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chickky

@chickky

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Arnav reaches the hospital just in time and was able to save Anjali from comitting the blunder on what she is upto. Anjali being surronded by the windpool of memories of her brother,Husband n their conversations, at her manipulative best tells Arnav that she does not want the child as it remembers of his father who dont have any respect at her home. Point to note is that its not becuase she does not want to bare a child of a cheat who doesnt love her and tried to destroy her brother. Its the other way.She knows where and when to hit to get things her way.

When she knows the foundation is been done, she indirectly seeks to make things rosy for her as earlier..Earlier here is times before Kushi is at RM. She feels Kushi is the reason for her marriage to break,husband being thrown out and she wants her brother to send kushi out,bring shyam IN .For that she uses all the weapons on hand. Baby, Health breakdown,crying n seeking assurance from her brother for a yes.Wah! thats called a perfect emotional blackmail and Arnav takes in.

Poor Anjali does even know for her kushiya to be in tact, how much Kushi has to kurban her own Kushi!! An innocent soul has taken too much from all people around and still continously taking that even in her(Anjali) lifetime she can imagine to bear in slightest of the nightmares. Dreams being shattered by the very person she feels being in love, Every minute of ridicule, hate,poking, no one to give her a shoulder to lean in her adversity! The day she realises will be the real Anjali Singh Raizada and death of love towards Shyam Manohar Jha! Me strongly feel both brother and sister should place her in the highest respect she is all due at the moment and give her the much needed love.

I still dont understand the point on how mami is being stern on kushi after knowing that she was the one who brought him home alive. This is defintely unfair of her in ill treating the bahus and Akash being a silent spectator. Not gelling well! Understand Nanis emotions being an elderly lady and her conern for grand-daughter stays on top. But rest of raizada claid..a Big NO!

The worst of worst is to stop Payal from showing her concern to Di seeing which kushi steps back.I so want both Payal and Kushi walk out of RM and get back only when promised to give the much needed respect they deserve.

All throughout the episode, we can see how Anjali was not allowed to come out of her dreamy world by the protectors Nani, Mami,Arnav and Akash! All their dialogs revolved around her dream being disturbed and all their efforts seems how quick they can restore her dream!

The stiking similarity between Arnav and Mamijii is shown is a very Subtle way! The minute she knows Kushis interaction with Anjali is the cause of her todays hasty decison, she couldnt restrain herself in informing Arnav. Similarly the minute he sees Mami, he could not restrain on how she failed to take care of Di in his absence..Thats a nice Stroke CVs.

Arnav already being brainwashed by his Di and on knowing that Kushi is behind all this..there u go..ASR back. Without even thinking twice and not even giving time to kushi to complete, he utters the most painful dialog any can tolerate.

Kushi completely breaksdown on listening to how arnav reacted to her once again! Somewhere anrav too believes that Kushi is responsible for all this drama and since he cant correct it, he feels it woud have been better if kushi didnt enter into his life. To some extent, i can see the pain hes undergoing.

Normally, when life throws circumstances that cant be handled, it common to blame the object/person closest responsible to it. Arnav in his helpless blames Kushi.

How come Arnav..Little do u know that Shyam entered into Kushis life just because of ur own tempermant. Life has been equally hell to her from that day dealing with him,u and ur family. How the hell do u vent out ur anger on the much suffered gal! Just sterday u gave her hope, u made her taste ur love, u said words about Trust and misdeeds of not trusting her..Where did all that Go? One small 2 min drama from ur sister, all that went drain ????? Understood that u realised it later..But why Arnav Bitua..Whyyysss???

Go Gal! Go out of RM and give him the much needed silent treatment he deserves of! Payal,follow ur sister and show Akash his desrved place!

Arnav unable to resist what has happened since his return from work, tries to find solace and introspect his thought,moods and emotions..ony to realise, how badly he hurt his kushi!

Gosh..this very aspect of this gentle man makes me feel drool worthy!

Whose side will Arnav take..Will brother love win over Lovers Love or viceversa..How will ASR do his damage control would be intresting to watch! Right now..The Promo Makes Perfect Sense to me..Arav trying his best to woo her and Kushi at her best to go away!

Whatever it is, i want Kushi to standup on her feet and make him realise that she deserves Love and shes not his Punch Bag!

on a lighter note:

1.Whats with this pulling Arnav on to each side by two ladies..its like ek tarf Ghar waali tho ek taraf he bahar waali..Kahi eee Symbolism Naahi????

