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Posted: 13 years ago
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Pondering for words to start a write up. Sometimes it is easier, sometimes simpler, sometimes difficult, but rare is your mind and heart filled with emotion leaving no emptiness to fill by words.

Today was a day that made be proud to be born as women in our land where female feticide is also a way of life?

I did not want to to speak anything negative - today I am celebrating for a character though it is fictional still provided me the essence of women hood. It is no less than achievement of Mrs. Tessy Thomas - Project Director of Agni V Missile that was tested a few weeks back.

Wish every women profess dignity and decorum to stand for what she believes in - for upheld of truth and righteous.

When I decided what I have to write ' I derived to the point ' to touch those points that made an impact to me.

You do not have a character :

"One stumble is enough to deface the character of an honorable life" ' Today you deface her character.

What words to hear from your husband? It is equivalent to death by suffocation or if alive someone piercing your heart. Two words that previously shook me were "You can do anything for money" and "Yek Do Kaude Ki Aurat", today he reached the apex of the pyramid "You do no have a character".

Well Sir : you brought a lady for "live-in" in your conservative set-up (Lavanya). Does that refine your character.

Well, Mr. Raizada can you remember - this is the same person who shook your edifice, by resigning defying the money clause you had inserted in the contract. The girl who entered your premises was downright struggling middle class ' still she had the audacity to show your face in front of you and family. She had the character and dignity to tell you did not save guard her security. She categorically stated that you do not have the trait of an employer.

Kiss Meithi Se Bani Hai :

"I love agitation and investigation and glory in defending unpopular truth against popular error"

Yes, when ASR was standing on the threshold of GH having a "Jugalbandi" between his mind and heart. He tried to reconcile and co-relate her with the situations that led him to love her irrevocable. ASR was in a position to vividly reminiscent the "Holi incident" despite being in an inebriated state of mind. The nonchalant attitude of Khushi without showing an iota of remorse made him monologue "Kiss Meithi Se Bani Hai" ' "which soil are you made from.

It is not minutes before you where running to prevent her from a catastrophe (suicide). Why did she take that decision? Did you give it a thought? She thought that you never loved her ' and married her on the pretext of the bad signs in your horoscope. She wants to vindicate you from the clutches of even six-month contract so that you can marry the woman you loved (Lavanya). She even wanted you to relieve you from committing culpable homicide. Here is sacrifice ' she will go through the ordeal umpteen times for your sake and your family sake.

When you accused her of "having no character" ' what did you expect? You envisaged that she would contemplate suicide. Please do not? Even in her wildest dreams, she will not because she practices morals, self-esteem and dignity. She returned home because you educated her reason of wedding. She returned home because her dignity is more significant than your character assassination. She returned home with a staunch faith truth always triumphs.

Mr. Raizada, she comes from the same soil that your predecessors inherited. Why you did not connect the dots of ambivalence in her character?

Aur Meetha Ki Zaroorath Hai :

She spoke more than the required as pointed by her mother, she needed that and more important. The reason for her clandestine marriage came out ' she maintained that she is the accuser. She accused ASR for that intermittently ' today, little did know that she is the accused. Her husband tarnished her image, persona, dignity. To make things all right ' she has to practice even more patience and prove herself. That is the reason that more sweetness is necessary in her life.

Aap Mujhe Sharminda Kar Rahe Hain :

That moment was surreal between the corn mothers and Bitwa. He crossed the bridge just to handle the situation and respect the decision by his Di and Grandma. After living with them, he realized the significance of them in his life and reciprocated unconditional love and affection. With humility and dignity the two women apologized for the inconvenience in their residence. Their son-in-law abhors of the very thought of their apology.

He always knew that "love conquers the unconquered". He got more than he anticipated and he returns to his citadel not as son-in-law but as a son who has the responsibility of Gutpa family. The precincts are the distance not the hearts. He sealed their faith "Nandakishore" by saying "Aap Mujhe Sharminda Kar Rahe Hain because deep down people are significant not inanimate things. Peck of Buaji on his forehead and Garima Ji touching him cheeks ' moist my eyes ' I am sure all would have.

