COMPLETE TRUTH is the ONLY attack against MU EDTD. - Page 6

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Posted: 13 years ago
#51
Bang on post Tia! I'm glad a few bring out these valid points out in the open and make us open our eyes and not close it. 😊

Half truths have always been dangerous... Even i have been waiting post the Shyam fiasco for the proper clearance of the accusation thrown at Khushi by Shyam... And also for Arnav to accept his mistakes in front of Khushi... Basically, i want him to have a good talk with her... Yes, he has been through a lot of trauma after getting kidnapped and having to face more after getting back home but that shouldn't stop you from apologizing right... I mean its only natural that when you realize a mistake an apology happens naturally... And immediately..

And as for the being the husband part, it is what one would expect from a husband too...To hug and be told that all will be well... They are in that wife-husband mode only when they are away from each other... But in real? Which makes it clear that they still have a long way to go as a husband and wife... A long way!

Much as we all love telepathy, words spoken make a much greater difference in life... Else things can always be misunderstood... This is the truth and i have experienced it myself.

Khushi being the forgiving kind easily does just that - FORGIVE.. . And offers her support.. .That's her nature... But, in not coming clean about everything Arnav put Khushi down in front of the family members... As long as the complete truth isn't out Khushi will be misunderstood and so will Payal.

Much as we all are dying to see the flirty Arnav and his romancing act, this partially told truth and him not having acknowledged his mistake in front of Khushi leaves a bad taste in the mouth.. Yes, you can always say sorry with dignity.. Very very true.. Hence, as seen in the MAHA Episode Khushi might not want to continue being the wife anymore as the contract marriage ends. ( She is doing it only for Anjali-Arnav peace which i think is true )

Much as i relish the New Promo and its hotness by watching it a n number of times these valid points stated above by you have left me unsettled as well..

End of the day we might say oh its the cv's way of unearthing the truth or oh its just a show, its fiction... But here, it is we the real people who are watching this show... So it better make a difference to our lives.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#52
I completely agree with you - you voiced all my thoughts. Thank you

As for this abortion thing - that's absolutely bang on target. This is all staged for emotional blackmail...either to make Khushi leave RM forever or to bring Shyam back to RM!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#53
Very well written dear and i totally agree with u ! I really dont know why women are always set up to take the blame ! That scenario has been prevalent since a long time and it still remains ! Moreover i still dont understand why ASR was so silent when Shyam was defaming Khushi so much ! It was really horrible when he tried to turn the tables on Khushi and still ASR didnt utter a word ! Then finally when she asks him to look into her eyes so that he could understand that she was telling the truth,after that and also after more of Shyam's vile words he goes and slaps him and says that he has harmed the two most important women in his life ! But his silence during the previous moments wasnt justified ! If NK who is just a friend could stand by Khushi and support her so much and understand her too,why cant he?
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Posted: 13 years ago
#54
thanks tia for the lovely post..I usually see only posts where ASR is hot but I completely agree with you though I love Arshi, I really need RMians to understand to what level Kushi sacrificed herself and the hurt she has gone through and all those will only come up when ASR speaks up everything. Till then for whatever happens around Kushi will be blamed. I felt ASR has apologized indirectly to Kushi when he was talking to Nani but it is not enough if we think about what all she went through and is still suffering which is the sad part. Baby sitting Anjali doesn't work for me as that will push her more into loneliness, I didn't mind Kushi's words to her yesterday. Truth hurts but it always good to face it soon rather than hide behind it. Though I feel sad for another separation I think it would be better that Kushi leave RM and all RMians including ASR understand the way they have treated her and the sacrifices she has made, especially Anjali..I wish the CV's won't let Kushi get hurt continuously and really take a step for that.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bidz

I completely agree with you. He just told the bare minimum required to his nani. He spoke enough to let her know that Khushi has been Shyam's victim, but not enough for her to know that he has hurt her as well. Of course, a point here can be made in his defense that whatever happens between the two of them is kept between them only, but at certain times, especially when living in a joint family, certain truths need to be revealed for people to live in harmony. By not revealin gthe truth of their marriage to her, he inadvertently made Khushi the scapegoat again. However, I do see a ray of hope. I think if the family blames Khushi and Arnav holds her responsible for his di's rash reaction, it will make Khushi reach her breaking point. She can take a lot, but when she snaps, she REALLY snaps. She is going to unleash her pent up emotions very soon and Arnav is going to get the brunt of it. The ME promo hints on that at least...