2.Whats happening with the pre-cap yaa? Is it too busy with Arnav on helping him on the strategy of damage control of his biwi!!!

3. Any pointers on why is the pool there? Whats the use..To assume its a swimming pool its 3ft depth and unfortunately dues to absence of kids it cant be a todler pool. It cant be used for washing clothes..Howver, kushi uses it smartly..

And worst, its so dirty and i doubt even if we can withstand the smell from it..stagnated waters!

Only one use of pool side is our lovers private place in their ever interrupted lives!!!

BS expressions of holding his own pain infront of his Di, Sanayas expressions all throughtout the episode were Quite Good! For a change, DB was good! her make-up was quite matching with her emotional turmoil.

Note to Cvs: Please dont make Kushi one more SP bahu..we do have Gopi bahu to do all that Rona Dhona! Please educate through Kushi on how admist of adversities, lady with her strong moral values, ethics and patience can make her life lovely!!!This indeed is much needed as most of my Indian young ladies are feeling difficult to cope!

PS: I tried analysing the episode than giving written updates. Hope it made sense. 😃

Edited by tejuvijay - 13 years ago

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iritz

@iritz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Since my darling Ruby isn't gonna write today, I thought I would reserve a spot for her.. As this brilliant masterpiece of hers deserves to be read !

Originally posted by: redwine1

A BROKEN STRING OF PEARLS

"Faith is the silver thread upon which the pearls of the graces are to be hung. Break that, and you have broken the string ' the pearls lie scattered on the ground." ~ Charles H. Spurgeon (Nineteenth Century English Preacher)

Today Dear Reader I want to tell you a story .. a story of a brother & his most beloved sister.. these are the couplets which they always recited to each other .. these couplets ' which are the reality of their lives

The Brothers Version

Toffee se meethi hai

Imli se khatti HAI

Khatti meethi hai teri kahani

Anjali di hai sabse sayani

The Sisters version

Papad ka Tukda hai

Jab dekho Ukhada hai

Deta hai apni Di ko Aasoon mote mote ..

Who hai mera .. mera CHotte

For the whole post... Click here...

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/iss-pyaar-ko-kya-naam-doon/3089777/a-broken-string-of-pearls

Thank you Ruby, for sharing your unique insights into the characters... 🤗

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As for me, I wasn't gonna write again today, reserved a spot just out of habit !😊 All I wanna say is, well done CVs... what a power pack episode once again !

Arnav, Khushi and Anjali... all three of them at a juncture where all three are right and I felt my heart cry for all three of them today !

Anjali... She is still in the shock and denial stage of her grief... she leaned on to the one person to bring her happiness back who has always been there for her. One who has always made sure she is happy... I don't understand why everyone has already turned her into a vamp !!??!!

Just stop, take a breath... put yourself in Anjali's shoes and think from her point of view once ! You'll know what I mean !

Khushi... Aww my poor darling,🤗 I felt oh so sorry for you today... once again you ventured to do something good, but the tides turned against you !!! If I were you, I would have packed my bags too !!!

Arnav... My heart went out for you today ! To see your most beloved person, your Di about to commit the biggest mistake of her life... and then her asking you to bring that one thing back, which you know is the worst thing for her... how... how will you ever be able to say no to her !!! You know the candy she is asking for is ultimately going to poison her, but then if she doesn't get the candy right now... she may want to kill herself ! You are in such a Catch 22 situation my love... and I feel so, so sorry for you... !🤗

ASR... The famous ASR anger is back and how !!! Once again you judged Khushi without listening to her side of the story... have you not learnt from your mistakes in the past ! You were so much in character today... I loved to hate you !!! I know you have realized your mistake immediately and you want to turn back and apologize to her... but baby, you got to realize sooner than later that she isn't your punching bag ! Now, C'mon... run fast back home... woo her, love her enough to make her stay back ! We don't wanna lose her now, do we???

❤️
PS: Gul Khan, Gautam Hegde... What a powerful episode ! 👏

Daljeet Bhanot, Sanaya Irani... and above all, Barun Sobti... take a bow !!! you all were stupendous today !!!👏

Edited by iritz - 13 years ago

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gkoolans

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

it was a wonderful Episode. i had been waiting for quite some time for Daljeet's performance and i got that today...she was wonderfully hysterical and the CVs have stayed true to her character...her break down, her makeup and her body language was beautiful...made everything quite believable as Anjali.

