Why does everyone hate Anjali today?

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Rose_7

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

i completely agree with u... anjali is very much justified!

great post and very much needed 👏

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Janaki

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ipkknd_gd

Anjali is being mean and selfish... she wants all the attention on her.
She probably does not realize that Khushi has also gone through a lot lately because her brain is DEAD...she believes she has been wronged...and does not want to get out of her shell and wants protection all the time from everyone.

Yeah, that's right. She doesn't know what Khushi has gone through or what her family has gone through, but is that her fault?😕 Did any character in the story sit down and talk to her about Shyam before the bombshell dropped on her? Did Arnav talk to her? Khushi? Payal? No one told her anything that happened and suddenly people think she should empathize with Khushi?🤔 I'm not a Khushi hater or an Arnav hater. I like ArHi and want to see their romance too, but I'm not going to be selfish and expect Anjali to get over her loss so quickly and encourage them. That's totally unnatural and would not happen in real life.

Anjali has been wronged, not just by Shyam but by everyone who knew about him beforehand. Khushi and Payal hid the information much before Arnav found out simply because they did not want Anjali to be sad. No offense, but that excuse does not hold with me because the longer the secret is held from her, the more it would hurt when it did come out. We have seen that happening now, haven't we? Had Anjali found out about Shyam before her pregnancy, her sense of loss and despair would have been less, so Khushi, Arnav, and Payal do share some blame in what happened.

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Janaki

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ritika06
Anjali is the most misundersttod character here.Hardly anybody understands here.All they want is just Arshi romance and nothing else.
What did Anjali do today?She cooked food for Arnav and wanted him to eat it.Was it wrong to cook food for a brother?When she say arnav with khushi,she left the room.She didn't interrupt them and force him to eat,did she?
When she realises that someone else is also as important to arnav as she is so naturally she will feel a little insecure.People are bashing daljeet like anything.i am wondering where are the mods.
If barun and sanaya bashing is not allowed then how is daljeet bashing allowed since last so many days?

You are 100% correct and have written what is in my mind.👏 Many people in this forum only want Arhi romance and they don't give a care if other characters in the show suffer as long as Arhi romance each other.🤢 IPKKND is not some cheesy bollywood movie. It's not just a show about love between a couple, but also love within a family. IPKKND is meant to explore the dimensions of a family and how they affect each other. Just because Anjali is suffering doesn't give people the right to bash her and call her selfish. For God's sake, it's only been the second day!

And I agree that Anjali actually showed some courtesy in leaving Arhi alone after finding them celebrating Khushi's birthday. She could have made a scene and forced Arnav to eat her food, but she didn't. She went to her own room and suffered alone.

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Janaki

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: music1
I do not hate her...but feel that it is high time she comes out of her makeshift fantasy world...her witnessing Khushi's birthday celebration when she is all broken was pretty harsh but I feel this was the first dose of reality check for her...she will be grey for sometime until she sees the true colors of Shyam...she will never be dark...grey is the max she can turn into...

Yeah, she should eventually come out of her makeshift fantasy world, but on the second day after she finds out about Shyam?😲 People do need time, and had she reacted like this months later maybe I'd have been annoyed, but right now all my sympathy goes to Anjali. I can't feel annoyed with her unless she turns into a rakshasi and throws Khushi out of the house or something, in which case I would hate. But she hasn't done that. Right now she's suffering, and that too alone, so I feel it's selfish for anyone to feel annoyed with her or hate her character.

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trishy13

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: grapegirl
Plus people are forgetting it took about more than 3 months for Arnav to trust Khushi over Shyam.

So stop expecting too much people, Anjali will not be in team Khushi after 1 week. And people are so harsh on her character, she's traumatised and looking at the future as a single mother. I really feel sorry for her.

I totally agree with you. I don't get why people are being so hard on Anjali. In my opinion anjali's behaviour is NO WHERE close to the way Arnav behaved towards Khushi. I mean Arnav forced Khushi into a marriage and then was awful to her. Anjali not talking to Khushi and wanting more attention from her brother is not that bad. I don't mean to compare. I just don't understand why people are so upset towards her. Have any of you had your spouse cheat on you (well have him infatuated with another person) and then have that person live under the same roof as you. Why don't you all think that.

Yes she's weak but perhaps after their parents died she became weak...and once she found someone whom she fell in love with after her parent's tragedy she's relied on that person and have kept him super close. Generally people do that after losing someone. They keep the remaining people very close to them and get very posessive

Anyways back to her behaviour. This girl just had her whole life turned upside down...do you blame her for being that way. She found out that the man she has loved so unconditionally is actually in love with someone else and that someone else is living with her. it's a constant reminder. She feels alone and has no one else. So natually she relies on her brother for help. The people closest to you are always the people you turn to. People this is common sense. I DON'T AT ALL think that Anjali is jealous of seeing Arnav with khushi...I think it made her upset because most likely she must have had an evening/birthday just like that. Near the end, when she was talking to herself saying that her Chotte has forgotten her i think she just feels really alone and that no one cares for her...and again that has NOTHING to do with her being needy. it has to do with the fact that she just feels abandoned and that she's alone and that's primarily directed towards her feelings for Shyam. The fact that he's not in her life anymore and that she was so betrayed by him.