Arnav has taken Khushi for granted like he always has. In this case, he thinks that Khushi has forgiven him and that gives him the right to not reveal about the marriage itself. I would want him to reveal about his marriage to the whole family not just Nani and hopefully the ME is building up to that. But the other aspect to all of this is that he believes now that Khushi will stay with him and think that Khushi is not thinking about the 6-month contract marriage only to be surpised in the ME.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#56
I agree!! ALL these "Half Truths" are leaving the door open for the rest od the Raizada's to MU Khushi!
Anjali is still doing "Shyam Pooja" and not listening to anyone! NON of the Raizada's (Including Payal) knows the truth RE the "6 month marriage", or the fact that Khushi was blackmailed into marraige! The ONLY person who knows about the blackmail in Snake! (How fun!)!! It is ironic that only Snake knows the sacrifice that Khushi made for both the Raizada's and the Gupta's! (At least the Gupta's are HER family, and have shown despite their initial anger, that they love Khushi, and is there for her!).
I think that Khushi and Payal will continue to be taunted and Khushi will get fed up! Why on earth SHOULD she put up with all this? The reason they married no longer exists! (which is Shyam)!! Therefore, IF Arnav is not going to show her that SHE is as important as his sister to him! (PROVE it once and for all, by apologizing to her, and coming clean to the Raizadas)... then Khushi should just leave at the end of the 6 months!
Why should she stay where she is getting neither trust nor respect??
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Posted: 13 years ago
#57
I agree with you.

But at some point, I feel Arnav is right.

Khushi knew the whole truth from the beginning and she knew all this would happen one day or the other.
But what about Anjali..? She went through so many shocking news one after the other in a row.

First Shyam's Accident story.
Then Arnav's kidnapping.
Then Khushi's " Shyam is behind all this".
Uske baad Payal's "ShyamJi nein Khushi se jhoot bolke magni ki thi" .
Then, Arnav's do do Thappad.
And at the end, Shyam ko ghar se bhi nikaal diya gaya.

I won't say Khushi's pain is nothing compared to Anjali's. But still, Anjali was the one who needed support. In addition to all this, she is PREGNANT. And Pregnancy is the time when a woman needs love,care,affection.

And hence, what Arnav did is Justified up to an extent.

Anyway, Good post.
lOve,
Anamika.
😊


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Perfectly pointed Tia.O. Well done and correct analysis.

I have already predicted in some other thread that Shyam thing is only going to affect Khushi and Payal and it will be difficult for them to stay at Raizada Mansion because both of them not proved innocent.

Only audience knows the truth and ASR knows up to some extent. But due to lack of proper proofs and support KKG and Payal are to blamed for the condition of Anjali and both Gupta sisters are in trouble now.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#59
just a doubt as someone pointed out in this thread
if arnav revealed to nani regarding the 6 month contract wouldnt nani ask khushi to leave then itself rather waiting for the 6 months to get over

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you all for sharing your honest opinion with me.

I'd like to answer a few points that was raised here.

1. Khushi & Arnav does not have a normal relationship of husband and wife so he need not hug or comfort her like a normal husband.

Ans. Agreed. But Arnav did so at the cliff, at the hut, at the kidnapper's den. So shall I assume here that all those scenes were adrenaline rush and gratitude for saving his life or shall I assume that now that he is home safe and sound, he need not bother with Khushi's feelings anymore?