ASR proved to be short sighted in today's epi...he questioned the one person who got her life in danger to get him back from the goons...how can he? how can he after all that they both went through just a couple of days back.

how can he listen to what mami had to say...was the pressure of being the perfect bro so great that he actually forgot all the sacrifices that KKG had done for him and his family.

i NEED ASR's redemption. i want him to grovel!

i want him to really really hurt and be in pain!

i want him to regret...and regret so greatly that in future he never even thinks of so much as raising his eye brow at KKG!

he was cruel and unfair tonight.

Anjali very diplomatically asked ASR 'who is to blame'

she very conveniently demanded ASR to correct things that have gone wrong...only he can do it...says Anjali...great sister...she without saying anything said so much against KKG and ASR proved to be such a 'kano ka kaccha' that he actually blamed KKG.

mY heart goes out to KKG.

ASR's declaration about the biggest mistake of his life is having KKG in his life proves that todate...even after his declaration of love for KKG he is hating this feeling of being dependent and lost without KKG. he, like his sister, is in denial. he is someone who shall not let go so easily...his past demons shall always be there to haunt him and lash out at KKG...until those demons are put to rest it is going to be a rocky, love/hate relationship for these two. yes we lash out worst on those whom we love the most...but it is still young times for these two lovers...KKG has not yet said the words out loud...she has confessed her feelings in the telepathic communication that these two shared but like ASR she has not yet spilled out the words for ASR's ears... therefore the thread by which these two are bound is still thin, fragile...the pattern is frail but never the less is being carefully knotted and spun...and each knot makes a tighter bond... But when such situations arise then that pattern will keep breaking...becoming debilitated and weak.

anjali is hurting but she has to face her demons and come out strong. she might have had to face tragedy in her life but she had the comfort of loving family members and money as well...KKG lost her parents and has been always 'outsider' in the GH. how strong that girl is, is a marvel...

ok i agree that KKG should have listened to Nani and stayed back. considering the situation nani gave a wise advise to KKG. but KKG won't listen will she...she is too driven, too much a do gooder... and ofcourse, she didnt say anything that would have /should have triggered such a reaction from Anjali...i think Anjali set out an emotional blackmail scene and she got what she wanted as a reaction...ASR's blind loyalty as a bro...she asked him to choose and he did...she asked him silently between the lines to let KKG go and he started walking that path. the situation got amplified by mami's verbal diahorrea and we have a victimized KKG.

Anjali's words were carefully chosen and spurted. she has chosen to forget her husband's lies and treachery and has started to demand things be made right...the clock turned back, the balance of their family's happiness restored at the cost of bringing Shyam back. she has denied the reality and is now back to living in her bubble... she wants her fool's paradise at any cost. my fear is that ASR will want to give it to Anjali, her heart's desire...because his Khushi is KKG and ASR is happily willing in sacrificing his khushi for his di.

Self Respect

when we love we tend to let go of our egos and pride and be and become whatever the other person is happy with. not realizing that it is a burden to be someone you are not and sooner or later the weight of it starts to slow your progress in life as a person and as a human. carrying that weight around eventually tires us and finally renders us inert thereby sucking all life/energy out of us. and finally when you come face to face with your inner self (because eventually you have to face the truth and ask yourself what happened) you find that the facts that you knew about yourself, the person you knew you were is no more. you have changed, you perception is distorted...there is no regard for yourself in you heart or mind. there is no respect or integrity left to treasure in you as a person. we lose our selves in many ways

sometimes we become just a door mats and are being trampled over by anyone and every one.

other times we become liars who will live the make belief/fantasy at any cost. not thinking about the rights and wrongs, not letting our family members who love us reach us or help us

at times we end up making things conveniently for ourselves not acknowledging the real reason behind our actions and decision.

for various people the lies they are living are different with varied reasons but one thing is sure shot...they are lies. KKG, ASR Shyam and Anjali created their own fantasies, comfortably adjusting issues till things got out of hands. the bubble burst but the need and addiction of the fantasy spawning is so great that they have quickly started making another bubble around themselves...but now the walls are wearing thin, the fog is lifting, the illusion has been shattered...recreation of the fantasy shall be an evasive task...steps need to be taken, decision

KKG you better leave ASR

you better take control of the situation and put your foot down.

ur self respect is something that needs to be protected...if that gets lost then there shall be nothing more to fight for...

you need to assert urself...

awaiting your strength of character to be shown.

