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-Natashaa-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: NIDIZ
Welcome in the forum..
I love reading optimism..
Well I never question Anjali love for Arnav... vice versa.
siblings relationship should be like this..
here its not about shyam or Khushi.
its about AA RAIZADA siblings...
more ..
I didn't felt any wrong in Anjali feeding his kid bro...
nor the dinner scene...
Khushi was also right in her own way... she had really hard time since her marriage...
Yes it looks sort of negative .. but its just the way ppl thinks about the situation... its their prospective of looking into a matter n coming upto a conclusion..
talking Abt the Precap.. Arnav is damn frustrated... with that nautanki done in past couple of days...
so, ASR returns at that moment when Anjali was building bridge of phrasing Khushi...
Hence, I felt no one was at any point of time wrong...

Aww thanks!

And I truly agree that at the moment, everyone is right in their own way. Arnav thinks Khushi betrayed him and his sister. Khushi has no clue why this is happening with her and Anjali is trying her best to break the barrier between these two without actually knowing what the problem is.

Eventually, I think Arnav and Khushi needs to sort out their differences on their own, but I love that Anjali is trying her best. She wants both of them to be happy and she is just trying to get them to that point; I dont understand whats wrong with that.

Thanks for the comment =)

Originally posted by: magnetasunset
This is by far the best argument I have read for the whole day!!! I appreciate that you made this post and I agree with each single point of yours!!!

I'm glad you agree! Thanks for the reply =)

Originally posted by: angellovergirl
Finally someone who said what I've been thinking!
i agree with every point of yours and thanks for standing up for anjali - someone needed to make other people understand

I'm glad some people actually dont blame her! I feel like the forum as a whole truly find Anjali guilty. Thanks for the comment! =)

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: -SILPA-
very well said yar...
i completely agree wid ur points...
wat all she did in todays epi therez nothing wrong in it...
actually everyone are perfect in their places...
even we cant blame kushi for her pranks as she had enough from him...
even its not arnav fault completely too blaming kushi...
wat he saw wid his eyes he'z beleiving n he feared his Di hurted n cant take that pain about her husband truth...
i rele hope for all these mischevous things one day we'll get answer but not in hurry burry...
i rele wan CVs dont spiol ny relatnship n bring a gud epi to clear MU

I agree! I think Arnav is blinded by his love for his sister that he fails to see the subtle hints Khushi keeps giving him. Also, he is jealous because he feels he is not to khushi what she is to him. And he hates that weakness, so he tries to hard to push it in and never let it out. Time and again though, it does pop up and thats when he's at his vulnerable best.

Arnav loves both Anjali and Khushi so much - and to see that Shyam has somehow or the other almost taken over both these people from him, he feels he needs to vent that anger. To him Khushi betrayed his love, and his sister's love for her. So he is taking it out on her even though I feel somehow deep down he does know that maybe Khushi is innocent.

I feel Arnav is not in the point where he loves both the women equally. His sister is his world, and when he finds out what Khushi is innocent, then I think both these women would be his strenght in that difficult phase. At least thats what I hope 😆

Originally posted by: chillygirl
i totally agree with every word of yours.

people fail to understand that Anjali is like a mother to him and has every right to tend to her baby brother. If Arnav's mom would have been alive and if she would have done the same thing then no one would have objected her and would have termed it as motherly love but since Anjali is giving him the same kinda love, that's not acceptable to ppl.

for me, a brother-sister relationship is the one of the most beautiful in the world and it should not be effected by anything. also why should anjali change her behaviour towards arnav after his marriage? she was always caring and should always remains so

Me thinks you said it all! Its disrespectful in the name of sibling relationship that anyone would think she is jealous of her sis in law. She is who she is and he is who he is. I'm sure that Arnav's love for her didnt change cz she got married, so why should she?

Thanks for the reply! =)

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-Natashaa-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: rightchoice
I am happy to read your post. I was bit disappointed with people jumping to conclusion based something that MIGHT or COULD happen in future. They forget the obvious equations that's prevailing. Their opinions are just based on their assumptions or fear.

At dinning table, what was most important? Attending to fainting brother or accommodating emotions thinking who gets to feed him first??? That is just ridiculous!!! Its not that they were supposed to go to movie and wife wants to sit next to hubby...!!!

Its a insult on Bro-Sis relationships when they start comparing it to Hus-Wife relationship. The two are just not equal. One or other plays importance depending on time.

Anjali was bit confused as Khushi never showed such concern for Arnav in front of family. She was doing exact opposite of what she had advised.. She was perplexed nothing much...people should be navie to think that its jealousy.

The only person who wants or works towards bonding Arnav and Khushi is Anjali. Even Payal is just not as concerned towards her sister as Anjali towards her bro.

Her innocence is often misunderstood...

I just love your reply! Seriously you pretty much nailed everything. Bang on! When i read that some expected Anjali to step back so khushi would feed him I was wondering why it was so important. I understand that maybe a Rabba Ve would be nice there but really? Your brother fainted - all that matters is that he is ok. Its not really a competition as to who gets to feed him. it is more about him being safe and fine. Which he was.

I dont think Khushi or Anjali even though of it forget actually having ulterior motives. And I agree that siblings have a different relationship to spouses. They share different values in one's life, just like in Arnva's there is place for both his sister and his wife. As for the dining table fiasco, thats the point - khushi isnt doing what she said - in fact the opposite. Of course she would be confused! Jealous? Thats maybe kinda immature of people to think.

And I never even caught on that. Payal seems to be so oblivious to Khushi's pain and sufferings in her marriage. At least Anjali can understand that her chotte isnt happy. She is so innocent and like you said - it is misunderstood and misinterpreted into something it totally isnt.