2. Arnav is trying to be there for Khushi, but his Di is his mother.

Ans. I never said that his Di is not his mother. But why is a wife's position less than a mother? A woman leaves her family behind to be with a man. She connects her dreams, her hopes, her body, heart and soul with that man. She puts that man above everyone else in her life. Ask any woman whom would you choose your husband or rest of the world? She will choose her husband (Just like Anjali is choosing Shyam as she is yet unaware of the complete truth). Why can't a man make the same commitment?
Why can't a man make a priority list where his wife is on top?
Again, I'm repeating my question, why women expect and are perfectly fine to come after her husband's family every time?
Ask any man, is it acceptable to you, if your wife always put her own family's needs above your own?
100% men will say no. I want to come first and foremost on my wife's priority list.
Men know what they want from life and demand it and women settle for whatever they get.
That is why, men gets advantages in every corner of society and women just sigh and blame it on fate.

But here's a lesson my mother taught me (who by the way is a divorced woman, raised a girl child single handedly in a conservative society, sent her to Canada to study and made her own life a success story worth telling).

She said, you are a woman. Rejoice of the fact. But never think that things will get handed to you on a silver platter. Nothing in this world is free.

You want love? Go get it.
You want respect? Demand it.
You want to maintain your dignity and self-respect? Don't settle for less.

Because when you think that I should be content with what I got because this is my lot, then that's it. You are getting nothing more. You now have to settle for exactly that. Now you will have to resign to your fate.

You want something more out of your life, either work hard for it or make another one.

3. Arnav and Anjali has childhood bond. So his concern is justifiable.

Ans. Agreed. But hiding the truth from her is not justifiable. They went through a lot since childhood. So they should have such a strong bond that they should be able to share anything without worrying about the other's reaction. If you can't tell the truth to someone whom you consider the most important person in your life, then whom can you tell?

I mean, you threw her husband out without an explanation. And you expect her to forgive you after that? Excuse me? Did Shyam inject his selective thinking into you before he left? Just like he used to think that Khushi loved him, you think that Anjali will trust or understand you without an explanation?

Do you think she is Khushi who is so crazily in love with you that she does not require explanation before obeying your orders?

4. Anjali went through a lot.

Ans. Agreed. I have said earlier that I don't blame her. She is operating under minimal information. But how is this half truth and partial lies helping her? Put yourself in her shoes.

  • I'm pregnant.

  • My husband was accused of being a cheater, a lier, a kidnapper and he attempted murder on my own brother. But nothing was proven.

  • My brother was kidnapped. No one knew it except his wife, mami and NK. But he did not see his kidnapper.

  • His wife is the object of lust for my husband and apparently she made my husband sign divorce papers.

  • My brother slaps my husband and throws him out, but he never gave me an explanation. Did he do it because his wife said so? The accusations against my husband has not been proven yet.

  • The only way I can reach the truth if I go to the doctor and ask for abortion. She will call my husband and I can ask him what's going on. Since my brother is not opening his mouth, I will have to believe whatever my husband tells me.

I don't think I need to explain the consequences of hiding the truth from Anjali after this...

But can we blame her for taking that desperate measure? No. Khushi took deperate measure for her husband. Anjali is a woman too.

So if further MU happens, then who is responsible for it? Anjali? No...

She will trust her Chotey. But her chotey needs to treat her like a grown woman and tell her the complete truth. Otherwise, she will believe Shyam and it won't be her fault...

4. If Arnav revealed the truth of his marriage to Nani, she will make Khushi leave RM...

Ans. As far as I know, Arnav is still her husband. So unless he lets her go, how can his family make Khushi leave? No law ever allow anyone to break a marriage unless the husband and wife in question want it themselves. Until now, everything in RM used to happen with his permission (even puja or celebrations). Did he lose his manhood when he was kidnapped?
If Nani insists, here's a simple solution. Guess what Nani, my money runs the household. You are trying to throw out my wife? Fine. How about we both leave and you figure out how to earn a living?

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