ASR u need to let the whole truth out...why you did what you did to KKG, why did you hide the truth for so long from the family members...you need to Apologize to KKG and yourself as well...because you have done wrong to you own person as well

Anjali ... i shall wait out for you...i quite like the character you are developing into...it is disconcerting and shocking and i am enjoying every bit of you

Edited by gkoolans - 13 years ago

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lalsunvid

@lalsunvid

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Perfect Family drama shown yesterday!! FAMILY DRAMA!!! For TRP it covered all and it touched upon all the segments.

The sister was perfect today. The decision to get rid of the baby : No respect for my husband who will respect my child. I don't want a cruel man's identity in me. Had once she witnessed a scene of her brother at gun point or her brother was nearly burnt down to death would she have a good memoir of her husband? All she holds is the good time she had spent. She wants only that happiness.Happiness!!!

KHUSHI : This SP bahu is always different.One who dares to give tiff to her husband,faces his rage and drives him mad like anything . We will see Khushi's retaliation today.

"The person who tries to keep everyone happy and always cares for everyone is the most lonely person"

Everytime your man heals you he breaks her more than that heal!! Just today morning he gave you a smile and now he ditched you again.

A piece of advice to Khushi " Sometimes people don't notice the things we do for them unless we stop doing it for them" . If I were Khushi I would have concluded here at this point. Because its more than enough now. The saturation level is reached for one's heart and soul to broken ...how many times once twice thrice...??? Can you count Khushi ? What have you not given him ??Stop giving...

But Khushi is not so...She is always a darling as Anjali is . But not a delicate darling like Anjali...strong very strong. Whenever she falls and raises she raises 10 times high!! I love that. You will raise very high because you are beaten up high.

That's the contrast nature in the women whom Mr.Arnav Singh Raizada loves.So what can he do now. Yesterday you gave such a pill to your wife for the sake of your sister. When you say "I love you" the connection is made to her heart. Honor it like you honored your love for your sister today.You said you have to "walk forward with me" ...but Khushi is always ahead of you always. She knows the right treatment to be given to you and you cannot withstand any of those.

Somehow I was reminded of Doodhs : "Class vs Heart " write up yesterday. Raizadas and Khushi. The whole family showed Khushi their class to her heart which was beaten up heavily by Shyam Manohar Jha for the past 15days. Her work was not honored. She brought back the man of the house and that man also not for a second he thought before he spoke anything. He will go back to her with a sorry...but the words can never never be taken back... So Khushi "Stop giving" and move ahead ;a little away from Shantivan for sometime.

Lets wait for how mighty ASR makes up to his wife tomorrow. He will get down from the car and break down in the road when he knows about the effect of video footage.

Have a nice day all of you!!

Edited by lalsunvid - 13 years ago

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Lizzy2012

@Lizzy2012

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

What do say about yesterday's episode.. Shall I say it denoted the insecurity of three orphans .. The emotional wrench they are put through.. Shall I say the weaker one protected because the weaker one requires that kind of support.. But that taking taking a toll on the stronger ones.. A beautiful episode from the story POV.. But as a woman felt shattered inside

To be updated

Edited by Lizzy2012 - 13 years ago

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Arhimaniac

@Arhimaniac

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Not in the mood for a long post today...but will share what i shared on the earlier thread...

Anjali...passive emotional blackmail ( was explained nicely in the article yesterday i shared in my post) at play...by making ASR feel guilty...indirectly blaming Khushi...
She become un-intentionally grey...all because she is running after her past...she wants it back uncaring of the fact that it might spoil her own and her brothers future...she starts calling him chote...reversed back from Arnav...she is giving him love again...because she knows that her brother will do anything for her...

ASR as usual instigated by mami in anger said the wrong words...to the wrong person...later realizes his folly...but alas too late...they have done the damage!!!

KKG...already feeling guilty...already going through hell...is now accused by the man she loves to be at fault for everything...more than ego her conscience will not let her live in the house now,,...for her she is the cause of Di's pain...hence the sacrificial goat she is she will stay away from ASR...pretending she doesn't want him in her life...she will plan to leave the house...Payal might follow saying it was equally her fault...you never know...

