Why does everyone hate Anjali today? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Pimples

I agree with what all of you said .I actually felt quite sorry for anjali today,here shes just undergone the shock of her life finding out about her husbands infidelity and then tried to kill her own baby which for any mother is a pretty drastic step .She has done this over the fear of being alone she feels she has no one and today it has been proven by Khushi and Arnav that she is.I think for the first time I was quite angry at Arnav for putting all his attention on his wife, After what has happened - I would think my main objective to be to help my sister out of it by being their for her not taking an enire day out to plan my wifes birthday.Usually Arnav is my favourite character but as a brother TODAY he let me down.

Aswell as keeping in mind this situation could have been a lot worse and Anjali could have handled it worse by blaming Arnav and Khushi for implicating her husband and kicking him out of the house as we all know she use to worship him more than anything.But she hasnt said or done anything and stood by her brothers judgement so now is time for Arnav to allow his sister some time to He can probably get another wife ,But he will never be able to find another sister

Originally posted by: sanja_here

i personally was little upset 2day...but can afford anji for some time...i even dnt want arshi romance right now...BUT wat bothers me is after some time shyam will be back with a bang...to make arshi life horrible...so when we will see a relaxed aeshi 4 atleast 1 week...that doesnt mean i want to see only arshi and rabba ve 4 1 week but without any negative interruption ...ie with a cute anji,payal,aakash,nani,even mami😆

Originally posted by: subha2601

I feel Khushi,Payal and Arnav r da bigger culprits of anjali than shyam.The reason is they hid such a biggest truth abt shyam frm her.If khushi and payal would hv told this da day they came 2 know that she is shyam's wife then all dese problems whould hv never happened.She herself would hv thrown shyam out of her life.How can they think dat shyam betraying anjali is better than anjali knowing da truth?

I was shocked when arnav too did da same thing.So what if anjali was pregnant?Arnav gave one more chance 2 shyam 2 betray anjali.What did he think,shyam will start falling in luv wid anjali and live his liffe wid anjali and his baby?Aisa nahi hua na.Shyam showed his true colours.He not jst made da will,he also kidnapped arnav and was abt 2 kill him.

Now after all dese happened,when anjali finally came 2 know da truth,instead of making her believe da truth,dey r once again keeping quiet and letting her ruin her life.Why can't arnav and khushi call gupta family and make dem spill da truth in front of anjali and whole family?Why can't dey find proofs against shyam dat he wanted arnav's property?All of dem r still responsible 4 anjali's condition.

Originally posted by: Neemsundari

Yes, Anjali's feelings are realistic. I don't have a crib with the Cvs, I am only saying that Anjali got what she deserved. It is her attitude of caring only for herself and living in her own bubble world that made her vulnerable to snake. She has help and support from everyone-- Nani, Mami, Akash, and even Arnav, yet she wants Arnav to forsake everything and stick to her. She does not want to examine, like any normal woman would, if there were any early warning signs of this disaster, nor does she discuss it with Nani etc-- wondering if and why Shyam did it. She is instead just clamming up in self-pity.

Contrast this with Khushi post marriage-- when not only had she been coerced into a marriage by a husband who tortured her, her own folks had disowned her and entire Raizada clan had too-- she stood up alone and shook off self-pity. She did not ask anyone to 'return her her world'-- she went and corrected everything herself-- from appeasing her family and in-laws (who were angry with her for no fault of her own) to rescuing her husband.

Anjali is a self-involved weakling in comparison-- and this kick from the fortunes should wake her up to reality and some self-respect. So she can hate Khushi all she likes, and maybe that is right from her perspective, but it does not change the fact that her blind willingness to stick with her delusions made her the perfect prey for snake, and let her be so easily manipulated by him.

I do not hate Anjali, but I cannot ignore the fact that she is partially responsible for her problems today. If she were less self-involved, less insecure, and more willing to face facts, she would have questioned Shyam harder during the many goof-ups on his part.

If I contrast her with Khushi, Anjali does show up as more selfish, self-pitying and weak.

Originally posted by: ASRsweetKKG

i wont ever say tat khushi is the reason 4 loosing Anjali's husband...can i call him husband???😕

no...in fact khushi was the one who saved anjali from a snake...even though if khushi was not there Shyam was married anjali not bcoz of love but just bcoz of money...😡

its anjali's luck 2 hav a brother like arnav who is always with his Di & ready 2 do watever 4 his Di...😊

ASR hurt khushi...MU her...married her by black mailing...made 6 months contract... hurt her many times...didnt believe her...but i should say tat he did all those 4 his DI only...4 making her always happy only...😭

so actually khushi has 2 feel like wat anjali feels now with her long b4...😊

now too he is not making a big party 4 khushi's BDay according 2 Di's condition...gave the flowers 2 Di which he bought 4 his wife...only he just tried 2 cut a cake silently in their own bedroom 4 his wife who was innocent always., rescued him from goons out of her life & sacrificed everything 4 his family...😳

as a Di she has 2 happy 2 see tat & relax herself by thinking tat at least her bro's lfe is fine ...

but wat anjali was doing today?😕

😡watever...today i was really pissed off with Anjali...

wat she wants..? her chotte should remain 15 yrs child 4ever & not even a life 4 him .?he should remain a supporter 4 his Di..& her selfish needs...i could have understand her depression during these days...but wat about today...?😕

she said tat now chotte loves some one more than her..😲she was remembering the slap which ASR did 4 his wife...he also did one 4 hurting his di..but she didnt remeber tat ...wat does tat mean?😡

if Anajli can still love & trust a snakewaa who is a evil why cant her brother can love his wife a little who deserves it...?

is she wants make him sad & cry & hug her always..& make him sit with her in bedroom...?😡

I think the important thing we should all remember is the Anjali did not know about anything Khushi suffered, either by Shyam or Arnav. It's easy to forget that because we as the viewers know anything and currently our sympathies are with Khushi, especially for what Arnav said to her recently, but even that Anjali doesn't know.