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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank goodness for gift tags!!

It's about time we got back to the story here. This episode should have happened WEEKS ago instead of the comedy circus bit.

Finally, the anger is back. Finally, the pain is back. And this is for both of Khushi and Arnav. No more slapstick comedy, no more lovey dovey (although I am sure the CVs will bring it back at some ill timed moment). That wrapping paper sequence was ASR's dilemma, although absolutely thoroughly contrived, in a nut shell. When he feels he has misjudged her about her intentions and starts to get soft with the 'pagal', there it pops up, a little reminder of the overstretched, totally flimsy, MU. But at least it's back. I particularly enjoyed the fact that the card said "Love Shyam". Please CVs, throw more reminders like this all over the GH at ASR so that he actually does tell her as he was about to until those ill-fated knocks. The storm is brewing, FINALLY. I think they have tested our patience enough.

The way Khushi said don't be angry at me for what I said before - a total wife thing. I liked that it showed she understood how he felt about that moment in front of the mirror. But, of course, he steaming about something else that he doesn't want to talk about (why I don't know honestly really except that it has to do with stretching until the ME - couldn't he just show her the saved wrapping paper - going off on tangent ).

The final bit with the "respect" spiel. Yes, ASR has treated Khushi badly. He treats her as a cheater and a liar, the person who wants to burn down his sister's house. He is enamoured by Khushi, but always is reminded (by gift tags, flashbacks and ill timed forced handholding) of this fact. For Payal, for Anjali - what he said to the groom holds. Respect your wife and her family - this is why he took what Shyam did so hard. This view on respecting a wife and her family was probably formed somewhere in the past when Anjali was jilted on the mandap. Does it seem hypocritical? I don't know really - as a viewer who knows the whole truth, yes, but as per ASR perspective, no. It is the same hypocritical behavior I would say of someone touting the virtues of sanskar and marriage and then ramanchi'ing her husband into bathing unknowingly in public, despite the opposition of her elders. To the viewer was her behavior hypocritical, yes, but as per Kh perspective, no.

What Khushi does and what ASR does with respect to each other is not really what they stand for. Family means a lot to both of them, both sacrificed for their sisters, but each thinks the other does not honor family relations. Thanks Shyam (let's get on with that file and your soliloquy)

I see a light at the end of the tunnel. I am happy with the tone so far. I don't know what to think about that apple promo though. 🤢


P.S. -
I don't know why the CVs are hell bent on showing anyone not in the "middle class" as classless. I found the behavior of the groom's family nasty beyond. I just never understood if you have agreed to wed your son to this woman, what do you get by doing these insults? Didn't like it, but I guess it does happen and does resonate with some part of the audience.




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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes it does happen in weddings :-( And some people attend weddings especially to witness such scenes. Sad but true ;-(
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Posted: 13 years ago
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many issues contrived...but...when the main MU is flimsy...this is the way to go...just hope they stick to it...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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loved your post...said exactly wot i felt abt the epi! 👍🏼

more than anything, m glad just to be getting back on track honestly...and thankfully we got a confirmation to that from Sanaya herself :)

so m gonna ignore those horrid ladkewaalas or that useless promo!

bring on the real story...its HIGH TIME!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Anu: Yes, the story is back... In the GH, Arnav and Khushi had almost forgotten the MU.. But on Friday, Khushi was reminded on it, and today Arnav.. Nice analogy you pointed out the wrapping paper sequence to ASR's dilemma... After a breezy week of warmth between Arhi, today, the MU was brought back in full force.. The pain on Khushi and the rage within Arnav, brilliantly brought out... Khushi trying to calm down Arnav was done so naturally.. Loved it..

On the respect part - what stood out to me today the way he went to help out - , He introduced himself as Arnav ... The Singh Raizada was dropped off.. While one could argue, he did'nt want the audience to connect it to AR industries, I also found this to be a peek into the real person 'Arnav'.. At RM, he is Chote - a person who is treated by everyone as too serious to have fun, but they understand his pain and give in to him and whenever they want something out of him - they blackmail him to it.. At office - he is ASR, the man with the mask not to get decieved - with the thirst to win.. And here he introduced himself as Arnav - the real person within - who has come out thanks to Buaji and Garima - he has warmed up to their affection - who have understood him and ready to give in to his likes and dislikes - the first two people who have'nt blackmailed or manipulated him to do anything for them.. Without the baggage (of Singh Raizada), this would have been the man who is ready to help out the people whom he loves.. And the respect part was brought in, just to show how this man would be in normal circumstances - without any baggage.. The paradox of Arnav Singh Raizada was beautifully potrayed.. How he never believed in marriage - thanks to his painful past and hurt and yet his outlook on how partners should behave in marriage.. This also explains his sheer and utter anger at Shyam when he spoke about Anjali in the MU.. It also beautifully shows the paradox he is in now... Being married with Khushi - in innumerable circumstances he has demanded people to give the respect to Khushi as his wife - his own care arising at many instances and yet again the MU and hence his own hurtful behavior to Khushi..

The precap was a very good one.. I would presume this is to move Khushi to the edge - He is good to Buaji, Garima & to unknown folks.. He is good with Anjali and his family, even with Payal.. So the question topmost for her - would be.. - why is he this way - only to her.. (A big one..).. From Arnav side, it has been easy for him to trust Buaji and Garimaji and even unknown folks.. But at the moment - she is the bad one.. The question yet to arise in him - How could she be the bad one..

Interesting moving episode, bringing us to the brink of a revelation between Arnav and Khushi..

I guess I ranted a little too much.. 😳
Edited by shu_cal - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arnav and Khushi arguing beats Rabba Ve any day...Darn those stupid interruptions *grr*
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The show is beginning to make sense...I hope it continues.

But the promo doesn't make sense.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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a very good and meanigful post esp about what asr and khushi mean to each other and to their families. he wud be different had things been different. i am sure
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post. The elephant in the room cannot be ignored and we saw steps today to address that. Great episode. The middle class taunts, unfortunately do happen and I myself have witnessed that @ a friend's wedding, way back. Khushi attempting diffuse the tension in her own talkative way while Arnav gets straight to business. The reactions from both was very much in within their characters and I loved it. Last but not the least both Sanaya and Barun brought their A game and look rested.

Edited by savvy05 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The final bit with the "respect" spiel. Yes, ASR has treated Khushi badly. He treats her as a cheater and a liar, the person who wants to burn down his sister's house. He is enamoured by Khushi, but always is reminded (by gift tags, flashbacks and ill timed forced handholding) of this fact. For Payal, for Anjali - what he said to the groom holds. Respect your wife and her family - this is why he took what Shyam did so hard. This view on respecting a wife and her family was probably formed somewhere in the past when Anjali was jilted on the mandap. Does it seem hypocritical? I don't know really - as a viewer who knows the whole truth, yes, but as per ASR perspective, no. It is the same hypocritical behavior I would say of someone touting the virtues of sanskar and marriage and then ramanchi'ing her husband into bathing unknowingly in public, despite the opposition of her elders. To the viewer was her behavior hypocritical, yes, but as per Kh perspective, no.

What Khushi does and what ASR does with respect to each other is not really what they stand for. Family means a lot to both of them, both sacrificed for their sisters, but each thinks the other does not honor family relations. Thanks Shyam (let's get on with that file and your soliloquy)

I see a light at the end of the tunnel. I am happy with the tone so far. I don't know what to think about that apple promo though. 🤢

@ bold: Exactly my thoughts..Some direly needed seriousness back.. which should have been there from Day 1 of their marriage!
loved each and every word of your post.. bang on!








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