Arnav's redemption full on...road per to aagaya...road to temple bhi ho hi jaye ga

Very strong pointer mere hisaab se...Lucknow footage leak will be out...as ASR mentioned the beginnings himself today

Shyam will be given a chance at redemption, Anjali will be all forgiving and he will act accordingly to come back in the house...this is Shyam's third redemption chance which he will screw up...

The use of chote..is the pointer today...see she realized only ASR can bring shyam back but as long as khushi is there yeh nahin hosakta...so she has grabbed him back by the love...she knows us ka bhai us ke pyar main pagal hai...hence chote...automatically apni team main le liya...mohabbat do and qurbani lo...

main apni di ke liye apni khushi bhi kurban kerdoon ga...
main tumhian di ki nanhi khushi ki rukawat nahin banne doon ga

koi pagal hi hoga jo Mrs. ASr ka rutba chor ker jaye ga

DM her kaam aap ka haath pakar karati hain aur yeh baat aap ko jab pata lage ki tab hum nahin honge...

All the above dialogs soon coming into play ...

IPK and ASR both back with a bang...it rocking now!!!

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S003

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

So I am a little shaken up after watching today's episode...

Anjali shocked me. She did.

The whole exchange in the hospital room was nothing like I could have imagined. Those reactions could not be about the situation that Anjali is in now, no those lines are about the experience she had, and like a good mother she doesn't want to subject her child to the pain she was forced to go through. It was not the current situation, but the fact that this situation could possibly be history repeating itself, that is what has thrown her into this terrible place. She survived the last time but she isn't strong enough to do it again. SHE KNOWS THAT!!! Also whatever happened to her, she feels like she is all alone at the end of the day without even her brother protecting her. Which SHOCKED ME EVEN more. This has to do with her past I'm sure, but also the fact the whatever happened only reenforced her self image because at the end of the day she is disabled.

After years she healed with a lot of care from her brother, and love from her husband. She thought she was blessed, her past was firmly in her past. She went around telling her brother he should forget about the past and moved forward. The problem here is that if we don't face our problems they circle around and stand before us again. And this deja vu is what got Anjali into such a state. Not the fact that she is facing these problems, but the fact that she has to do it ALONE!!!

The members of RM gather around her... They say you are only as strong as your weakest link...

The other part of the episode where she is in her room begging for her brother to make things the way they were really got me. Here she was pleading almost like someone pleads to bring back the dead. She herself knows that the way things were are never going to be that way again. Too much has passed, she had to ask, everybody would, if he could make things the way they were, but the helplessness on his face the final straw she breaks down completely.

ANJALI IS BY FAR THE MOST INTRIGUING CHARACTER ON TV.

So initially, I thought that Anjali was like any typical bahu, you know the one who believes God will lead the way, as opposed to Khushi who is of the mentality God helps those who help themselves. But with Anjali, behind the pooja ki thali, or lurking just beyond the surface is something so distrubing that I'm all shaken up. Yes I always knew that the sure number of pooja's implied that she is hidding behind a mirage but today we were given a glimspe what what she has had to go through in the past.

Gul had mentioned in an interview that Anjali is the one who is more tainted, and today we saw the first shades of that. OMG I can't wait for more. ( couldn't help thinking this is the PH way at poking fun at all those pooja loving bahu's in the Indian television world😉)

Ironically, I miss the old Anjali especially when Arnav is flirting with Khushi, she is the only one who he would permit to tease him mercilessly. I would have loved to see that. Also, Anjali would have been so happy to see him allow his wife the rights he thought he would only give his Di. The PH robbed us of that as well. But I trust you guys I'm loving this track.

I'm not one to predict the future tracks or anything, but today I saw that we are going to get more glimpses of Arnav and Anjali's dark past and Arnav's trying to woo Khushi.

Another very important thing that has started to really bug me. KHUSHI'S IMMATURITY!!!! Yes she is as concerned for Di as he is, but wasn't she the one who realized just how devestated Anjali would be if she told the truth to her and then hide it, now she waltzes in and say forget about your husband and think about your child. THIS IS HER CHARACTER I get that but someone needs to sit her down and explain, not everyone reacts the sameway. And when she is told to do something she better adhere.

So here is the thing, yes Khushi is an orphan, yes she has issues about it, but she also is a spoilt kid, her dad has ensured that. Which girl would take things in her own hands and do what she has done time and again. She is spoilt yes, however she is not a brat... her mother has tried time and again to explain to her everything doesn't happen the way she thinks they should in her head, she needs someone to explain to her why she needs to back off and I would love if that person is Payal...