Thanks for the reply! =)

Originally posted by: moon_mine
i totally agree wid u!!!!
i dunno know y some ppl thnk that she is gonna hate khushi!!!!
she wanted khushi as her bro's wife even b4 her bro had realized it!!!!
so y wud jealousy come nyway!!!!
i thnk these thoughts r coming from ppl who dunno have a bro as sibling!!!
if my bro faints b4 me...i won't gv a damn even if my mom stands b4 me...i wud rush to him like a maniac n take care of him!!!!

Exactly! So true! Who cares who is around - if you love someone and he just fainted in front of you, does it matter who tends as long as he's ok? And I feel people are too invested in Arnav and Khushi that everyone else seems like a problem or an intruder. All characters have different relationships with other characters and all those relationship must be respected.

Thanks for the comment!

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-Natashaa-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: lovesharun
Very nice post!
I don't think Anjali will turn negative in the future for she always cared for her kid brother's well being and happiness. And yes, she completely trusts Shyam and thus, in any situation her thoughts don't go that far as Shyam may be doing something that he is doing actually. Sure, Shyam is a really really bad, unethical and unsatisfied guy!!

I think its a very complicated situation and this Raizaada family is living together so happily. I don't know how the story will progress once the truth will be out to everyone! But yes, I am looking forward to watch it and I have a feeling that something quite unpredictable and new is waiting for us from CV on this (like Lavanya's exit; it was shown so well and with positivity! I personally have not seen any of that spirit in any other soap.)

Once again, thanks for the nice post Natassha!

Thats so true. I think everyone lives in a happy bubble that its gonna hit them so hard when that bubble pops. Everyone is truly happy - well other than AK, but thats because they know Shyam's truth. Eventually everyone will and I'm really excited to see how everyone - particularly Anjali - will handle this situation.

Arnav is really scared and wants that day to never come but it will ultimately, and I wanna see where her charcater would be headed. I feel to some extent she may have some grudges against Khushi - or maybe they'll surprise us. Hopefully. The lavanya engagement was so well handled, so I'm hoping this one would be too!

Thanks for replying; I'm glad i was able to bring in a bit of positivity when it comes to Anjali! =)

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-Natashaa-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: johnnylucky
Natashaa your first post was awsome. Welcome to the IF world.
Loved your take on the sibling bonding. The only one thing i see missing in this bond is Anjali even though she spent more time of her life with Arnav sometimes she fails to read ASR . Kushi on the other hand has only spent less time with ASR compare to Anjali actually can read ASR more. eg during the throat problem lip reading, butter passing etc. Todays episode she is the one who first realises low sugar level and brings some sweet.

Aww thank you!

And I think that is done more for the benefit of the show and the AK's development more than anything. Ultimately if Khushi can understand Arnav better than anyone then that sorta strengthens their relationship and makes them more lovable. A think Anjali gets Arnav more than Payal gets Khushi (as someone mentioned) and when the time comes for Shyam's reality to be exposed, I think Anjali would be the one to get Arnav and why he did it, and understand his motives - which maybe his family wont. Especially Nani. But I dunno. I hope though cz I truly love their relationship =)

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Posted: 13 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: -Delicious_BS-

but yes i do feel that she will turn negative when the whole truth comes out and i do want her to be negative! no woman will bear the girl in her house for whom her husband left her or cheated on her! though Khushi is not at fault at all but still! i am sure even if she turn negative she will be justified but being an ArHi fan i am calling her a hurdle!

me also thinks she will turn neg. but to red above... still remember, its not HER house... 😉 uska apna hai, jisme wo rahti nahin hai!

and i have to say. sure bro sis relationship doesnt end after marriage, but she knows that something is wrong with them, she should take a step back.. i mean at the diabetes drama... if that would happend to her creepwa, she would never ever let someone do anything...

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-Natashaa-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Cyberpsychooo

me also thinks she will turn neg. but to red above... still remember, its not HER house... 😉 uska apna hai, jisme wo rahti nahin hai!

and i have to say. sure bro sis relationship doesnt end after marriage, but she knows that something is wrong with them, she should take a step back.. i mean at the diabetes drama... if that would happend to her creepwa, she would never ever let someone do anything...

Sorry to butt in lol, but I just had to comment here. Umm, If that happened to Shyam, yes Anjali would have done the same. But thats entirely a different situation. I mean Khushi could have interfered and taken charge but she was too much in shock to do it and obviously Anjali did it instead. Not on the other hand, if it was Anjali that was in the situation, I am sure Arnav would be the one who would freak out and feed her - even if Shyam was actually caring, it wouldnt stop Arnav from doing what anjali did for him =)

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samin6

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Posted: 13 years ago

#38

Why would Anjali hate Khushi? Anjali is a tough cookie and as for hating someone I do not see her doing that. Because she also went through everything that ASR did and even more, because she had to take care of him and it was her marriage that broke. She is still sweet in spite of that.

Edited by samin096 - 13 years ago

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Priyanka

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Posted: 13 years ago

#39

I don't think she was jealous. I just don't like her. Very annoying and clingy...no wonder her husband fell in love with the beautiful, lively and free-spirited Khushi. As much as I hate Shyam, I totally get why he would be suffocated with his wife and look elsewhere.

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Rabba-Ve-Delena

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Posted: 13 years ago

#40

I adore Anjali's character, I love the strong contrast between her and Arnav, whilst she believes in good, embraces love and God as well as fate - Arnav is the opposite. Their relationship is truly one of the most beautiful depictions of sibling bonding on the show. However I do get irritated by her whenever she interrupts an Arnav and Khushi moment😆 but Daljeet Banot is doing a beautiful job of her portrayal.

I wish they would focus on Khushi and Payal's relationship again however!

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