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Aur Shyam"

Khushi tried to deal with the situation by remembering everyone at home. Well, the prince is here to taunt her ' "Shyam". Your man is not easy ' he is not going to give up easily. To extract words from you he is ready to stoop to any level. That is the most demeaning insult and believe me I salute your patience and endurance

"itni Achi Parvarish Ka Bawjood"

From the stay in Gupta House, he learned something ' they may not have the wherewithal to lead a luxury life but they nurtured Khushi with lots of love, pampering, affection. They sure would have inculcated the morals of simple living and high thinking. It is a question not for her but also for him because "how a person could have an affair with a married man ' especially with Anjali's husband". He thought the family is oblivious of what Khushi has done, as even in the wildest dreams he had no clue that Khushi betrothal done with Shyam.

Therefore, accusing her from his perspective was right as how she can defame the foster family also.

"Mujhe Kehna Zaroori Nahi Samjha"

After playing all the cards in the deck ' he finally used one word ' really I was pained "Mujhe Kehna Zaroori Nahi Samjha". He tried all his means for some kind of confrontation. The silence she administered propelled him to use the remaining ace. He wanted her to come unscathed, to explain the situation, to take him in confidence ' but my friend. The time has elapsed for that.

"Aap Ka Soch ' aaap Ko Mubarak Ho"

Yes, Khushi did it again in a few days. After the fancy dress competition when they had a confrontation to know about her whereabouts, she did not tell him that she went to buy Anjali medicines. She respected the thought of Anjali not to disclose it to Arnav, as he will be worried. When ASR came to know the truth, he asked her "Tum Mujhe Bathati, Mujhe Keh Dethi". She said, "I have nothing to tell you".

Today she nailed the coffin ' "Congratulations for your thoughts". She found no reason to confront a man who can defame her without knowing her side of the story. When he can think she has no morals first place why to defend herself.

The person who made the impact and comeback was "Khushi Kumari Gupta". A big salute to you lady.

Edited by vimmiya - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#72
@Bush,
I heard it on youtube.. dialogues are exactly the same... it almost looks like be believed her.. he is even cupping her face and asking her to answer him.. Two options one is he doesn;t believe her second is he believes her but pretty mad that she held on to this big thing for such long...Upshakun wala sahin hai.. I think thats why she is stopping him
Edited by mommamia - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: mommamia

@Bush,

I heard it on youtube.. dialogues are exactly the same... it almost looks like be believed her.. he is even cupping her face and asking her to answer him.. Two options one is he doesn;t believe her second is he believes her but pretty mad that she held on to this big thing for such long...


and there is only one conclusion that I have reached...and that is that

I have gone mad...its 1:20 am...daughter has school tomorrow...and i am browsing the forum...😕

I will catch you in the morning sandy...my daugher loves your name btw...as its the name of the squirrel in spongebob...😆 ...sorry but spongebob is to her like IPK is to us...😆 so do not feel offended...sandy is her khushi...and spongebob ...Arnav...🤣

take care and see you in the morning...

🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: Arhimaniac


and there is only one conclusion that I have reached...and that is that

I have gone mad...its 1:20 am...daughter has school tomorrow...and i am browsing the forum...😕

I will catch you in the morning sandy...my daugher loves your name btw...as its the name of the squirrel in spongebob...😆 ...sorry but spongebob is to her like IPK is to us...😆 so do not feel offended...sandy is her khushi...and spongebob ...Arnav...🤣

take care and see you in the morning...

🤗

😆😆 Tell her that Sandy aunty sends her love.. 😉.. My kids also love Sponge bob.. Actually I also love that lunatic...Patrick too 😉 See you tomorrow... Have Arnav's dream.. Good night..
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Posted: 13 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: mommamia

😆😆 Tell her that Sandy aunty sends her love.. 😉.. My kids also love Sponge bob.. Actually I also love that lunatic...Patrick too 😉 See you tomorrow... Have Arnav's dream.. Good night..


patrick would be shyam then...patrick really irritates me..😆...GN
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arhimaniac


patrick would be shyam then...patrick really irritates me..😆...GN

Might be that cucumber guy is shyam Plankton or something.. Patrick might be Anjali for me.. See you tomorrow.. Ab just like karo reply mat karo or else this will never end.. See you tomorrow..
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Posted: 13 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: vimmiya

Pondering for words to start a write up. Sometimes it is easier, sometimes simpler, sometimes difficult, but rare is your mind and heart filled with emotion leaving no emptiness to fill by words.