I'm not going to touch Arnav today, because I read Redwine1's post and clapped after, then I realized I was at work and my colleagues were looking at me like I was nuts. I Highly, highly recommend it.

There is just one thing I will mention, logic was never ASR strong hold when he is angry, that is Akash and even NK forte but not ASR. What I did love was the fact that he remembered that he loved her first, then what she had done for him and turned around.

Finally,

Cautionary notes to the PH and CV's

1) I don't like dissappearing characters, especially one that has grown on me and how. I'm talking about NK, actually and the real mamaji. I'd like them both back in this dire situation.

2) You have started very interesting side tracks Akash and Payal, Mami and Payal ( because Mami is the only one who can help Payal get a spine when it comes to Akash) and Mami and Nani. Please give us some consistency. I know, I know you have to satisfy so many people. I understand that you cannot please all, but here is what I want to say, tell us your authentic story, minus all the wants from the channel and outside pressures, because NO ONE TELLS A STORY LIKE YOU GUYS!!!!

And now for the last most important part,

I hope you guys are out there celebrating the triumphant return to the top 5!!! I know all the other shows must be shaking in their spots.😉. Well done guys, I was beyond happy when I read the post. Now lets take this mother to the top.

That was my two cents

P.S. I don't normally stick around, so if you do comment on my post ( which I would greatly appreciate) kindly PM me so I can properly appreciate the same.

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Sumana

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Hello Reduxians 🤗🤗🤗🤗...

How wonderful it was to see Satya's detailed post yesterday after a long gap... 🥳👍🏼

I'll too want everything to be " sabkuchh pehele jaisa theek "...just like Anjie cry baby said today...I mean Redux to be like it used to be earlier...Doods' green and red post right after Satya's ...😍 😍 😍

There are many brilliant writers here, but its not the same without both of you my dears ...it feels like ..."kuchh kami hai "...🤔🤔 🤔

In today's episode the best shot was when Arnav carries Anjali into her room and their reflection is seen on the lifesize photo of Shyam-Anjali...in one she was brimming with happiness and full of life ...and the other she is disgusted with life and drowning in sorrow...beautiful direction of Photography ...👏 👏👏

Khushi looked very beautiful...like an ethereal beauty...in the scene where she sits down by the pool her ivory cheeks streaked with tears...her blue dress, the blue waters of the pool, the blue lights reflecting from the gently rippling waters ... everything added ti make the scene an awesomely beautiful...😍😍

I wish they had cleaned up the pool before this scene was shot ...as certain unwanted things was quite evident on Starplus HD 👎🏼

There were lots of things not up to the mark / shocking in the 😲😲 ?? minor operation theater or ?? procedure room ...those not in the medical line may not be interested so won't go there ...🤔🤔

The episode ends with Arnav regretting his behaviour towards Khushi ...tomorrow he will be shown rushing back to HIS Khushi where he will see her packing her bags and in her tigress avtaar ( I hope) and Arnav like a raging lion ... as shown in the ME promo and SBS...

What follows next is being closely guarded by the creative team ...Thank you for that...I love surprises especially when I know it is going to be a very pleasant one ...😍😍😍

Like Satya said day before yesterday...I'm living in a happy bubble 😍😍 😍... Kya karoon yaar 😃 my bubble is growing larger and happier every day ...and even reflecting rainbow colors with Mishti's spoilers about Khushi's Birthday celebrations and upcoming Arhi wedding in the ME 😍😍 😍😍

I hope on her B'day he gifts her " Ek chutki sindoor" and a diamond studded Mangalsutra ...and complete all the pheras and unite as man and wife forever...❤️ 😍😍❤️

Pictures are not mine ..credits go to the original up-loaders

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chitmanas

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Emotional Triangle

The basic triangle: everything that occurs in my life occurs within emotional triangles: consisting of myself, another person and a third person or issue common to us both. Figuratively and literally, I exist in thousands of interlocking triangles, where everything is related to everything else and change in one relationship will ultimately have an impact on all other relationships in my life, perhaps a small impact, perhaps a massive one.

Center for Community and personal growth

Here we have ASR caught up in an emotional triangle with the two most important people in his life, his sister and wife. The relationship between him and Khushi has been mended and their bond has been strengthened. Today, Di, by calling him Chote, re-established her relationship with him once again. So, the problem obviously lies between the two women in his life and he's caught in-between.

