav and Khushi need a lecture on how important it is to communicate.. hiding and lying always puts you in trouble! that's why a wise man/woman once said that Honesty is the best policy!!!! sheesh! you lie or hide something and you expect your lover to be honest with you??

That term has a name. It's called Double Standard which is very evident in Indian society...

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