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tanthya

@tanthya

Inactive

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Posted: 13 years ago

#981

Originally posted by: --Anna--

The same thing happened today dint it!? The same thing is happening!? The only thing that worked in their favor is Arnav knows Shyam's reality.

Strongly DISAGREE that they were wrong in hiding the truth! The truth should never be hidden! I do not even support Arnav hiding the truth from Anjali even though I am his biggest pankha - because the truth always has to come out. And they made a decision of someone else's life and if someone had done that with me - I would throw them right out of my house.

The points you listed they are true and they are still happening. But then - the Gupta ladies would not have to face any blame that they today - because they are wrong no matter what - it would only be Raizada's at fault for not believing them - but by hiding such a big thing - they are at fault and that cannot be taken away. Today Khushi is suffering what she hid - today Payal is going to suffer for she did not confide and Arnav will also suffer because he chose to keep it a secret from his sister.

So if they were right in your opinion about hiding the truth then Khushi being forced into marriage was Also right - Payal Akash rift is also right - so was Arnav's back lash yesterday. Brings me to the point that Arnav was always right and his was always a consequential decision to the Gupta ladies hiding of secret (and some of his own as well)

Now I know Why I was missing Anna so much today ...m loving this sparring between u two intelligent girls...

* reverting to silent mode*

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--Anna--

@--Anna--

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#982

Originally posted by: b.sarika2

Waise kyun nahi aaogi?...I think you know more about members here than me. People do look forward to read ur post.

Nah!! I cannot defend Arnav when he is in the right! It takes a toll on me!! 😆 And I cannot stand him being bashed either because then I come out to fight! 😆

I know most of the people ofcourse but well - kya karun - sometimes I need my sanity back and to enjoy the show with my sanity intact! 😳

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redwine1

@redwine1

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#983

😉

Originally posted by: Nia.D

Arrey waah... my duayein have been answered!! was always waiting for a guy's perspective out here! Thanks Shwetha for asking... and thanks Kots (Nareshkota) for answering 😃

Holy Moly.. naresh ... love this .. just the balance of views that we needed .. just hope ur not GH 😉

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Posted: 13 years ago

#984

Originally posted by: Nia.D

Arrey waah... my duayein have been answered!! was always waiting for a guy's perspective out here! Thanks Shwetha for asking... and thanks Kots (Nareshkota) for answering 😃

Ahhh, Nia, Now I feel better bey. 🤗

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Zoyafan

@Zoyafan

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#985

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Hello! :)
You know why I cannot feel for Khushi!? Because I cannot believe that the woman has such a low understanding of the man called ASR who she is apparently in love with! And the worse she does not even think why he reacted - she takes it personally!!
He did it too - but the man knows his mistake!! If Khushi knows him then she should know that if the MAN could trust you and throw his BIL out for your sake and not care for his di in that moment - he spewed venom for a reason!! Sometimes I wonder does she even know him!? 😕
Arnav reacted agreed - and it was done in the spur of the moment and it was wrong again agreed - but the man knows where he faltered and he will correct it! That is where he is JUST! 😳

Hello Anna,

Long time since I read..."Hola people"...Pls come back soon, we miss u :):)

@Bold: I guess...today Khushi will not act rudely with him...she will start packing her bags and say that I know and understand ur situation and so I will leave for GH till Di comes back to normal.( the similar treatment when they had come back from GH)

This will hurt ASR more coz he knows his Khushi...he will stop her, which will make her come up with the contract thing and rest of the thing will follow...

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Lakshmi Chandra Naresh Kota

@Nareshkota

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#986

Originally posted by: Shwetha!

Well it will be good to have a guy's perspective in the whole thing and you are a writer. Just confirming that is all.

I did see a post by you the other day in the main forum I think, so wanted to confirm if you were the same guy.

Hope my answer satisfied you and hope you didn;t mind.

If you did, sorry.😳

No I didn't mind but suddenly I was surprised by the question...and I was just messing up that's all.. I edited my last post as well...

I work in the Televison media as a Writer...
My interest IPKKND is huge, since I am like ASR and that brought me to REDUX...

I think i said alot about myself..

See sometimes it becomes more important for me to write about "I ME & MYSELF"

So sorry for writing this much..

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Megha

@IndigoBlues

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#987

Originally posted by: --Anna--

The same thing happened today dint it!? The same thing is happening!? The only thing that worked in their favor is Arnav knows Shyam's reality.

Strongly DISAGREE that they were wrong in hiding the truth! The truth should never be hidden! I do not even support Arnav hiding the truth from Anjali even though I am his biggest pankha - because the truth always has to come out. And they made a decision of someone else's life and if someone had done that with me - I would throw them right out of my house.

The points you listed they are true and they are still happening. But then - the Gupta ladies would not have to face any blame that they today - because they are wrong no matter what - it would only be Raizada's at fault for not believing them - but by hiding such a big thing - they are at fault and that cannot be taken away. Today Khushi is suffering what she hid - today Payal is going to suffer for she did not confide and Arnav will also suffer because he chose to keep it a secret from his sister.

So if they were right in your opinion about hiding the truth then Khushi being forced into marriage was Also right - Payal Akash rift is also right - so was Arnav's back lash yesterday. Brings me to the point that Arnav was always right and his was always a consequential decision to the Gupta ladies hiding of secret (and some of his own as well)

I agree that they were wrong in hiding the truth..at the time of Payash marriage I was VERY frustrated with the entire Gupta family for doing so much chal with the Raiazadas,,in a way they were accomplices to Shyam.😆 But the Guptas, like everybody suffer from the delusion that 'one slap is enough to cure somebody'...

Remember when Arnav found out about Shyam? He should have thrown Shyam out of the house right then, because at that time Anji was pregnant(that too in an immature stage) and this time she is more sensitive...yet he chose NOW, when actually he should have done it THEN. Arnav thought that 'He's my BIL...ek baar samjhaaya to sudhar jaayega'..and Shyam bought all those roses and that nursery to pacify Arnav

What Arnav and the Guptas ignored is that people like Shyam CANNOT be cured..It is best to throw them out of your life asap..but since both ASR and the Guptas are essentially good-hearted people they decided to give him a second chance for Anji's sake..and there lies their undoing..😆

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TheFaerieQueen

@TheFaerieQueen

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#988

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

But the Guptas are an ordinary middle-class family..suppose the Raizadas had accused them of defamation? their name would have been blackened in the community and Payal's marriage would have been stalled again...here the fault is not the Guptas but society's...for the Guptas their no 1 priority was marrying both of their daughters off...because Society demands that women be married off as soon as possible to avoid 'rumours' and once again they had to hide the truth because society looks at 'a women as the Sautan if she's the reason a man leaves his wife'...the Guptas simply did what even the most honest family would have done..

Yes, you are right that they had their own reason's for doing that. But then there are repurcussions of these actions. They thought of settling their daughters life and in process forgot they are playing with someone else's daughter by not alerting them about their son in law. There were two reason's for them to hide..one paya;'s impending marriage and second there assumption of Anjali's absence of strenth. Both are emotional reason's

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tanthya

@tanthya

Inactive

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#989

Originally posted by: Nia.D

Arrey waah... my duayein have been answered!! was always waiting for a guy's perspective out here! Thanks Shwetha for asking... and thanks Kots (Nareshkota) for answering 😃

we donno why she asked too but oh Boy..are we mighty glad she asked...Now we know where to head when we want some brain picking to be done from Men's perspective...😛