Anjali - When Arnav comes to her rescue, she's in a trance like state wanting nothing but to get rid of the baby. Her reasons being nobody cares for her, there's no one to support her and will they truly care for the baby at all when they hate the baby's father? She does not want to bring the baby into this world. Arnav reassures her that he cares a lot.

When Arnav takes her back home and puts her to bed for resting, her stance changes. She asks for Arnav's help in putting back things the way they were before and he's the only one who can do it. Clearly, she's unwilling to come out of her dream world, wants her husband back, and to be happy in the same world as before where nothing changed. Ok, agreed, she's desperate for normalcy in her life. But, here her jealousy over Khushi takes over and she also plants a doubt in Arnav's mind saying 'pata nahin kiss ki wajah sey yeh sab ho raha hain.' Is this her desperate attempt to stop her world from crashing completely and for that she wants Khushi out of their lives? Also, did she really mean the things that she said about the baby or was she just trying emotional blackmail?

Anjali is perhaps experiencing a little bit of all emotions mentioned above. She is desperate to bring back her original world and will use any means at her disposal to do so. Right now she has no thoughts of even removing the blindfold to see the truth. She's using Arnav as her emotional crutch.

Arnav - He's the brother and husband. Really wants his Di to be happy. Today his Di begged him to help her and put things to right and to bring back her husband. How can he ever make such a promise? He's seen the evil side of shyam and has also seen how broken his sister is without her husband. What's the right choice here? He really wants to bring happiness in his sister's life, but can he ever bring Shyam back? NO.

He comes to know that Khushi, despite being asked by nani not to see his sister, did do so and that's what triggered Anjali's decision to get rid of her baby. He is completely justified in his anger at Khushi. However, anger always makes you forget everything; typical of ASR's behavior. His helplessness at being unable to help Di and also Khushi's behavior drive him to utter very hurtful words and his words tear her apart holding her responsible for everything. Of course, it's always the loved ones who are the brunt of our anger.

While driving away to think about what happened, Arnav calms down and remembers what his wife actually did for him and the extent to which she went just for his sake and how she almost got killed. He realizes his mistake and turns back. Will his wife listen to his apology and stay with him or will she walk out?

Khushi - Yes, she knows she's responsible in many ways for what happened. However, when Arnav says that without her, Shyam would not have strayed and his Di would have been happy and how he made the biggest mistake of his life and wished he had never met her'.. how it would have pierced her heart. All her sacrifices didn't count and nothing mattered to her husband except the happiness of his Di. But, little does she realize that her husband is coming back to her and it is love for her that's pulling him back, he realizes his mistakes and will never be able to live without her. Will she forgive him though? We all hope she gives him a very hard time.

Bahut Mazaa Aaya

I liked today's episode and also Barun's acting in several scenes. Daljeet was good in her emotional-trance like state at the hospital.

Edited by chitmanas - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Toffee se meetthi hai, imli se Khatthi hai

Khatthi-meetthi hai tumhari kahaani

Anjali Di hai sabse sayaani

But is she?

Poor Anjali! She still thinks her Chotte did what he did in a fit of his trademark uncontrollable rage.

She cannot understand what is happening:

"yeh sab kya ho gaya Chotte? Kal tak toh sab theek tha. Toh phir achanak yeh sab... Humein kya ho gaya? Hum dono ko kya ho gaya?

She still recognizes the one in power. It is and always was her little brother, Mr. Arnav Singh Raizada. So she begs him to set things right; as they were before.

"Chotte, tum hamara ek kaam karoge? Sab kuch pehle jaise theek kar do na... "

She is not able to accept that things were never right before. She begs him to bring back her husband. She knows her brother can do anything. Nothing is impossible for her Chotte! She does not understand whose fault it is...

"Pata nahi, kiski wajah se ye sab ho raha hai! Pata nahi, kiski buri nazar lag gayi!"

She wants laughter and happiness back.

Papad ka tukda hai, Jab dekho ukhda hai

Deta hai apni Di ko Ansoo mote mote

Woh hai gussewala, humara Chhotte

Poor Chotte! How can he possibly explain to his beloved Di, that he has been controlling that very tempestuous rage against her looser of a husband for the past 4 odd months.

Anger and frustration breaks out yet again and poor Khushi bears the brunt of his fury. He hurts his wife once more. He says unforgivable things to her.

Again when he realizes what he has said, he regrets it yet again.

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