Originally posted by: sonshine
Anjali won't melt
Anjali won't sympathise.Anjali won't feel for her ChotteAnjali is selfish and she will see what she wants to see<font size="3" face="Calibri">I am not saying she is negative. But look back. When had she actively given Arnav anything?</font>
<font size="3"><font face="Calibri">He thinks she is the centre of his existence. He loved his mother and lost her in a cruel way. For young Arnav to survive, he needed something to hold on to that reminded him of his mother. Who better than Anjali? Some sort of a transference.</font></font>
<font size="3"><font face="Calibri">She was the one who gained from the bond. Her brother was actually there for her- protection, care, support everything.</font></font>
<font size="3" face="Calibri">For Anjali it was always appearances…</font>
<font size="3" face="Calibri">Mother figure to Chotte</font>
<font size="3" face="Calibri">Good daughter</font>
<font size="3" face="Calibri">Good wife</font>
<font size="3" face="Calibri">Good and pious person</font>
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<font size="3" face="Calibri">Take her marriage for instance. She was in love with the idea of a perfect world. Her husband better toe the line or he will feel her displeasure. She kept him happy with toys so that he will remain with her.</font>
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<font size="3" face="Calibri">Take her devotion to DM. it is ritualistic and rigid. There is no sincere communion with the Holy Mother.</font>
<font size="3" face="Calibri">Now compare her with Khushi. Khushi never expected anything in return for her gestures. Not from anyone. Not even from her husband. She simply gave.</font>
<font size="3" face="Calibri">Look at Khushi's bhakti for her DM. she talks to Her. She is not bothered as much about the correct rituals as she is about the correct intent.</font>
Appu well said girl..my thoughts on ani same too.. Muah to u. I thought Shanthi and myself wee the I****. who thought this way