IPKKND and the actors

So many things have annoyed me so much but honestly i am literally getting a headache from the amount of posts I've read criticising Baruns and Sanayas decisions and when Barun was apparently "leaving" the reassurance posts that some people made were even more annoying. Ive finally cracked and decided to list the major things that have really annoyed me. Theres more but I would be here all day if I listed them all.
I read stuff like

1) He wouldnt ever leave because it's his duty to stay for his fans

No just no!! It is NOT his duty to stay on the show for his fans. His fans are nameless faceless people who he doesn't even know. In fact we don't even know him not really. We judge him based on two minute daily clips and suddenly everyone thinks they know him. You don't know what he's really like when he goes home, when he's with his friends, when he's on set. So don't try and suddenly state that he's got some kind of fardh towards us because he doesn't. He is an individual who can and will make his own decisions. He doesn't need his fans to criticise or try and make that decision for him and he certainly doesn't need his fans permission to make decisions about his life.

If tomorrow he decided to quit IPKKND for his career or his wife then we won't get a say in that because it's his choice. The only people who can criticise his choice and advice him are his family and friends and none of us on here are either so why does it feel like people are trying to claim a right over him by stating their opinion and criticising everything he does and acting like he has a duty towards them.

2) He wouldn't betray us-

Like I said before he doesn't have a duty towards us. He never promised us anything. How would he be betraying us by leaving?? Betrayal Is Being disloyal and decieving and Barun isn't doing any of those things because you can only deceive people that you promised stuff to, that you know. I mean if he betrayed Sanaya or akshay then i'd understand but he can't betray his fans because betrayal is Like breaking someones trust and that bond you have between you and Barun doesn't even know us to betray us. Betrayal is like betraying your friend not someone you don't even know.

3) Barun knows we made him everything he is and hes grateful and he wouldn't leave-

No we did not make his everything he is and he does not owe us.

Barun is everything he is today down to his acting skills, down to talent, down to his portrayal of ASR, down to the producers, the CVs, his co stars.

His acting skills and the storyline and the chemistry between him and Sanaya made him where he is today not us.

Second it's like a stupid point scoring game where's he suddenly meant to be debted to us for the rest of his life. No, he Is actor. He is everything he is today because he is a great actor and everyone loves him as ASR. Not because we made him what he is today because we didn't.

4) He wouldn't leave because he loves his fans too much -

It's like your speaking for him. He never said he loves his fans more than his career and honestly who are any of us to speak for him especially since we only know him through a few minute clips. We don't know what he thinks, how he feels, whether he loves his fans whether he doesn't, whether he will leave IPKKND whether he won't.

We don't know him! It's his career, it's his life. You never know what if tomorrow he wants to settle down with his wife and have kids and decides to leave. You can criticise all you want but honestly he can do what he wants because its his life.

Like rima said many fans are hoping his film flops because they can't bare to see him succeed.

Let me just ask you, what kind of fans are you??

Trying to control him, hoping his film flops just so he won't leave IPKKND. Just so you can get assurance that your precious ASR won't ever leave. Well let me just ask you, what about Barun? Don't you care About baruns feelings, his career?

I'm sorry but the people that are saying Barun has an obligation to his fans are wrong. No he doesn't. At the end of the day, it's a job and if he takes his fans feelings into consideration then good for him but it is not his duty to put our feelings above his. If he wishes to do a movie or leave for that matter then it isn't his Duty to stay on the show for us. I'm not saying he's leaving I'm just saying if he does in the future then obviously we can hardly blame him because at the end of the day Its just a job. As a actor he is allowed to develop and move out of his comfort range and he doesnt need his fans permission to do that and as his fan I will support him and be happy for him.

Honestly the things that I've read on this forum since Baruns 12 day leave was announced has disgusted me.

I wouldn't be surprised if Barun gets fed up and does end up eventually leaving because of his so called "fans"

5) Im not going to watch IPKKND until Barun returns-

Well what about Khushi?? You claim to love both Arhi yet when asr leaves for few day/month suddenly it's like your not even bothered about IPKKND. I'm pretty sure if khushi left for a few days that you'd watch for Arnav yet you dont watch for Khushi. This shows me that you only care about the AR and not the HI despite your claims to love both.

Sanaya is an amazing actor and honestly even without Barun her scenes have been great. I loved them!!

6) Another thing that annoyed me is when people start moaning about the storyline yet when a few weeks ago you were moaning about the comedy and asking for drama and now that there giving you drama and obviously have some surprise up their sleeves, everyone Is moaning about how CVs are confusing us and how if the kidnap track isn't over in 10 days that there starting a petition. Go ahead start one But believe me I'm not signing because I'd rather wait and have amazing gut wrenching scenes that leave you in tears rather than rushed pointless fillers

I think The CVs all want to suprise us. I bet Arnavs entry will Be unexpected because I'm pretty sure Barun is filming some scenes for IPKKND so obviously he might be Back sooner than everyone thinks.

But everyone just needs to have patience and stop harassing other actors and producers for info e.g Abhas and Gul

One thing that came into my mind today is that this is an IPKKND thread, why are we talking about Sanaya or Baruns personal life and life choices. Shouldnt it be against the rules to talk about an actors personal life whilst on a drama forum which has nothing to do with their personal life. I didn't sign up to read a million posts about an actors PERSONAL life choices I signed up to have intelligent discussions about the show.

It's IPKKND forum is it not??

What does Baruns choices have to do with the show or us for that matter. I honestly think it should Be banned to talk about an actors personal life.

Or blast the CVs. You know the people who created the show that we all watch.

Honestly these days this forum has been so disgusting that it reminds me of the Justin Bieber fans.

I cringe everytime I think of one of the cast or the Cvs reading this forum. I also Am quite ashamed to be part of this forum because everyones either being overdramatic and picky or there turning into a bunch of bullies. Honestly it reminds me of bullies and that's the worst part about it because there meant to be so called fans.

Thankfully there is a bunch of people who aren't like this and I love them to bits but I'm pretty sure the people who do this know who they are.

You guys are making this forum a really unpleasant place to be and I honestly don't know How long ill be able to put up with this. There are some people who are the most critical and Moany people ever yet there's those few who actually use this forum for discussing the show and I actually look forward to there posts yet the other people bother me alot.

This is how I feel and I'm sorry if I sound rude but I felt like i needed to say it so I did.