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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tiya229

I dont get the point of this post. I think this forum is still a place to make all sorts of threads, following the IF COC, and COC doesnt state that all posts have to be positive or follow herd mentality.

there is balance of posts from people who want to drool, analyse and make fun posts. The show and the forum has evolved to a point where everyone has made their niche ( myself included)

Also, for drooling, and sighing, there is the Appreciation thread, fan club and what-have-you.


there is always the report button to hit, if you dont like any particular thread.

instead of making these posts, you could just try to get along better with everyone, with your head held high!


Well you are very much entitled to your opinion. 😊 But isn't it surprising that after thirteen pages of comments over a hundred replies, I come across ONE post where someone disagree with me?

Anyways, I welcome all kinds of POVs.

All the people who replied to me in all these pages agree with me...so yes, I do get along with most if not everyone and I surely have my head held high. 😳
Edited by incandescent - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
i agree! its just i am too tired to say anything more and also you have said it all.. basically i have taken a break from forum! so ya! anyways i love the post and much needed post Fari! :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
👍🏼 I see the post in a good light. I do not make posts much, but i can understand not being understood. We all love Arhi/Sarun at the end of the day..
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: goguma

i am curious...
(forgive this newbie for being ignorant too)


barun and sanaya each has their own thread right?
why cant we have all things abt barun to be in his thread, and
all things sanaya, go to hers.

and all things connecting to IPK, as per Sarun or Arhi, would go to its own
thread too.


call me stupid, but i really am curious..


as a sarun/arhi fan, i want to read more abt them, w/out having to see posts
comparing barun/sanaya or sarun/monaya


They do have their own threads. You are surely justified in asking this question but the ironically no one would even think about this sometime back. 😳 IPKKND is probably the only section of India Forums where this question has been asked.

Here's the thing. BS and SI do have their own threads. But how would you feel if all the praises for BS and SI were restricted to their AT's only ? The forum would be full of epi discussions and no praise for the leads who make Arhi.

How would that be?
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: incandescent



<font color="#0099ff">Hi Jameelah,</font>

<font color="#0099ff">I have been a silent reader on IF for the last few years but I only decided to make an account after IPK started because I immensely love the show and the leads. But I am bit surprised that you think it is difficult to feel welcomed. Because there is one thing I have noticed over the years, that IF is generally a warm, friendly place.</font>

<font color="#0099ff">But there are some negative sides too. After a show runs for sometime, the forum tends to get divided and when there are multiple sets of leads in a show it's gets worse due to the different fan groups. Other forums were much worse than IPKKND forum. When I joined IPK forum it was easier to get noticed by others because there were less number of people and if you made a post, it used to remain in the first few pages for atleast half the day. But the now forum is much bigger. In fact IPKKND forum is one of the biggest (If not the BIGGEST) forums I have seen on IF. So posts are pushed back after a few hours and sometimes within minutes. With such a huge number of people, nowadays it is hard to know and interact with all.</font>

<font color="#0099ff">The forum is going through a rough phase at the moment and I think you have noticed that there are lot of people who make new IDs to bash on instigate ( sometimes they are IPK fans not IPK fans but fans of other shows ). Some times it is hard to differentiate who is a fan and who is not especially when you don't know the person.</font>

<font color="#0099ff">As for the bashing posts, it is best to ignore but nowadays it is difficult for most of us to do that because the forum is flooded with negative posts and that's why many of us are upset.</font>

<font color="#0099ff">I am really sorry that you are finding it hard to feel welcomed. But please don't feel disheartened, IF is wonderful place and I am sure you will meet many like minded people here and make great friends. Once you get know the people here, I am sure you will not regret it.</font>

<font color="#0099ff">Please keep commenting and interacting with other's. I am sure everyone will welcome you with open arms.</font>

<font color="#0099ff">I make posts every few days, if you like them please comment in my posts as well. I would love to know your thoughts.</font>

<font color="#0099ff">cheers.</font>
<font color="#0099ff">Fari,</font>



Hey there,

I've come across soo many bashing posts that its quite difficult to imagine the good old days. 😛 I know what you are talking abt, people making new ID's to bash SaRun and the show.. thats just a whole new level of low... One thing goes wrong and there are about a 100 posts saying the same thing in different ways.. It is indeed getting a bit messy around here.

I understand it is indeed difficult to interact with all.
Thank you for making me feel comfortable. :) I really dont regret a minute on IF, there are so many great posts by you and others,there is so much of talent out here.
I'll be looking forward to your posts.
Just be the person you are and continue making such wonderful posts. It is quite necessary at this point of time.
I'll be seeing you around :)



Please excuse the quoting, something has terribly gone wrong. Yikes!!
Edited by Jameelah52 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
hats off fari for such a brilliant post 👏,brought tears in my eyes.
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Posted: 13 years ago
hey dear(sry dnt kno ur name)...thx a ton for making this post...its actually quite sad to see dat the atmosphere of the forum is gtng spoiled...everyday some or the other post comes up dat results in some kind of fight...healthy discussion &criticism is always welcome...but comparing the leads,bringing in thr personal lives,debating over thr actions does nothing but converts the forum into a battlefield...I agree wid u ...the forum was quite a peaceful one few months back...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: incandescent

Here's the thing. BS and SI do have their own threads. But how would you feel if all the praises for BS and SI were restricted to their AT's only ? The forum would be full of epi discussions and no praise for the leads who make Arhi.

How would that be?




I dont understand at all.

so you want the forum to go back to its "hey days" when there were discussions on the show

plus, you want upteen posts drooling and sighing over the leads???


We still have both of those. We do the posts, that are purely for discussion and some that are talking about how good the chemistry is...

Again, this post, in my opinion, is a way round about way to say that you dont like the evolution of the forum to include members who have different opinions.

as the show outreaches more people, the forum is a direct reflection of that.

Sorry that doesnt suit your tastes. but hey, try to make more discussion posts ( instead of this )
and others will join!


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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: IshqSufiyana

I'm just fed up with all these damn comparisons topics lately. If you want to talk and show your love to Barun and Sanaya please go in there AT! Instead of starting a topic which only creates nothing more but a big fight.

I love both Sanaya and Barun but there fans are just making it too difficult for me to love them.


People talked about Barun and Sanaya at their ATs and outside too. It never created any trouble before. But things have changed now. That's just sad.


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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tiya229




I dont understand at all.

so you want the forum to go back to its "hey days" when there were discussions on the show

plus, you want upteen posts drooling and sighing over the leads???


We still have both of those. We do the posts, that are purely for discussion and some that are talking about how good the chemistry is...

Again, this post, in my opinion, is a way round about way to say that you dont like the evolution of the forum to include members who have different opinions.

as the show outreaches more people, the forum is a direct reflection of that.

Sorry that doesnt suit your tastes. but hey, try to make more discussion posts ( instead of this )
and others will join!


You clearly didn't get the point of my post. I have no issues with discussions about the show and the chemistry of the leads.

But I have serious objections towards post where the BS is called arrogant and selfish, SI is called mannerless and their real life partners are called ugly. Posts like these do not fall in the category of healthy discussions and it does not indicate the evolution of the forum.

If you have missed those posts then clearly you don't spend as much time in the forum as I and many others do. 😳

Since you are in favour of diverse views, umpteen posts about drooling also fall in the category of diverse views. If that doesn't suit your taste you can always ignore them. As for my post, it also falls in the category of diverse views.

Why are you specifically focusing on the drooling part? Did you not read the entire post I wrote? I mentioned a lot of other things.

I do make a lot of discussion post and many other do join. I appreciate your concern but you need not worry about that. 😊


Edited by incandescent - 13 years ago

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