Today was a day that made be proud to be born as women in our land where female feticide is also a way of life?

I did not want to to speak anything negative - today I am celebrating for a character though it is fictional still provided me the essence of women hood. It is no less than achievement of Mrs. Tessy Thomas - Project Director of Agni V Missile that was tested a few weeks back.

Wish every women profess dignity and decorum to stand for what she believes in - for upheld of truth and righteous.

With update

Vimmi I dedicated a post for this character today!! Floating in women power today truly...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great write-up Anna - Bravo!!!
👍🏼
Thank you for giving more meaning to todays episode which was brilliant. Both Arnav and Khushi were outstanding in their field.
Thanks onceagain. Love all your posts till date.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#79
Hey Tanths and Doods!
I am really excited for your analysis today! You both always talk about the journey from the terrace to the middle of the road to the temple. I think we reached midway today!

Alas, here is my opinion on today's episode, I have repeated it around and so it may seem redundant, but it what I thought.

So when the episode ended, ASR's behavior left a bitter taste and I did not want to defend him because what he did today was wrong. All, but one thing and I'll mention that later. This isn't a defense, it's the other side of the coin.

But, then I was reminded of the terrace scene. ASR's heart broke into a million pieces that day and we felt it. His face dropped, he was shocked, he didn't want to believe his eyes and then he turned away heartbroken and in tears.

His heart broke that day because after the traumatic experience that left him so scarred and so insecure, he let himself "fall" in love, operational word being fall, because that was something he could've controlled had his guard been up stronger.

All his insecurities that were developed because of that traumatic incident and because of his sister's insecurities, surfaced again and he did what he did. If she kept quiet, hoping Shyam would change, he took action, hoping Shyam would change, blackmailed her to marry him and threw her out on their first night among other things.

But then, that was 3 months ago, he has lived with her for 3 months, observed her, learnt some more things about her, most of all has seen exactly why she is the way she is by living with her family and observing their values and lifestyle. Then why didn't he let all that information get the better off him today when he lashed out at her? Insecurities again. His insecurities about his di, his insecurities about being left alone again, about trust, all came back to haunt him, and he let it out, all of it. It was in the moment and when you're so seeped and insecure; your temper will get the better of you. And it seems to be a recurrent theme currently in his life, because he will still not trust what she's saying.

It takes two to tango, if he has been with her for 3 months, so has she, and neither one stepped forward to address Anjali's messed up marriage. Where he stands, he thinks right, she won't say anything because she loves Shyam. Where she stands, she thinks right, how would I tell you I do not love him if you don't ask me.

I did not like what he said on the terrace one bit and the throwing of stars was too close to home, he shattered her, Diwali night was revisited again today. And so were they roles, ASR's insecurities got the better of him today, sadly.

But then, he fought back, his heart fought back and he was conflicted, he had that brain vs. heart conflict yet again, and I am very hopeful of that Holi scene. Something tells me that scene will be a prominent feature in all his FB's once he's kidnapped and the RTR starts.

Now, unlike many, I will defend him on that one , perhaps not so acceptable, but one that would work "dead parents" line of his. He only brought her parents into in to make her react. He couldn't stand the Khushi who was ignoring the situation and ignoring him and what all he said. He wanted to know her side, he wanted to hear her side of the story and that would only be possible if he made her react in a way where she would speak up. He pricked her where it would hurt her (and him much more), but he got her to speak up and that's why right after he said that and she started fuming, there was that tiny glint in his eyes. He had done it. He even said "muhje batana zaroori nahin samjha", the jilted lover wants to compromise if it makes her happy, he just wanted to be included, he thought he could be because he loved her.

I know today belonged to Khushi, Sanaya and Barun and not ASR, but I had to give my 2 cents on ASR. He was wounded young and that has left him vulnerable, his guard is extremely strong, but his heart isn't and that is why he lets his insecurities get the better of him, because he trusts them and works to defend them. His life has been tough and he has had to face many challenges to get where he is, has always put everyone else before himself, except Khushi; he has taken her down with him. Khushi's love will be one of the biggest ones, he will completely breakdown before he embarks on facing that challenge.




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Posted: 13 years ago
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Updated Peeps ... 😃

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