So people with all the negativity...why don't you all relax and just see how this all plays out. I mean it's been a week since Anjali and everyone in the family has found out about Shyam. Lets all be patient and see how this all works it out and how each and every family member deals with this. It's actually interesting to see this. We get some more insight on the characters. For example, who knew that Akash, the total sweet heart would handle this by being a total ass to Payal...he always seemed like the compationate one in the family.

Anyways so lets stop being upset with Anjali and put yourself in her shoes and in the fact that currently in her eyes she feels as though she has lost EVERYTHING...her parents, her husband and how her brother to his wife...She's at a VERY, VERY low point!

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Raina S.M

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

I think its all a matter of prospective. When one looks at it from an ArShi fan POV, They see a highly delusional woman whose way to dependent on her brother. They see an obstacle between Arshi , they see a womam cant do anything about her problems but cry, i'll admit i have called her weeping willows myself!

But When you look at it from Anjali's POV, The woman just lost one of the two men she loved the most. Shyam wasn't just her husband, He was father to her unborn child as well. Now that she has lost him, its only natural that she turns to the other man she can depend on & that man being Arnav.

And as for her reaction today, I think it was pretty realistic. Any woman who just broke up with her spouse is going to feel deprived when she sees a couple together, Its natural. But in Anjali's case it proved to be even more hurtful coz she not only saw her borther "celebrating" in time of her distress but she saw him celebrating with his "wife" , the same wife who she feels was the reason for her break up. Under such circumstances any woman would've reacted the way Anjali did. Her behavior is 100% justified.

Though i dont blame the viewers for misunderstanding her character because honestly i dont feel the CVs developed her character the way they should have. They always showed her as the "weak" one, I mean for how long can one sympathize, it gets annoying after a point!

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anitha v

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Well said. We also sympathise with anjalis position... But here you sd also think its not only to believe either your spouse or the new girl... She also sd believe her brother whom she thinks better than anybody else...

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ipkfan1

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

It's unfair to call Anjali a crybaby. No woman in her position would be able to keep smiling and laughing and forget what happened. She was married to Shyam for 3-4 years and suddenly one day, a bombshell drops on her that he's in love with her brother's wife. As if that's not enough, her brother, after promising to support her through all sorrow, runs back to his wife the day after she learns about Shyam's infidelity.

I am not saying this as a bashing post at Arnav and Kushi, because I like them too and want them to have a lot of romantic moments now that Arnav is back home, but this is what Anjali thinks. It may not be true but it's what she feels, and I don't think any of us have a right to call her a crybaby right now because for once, she has the right to cry. In her POV, Khushi first stole her husband and now her brother. It's got to be tough on any sister who already lost a mother and father in her childhood. Arnav is all she's got and obviously she's going to be a bit possessive about him, especially with her husband gone too. She has no one else. Nani and Mami are there, yes, but Nani is old and won't live forever. And Mami, as kind as she is towards Anjali at least, is not her mother. Arnav is the only person she can lean on who will be there for as long as she lives, and Anjali does not want to lose him, not even to Khushi.

I don't think Anjali will hate khushi forever, because she was happy for Arnav when he fell in love with Khushi and married her, but now in her moment of loss, Khushi is her enemy and Anjali will most certainly will hurt and jealous whenever Arnav spends more time with Khushi than her. It's natural and it's what we all would feel if we were in Anjali's place.

I did not call Anji a cry baby. I said I will be a cry baby for Kushi coz Kushi does not cry and I know this will effect her in some way. I don't have to just see Arnav and Kushi but I feel sorry for them too. Am I allowed to feel sorry for them? Plz.. Its my choice. I want to see Anji happy too. Right now I am just scared for Arshi. I hope Anji will come out of this soon. And my original post was supposed to be funny.

Edited by ipkfan1 - 13 years ago

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Addie07

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Anjali's reaction was expected.. its human...

How does one react when they find out that the person they loved with everything in them didnt love her but pretended all along that he did? how does one react on realizing that she was just a means to an end, the end being the raizada fortune?

Whatever she has heard in the whole confrontation has only been an accusation--not an explanation.. the three people who stood by khushi were ones who loved her- Payal (her sister), NK (who once had an obvious crush on her) Arnav (who loves her)-- how is she to believe their word against the one person who has been her world- the one person who she thought knew all her faults and loved her anyway..? it is always been known that anjali's world had just two people-- shyam and arnav..

isnt it normal to feel jealous of khushi, because somewhere down the line she has lost her whole world to her?

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Subha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

I feel Khushi,Payal and Arnav r da bigger culprits of anjali than shyam.The reason is they hid such a biggest truth abt shyam frm her.If khushi and payal would hv told this da day they came 2 know that she is shyam's wife then all dese problems whould hv never happened.She herself would hv thrown shyam out of her life.How can they think dat shyam betraying anjali is better than anjali knowing da truth?

I was shocked when arnav too did da same thing.So what if anjali was pregnant?Arnav gave one more chance 2 shyam 2 betray anjali.What did he think,shyam will start falling in luv wid anjali and live his liffe wid anjali and his baby?Aisa nahi hua na.Shyam showed his true colours.He not jst made da will,he also kidnapped arnav and was abt 2 kill him.

Now after all dese happened,when anjali finally came 2 know da truth,instead of making her believe da truth,dey r once again keeping quiet and letting her ruin her life.Why can't arnav and khushi call gupta family and make dem spill da truth in front of anjali and whole family?Why can't dey find proofs against shyam dat he wanted arnav's property?All of dem r still responsible 4 anjali's condition.

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