Isn't it time to stop 'feel for Anjali' campaign? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ItIsMyLife

Even Payal has face the trauma of a broken marriage.She has seen her father to suddenly have a heart attack in front of her eyes.Her younger sister's wedding was fixed before her.She has a MIL who always keeps on taunting her.Her husband is treating her like a tissue.
But still she is not weeping like Anjali.She is happy to see her younger sister happy.She did not cry a bucket as her younger sister's husband a birthday party for her.
Anjali on the other hand has the whole family beside her.But still she is jealous of her SIL.Why will I have sympathies on her?

Originally posted by: Drwho

You have captured the essence wonderfully! But may I ask, where and how are they trying to gain sympathy for her?

As far as Anjali's character goes, even God Helps those who help themselves and we are ordinary mortals!

No one can feel sympathy for a whiny, clingy, avoidant, self centred, self obsessed, rich woman willing to kill her baby as you said, because she feels the baby might alienate her from the brother and the rest of the family.

We would feel sympathy if she grew up and became a responsible adult, stood up for herself and her baby, came to terms with the fact that her husband is a liar and a cheat and a criminal, do something meaningful with her life.

Compare this with the girl who was orphaned at 8, adopted by a family, desperately trying to make ends meet, forced to endure the advances of the above woman's husband, forced into a fake marriage by the above woman's brother, illtreated by him and his family, abandoned by her own family, but inspite of that manages to smile through it all and forgive the very people that have ruined her life! How can we not feel sympathy?

Originally posted by: tariqsamira

OMG You still remember that post?😆 Thanks dear

Originally posted by: priya_dreams

i just vented at a post about anjali,...
yes, i cannot sympathize with anjali at all...and now she is turning into jealous selfish women...
how can she think it's all khushi's fault and her husband is all dood ka dhoola innocent...?????
...first of all she is dumb, she has been married to a man for years and she doesn't know him at all !!!!!!

if there was no proof for her to believe that her husband is at fault, there is also no proof for her to believe that khushi is at fault...and don't bring mami here...mami has always been against khushi and she knows that...
and I am really not happy with mamiji...as far i understand her character, after hearing all that she shuld have gone to gupta house and talked to them and their neighborhoods about shyam...
mami khushi bond was such a hit...and in a moment broken...she has seen how much khushi was concerned for arnav, how can she forget that???...i cannot digest this fact...😒

it cannot be called even sisterly affections... her brother was kidnapped, had near brush with death ... is she bothered?????...k, if she doesn't believe her husband did it, then why she is not concerned to find who did it????
she doesn't love her brother at all, she only loves herself... her life, her husband was everything for her...she is plain selfish...
now she cannot see anyone happy...poor khushi... and poor us !!! it's becoming difficult to watch...😭

the way things were shown... it's only one thing clear...she is simply jealous of khushi...
..and what made her throw those flowers and crying as if she has seen something devastated..!!!!

i have never hated any TV vamp so much as much I am hating anjali today...😲
I am very sorry to say but she is becoming pathetic...plain selfish women...

Originally posted by: Drwho

You have captured the essence wonderfully! But may I ask, where and how are they trying to gain sympathy for her?

As far as Anjali's character goes, even God Helps those who help themselves and we are ordinary mortals!

No one can feel sympathy for a whiny, clingy, avoidant, self centred, self obsessed, rich woman willing to kill her baby as you said, because she feels the baby might alienate her from the brother and the rest of the family.

We would feel sympathy if she grew up and became a responsible adult, stood up for herself and her baby, came to terms with the fact that her husband is a liar and a cheat and a criminal, do something meaningful with her life.

Compare this with the girl who was orphaned at 8, adopted by a family, desperately trying to make ends meet, forced to endure the advances of the above woman's husband, forced into a fake marriage by the above woman's brother, illtreated by him and his family, abandoned by her own family, but inspite of that manages to smile through it all and forgive the very people that have ruined her life! How can we not feel sympathy?

Originally posted by: Shastradhari

Sree..maeri behen..hum dono ki ekaj problem hai..i am not convinced myself with this character..

I get emotional to easily and feel the pain..but why O why i never develop any feelings for this character because this is what i have understood from this character:

1) she wants to control everything...it has to be her way...her perfect picture - true

2) This woman needs attention... true

3) She is very good advisor if her world if perfect...then she can meddle with others life and give free advice...but she does not preach on that.. - true

4) I still not able to understand what she was trying to convey by holding that forcep?????

5) She just thinks about her..they r hundreds of clues that her husband was cheater...shyamu never was at home until his eye candy got into RM..Anji herself is a witness of khushi's love for arnie and vice versa.. - true

6) now about last couple of episodes and today esp...she thinks her brother is her property and puppet - true

If she really a caring sister ...then she should be happy about her chotte..getting love and perfect life partner..HE gave a girl status equally in his life..

Originally posted by: Atyay

I agree with all of you, but at certain point I disagree as well...

You see, we as viewers know what Arnav & Khushi have suffered to keep Anjali safe & happy in her perfect world. But Anjali is not aware about the magnitude of sacrifices & hurt that both Khushi & Arnav have faced.

Plus she is sort of paranoid with deep sense of insecurity. I think she can only recover from her present state if Shyam tells her on her face about his true intentions! Which may happen someday.

But for now, enjoy the...

"Di pas aane na de, Khushi door jaane na de!" 😆

As stated in one of the posts in the forum.


And, without such complicated characters as Anjali & Shyam there wont be any twists & dramas in IPKKND world. Wouldn't it kind of, make it boring?!!!!
I am satisfied with the present track, thank GOD! the misunderstanding & the kidnapping track is over.

Originally posted by: Orange101

Agreed, agreed, and agreed! Anjali is responsible for what she is today. How can you just go and marry a person whose background/family you don't even know about! He doesn't even have a home to start his own family! OK, I understand that her first marriage was broken, but still! You probably, now, want to be more careful about who you choose, instead of being careless! But, yeah, she married him! But can someone please explain to me, how can you not suspect a hubby who's gone for the whole day to the "court"?!😕

Yeah, she lost her parents, but Khushi and Arnav did also, and that too when they were only kids! Yeah, her marriage was broken- well, what about Payal; and it looks like it's going to be broken again...😔 - 👍🏼 Nice points

P.S. Whew, that was a long comment😆