Arnav's learning graph after marriage... - Page 11

well said and well composed!

Originally posted by: ipkkndcritic

well said and well composed!

hats off :)

thanks😊

Originally posted by: eveline

wow...👏..i wanted to write this..but honestly never had the courage...this forum would have banished me to the Arctic for a life sentence..😆

strangely for me the MU has never been pivotal or important...it was just an excuse for these two to get together...and stay close...the crux of this story is their love...and how it progresses through different stages of life and circumstance...through good and bad times..this MU will eventually clear..kahah jayega...and then maybe a new one will crop up...its a story..ups and downs are needed desperately to keep up the pace...so i just wanna see these two and their love survive and win against all odds...the odds are not the focus here...means to an end i guess...

Again i have said that he has to realise it by himself...that she is worth his love and trust...i dont want him to hear it from some one else...i want a circumstance one day...when khushi is blamed..but arnav stands up for her and says he trusts her implicitly...that might never happen..but no harm in dreaming...right..😆

Wow loved your evaluation on the progress so far. Good job. When it's put into prospective like that yes I can see that yes progress has been made even though it may have been slow. Arnav has learnt over the last month exactly what Khushi is made of. She has been through so much alot of highs & lows but has always managed to pull through. Like they say "what does'nt kill you only makes you stronger." Her courageness is what Arnav has seen come through and he is finally realising that there is definately more to her than meets the eye and hopefully soon they will be able to confess their love for one another soon :) :) x x

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Thank you so much for posting this!!! n very rightly said the story has moved on, jst bcz it did happen in the way we wanted doesnt meaen it didnt, n actualy it moved in the right way, bcz yes the MU needs to clear up but with that arna n khushi need to understand each other, esp arnav. n that is wat is happening rite now, bcz not until they begin to learn each other character traits they wnt be able t understand one another, n if they cant do that than MU will keep on happening, this one will clear up but than another will happen...so actualy when u look at it the cvs r going abt it the rite way, slowly they r revealing their personalities to each other, see while watching we forget that we as viewers know their perosnalities well as we see everything but they the characters only see a few things n to top it all what they see they dnt exactly interpret in the right way, n so rite now more important than clearing the MU is making aranv understand khushi, n khushi understand arnav, the latter, i.e. khushi manages to understand him better than he understands her bcz she has the help of his family as well as him, that is she realy pays attention to him n therefore gets him, knows how to read his silence n interpret it most of the times in the right way, while he although pays her attention has not managed to really understand her yet n more so he has his prejudices n MUs which make him interpret her silence in the wrong way, as in when she is upset, hurt or watever he can see that n understand it but he does nto manage to ascertain the reason behind her hurt, like for example during the dance yest when he sees shyam ogling at her n then sees her looking away at unease he interprets the unease to be rejection ie. that she doesnt want to dance wiht him but wnts to be wid shyam, while in actuality she is at unease bcz she wnts to dance wid arnav not ASR, she wnts to dance with the man she fell in love with the man who loves her back, not the man who keeps on hurting her mistrusting her...

n so dats y its actualy important, even if it seems as if these various track r jst digressions in trying to lengthen the MU plot, but no they need this inorder to understand each other, plus after all they say that u only truly learn wat a person is like when u live with them, b4 that u may know them ie. their personality n character traits, but u really learn their mannerism, their small but important details, quirks n wat not that realy define who they r once u live with them n so that wats Arhi r goin thru now. they r finaly living together n so now r getting to realy know each other...

n this is all important for when the MU gets cleared too, bcz not until wrnav see n learns that khushi truly is pure hearted, he wnt believe her innnocence n so he needs to see this side of khushi that shows him that this is no act this is who she is, a family person, who lives selflessly for others, not a selfish gold digger n homewrecker...see these things r abt her r beginning to sink in n he is strting to get confused, lyk on mon when he fights wid her abt talking to laxmi abt anjali's wishin g her a long life, he was confused there n then lashed out becz he believed that it was all an act, but gradualy we will see that he stop thinking this is all an act as he gets to know her better n then will seriously start thinking abt whether she is innocent or not so one jst has to be patient cvs r slowly paving the way to clear this MU n strengthen Arhi's bond.

n also wat u said abt khushi reading his silence but not being able to read love in that silence was very apt. yes he himslf is confused so ofcourse she is confused too when it comes to reading off him whether he loves her or not. n personaly speaking ithink she has read many a times on his face that he loves her, but is now afraid to admit it as like u said he has hurt her tooo many times regarding his feelings n so now she ignores it whenever she sees it on his face bcz she doesnt want to give herslf any hope only to hav it crushed into a million pieces again...bcz everytime she has thought he mite confess he does the exact opposite n breaks her heart, diwali nite, during la n his engagement, then on their wedding day n aftr the wedding to, so every time he breaks her heart so u cant expect her too believe it when she see's compassion on his face for her bcz with him everytime he has shown compassion he has also turned around n hurt her da nxt minute...so very rightly said that one he has hurt her too many times for her to believe that wat she sees is love, 2 his words betray his silence, that is his eyes tell her he loves her while his words tell her he hates so u can expct her to be confused n mistrust his emotions for her, n 3 wat they showd 2day was her lip reading and interpreting his actions/epressions mostly n so that is different to understanding his feelings...but ofcourse as u said it eveline how can u expect khushi to understand what he is feeling when he himself is unable to understand what he feels!! 😊

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Originally posted by: sree07

:) i kind of made up mind to write this post, in fact i told couple of my friends also how I feel good about the MU. :). Thought of posting my thoughts to give some positivity to the burning souls. LOL.

But then saw your post, awesome.. adding my thoughts here would be aprt. :P

i love the scenario you suggested, and I always believed that when the world haunts her, he will be her protector. She just have to fear him... no one else.. From everything else, arnav is there to protect her. It is the awesomeness of the show.

aww..i just love his protectiveness...and waiting for a day..when khushi will see it the way it is...😍..when the day comes...he will treat her like a princess...

eveline.

Originally posted by: Shastradhari

eveline.

Abhi ton office main chamatkar batana baki gain mere dost🤣

ASR has got all in one packet😆 My lovely khushi😳

😆..i m really worried for ASR..his office and clients...god save them!! I think tomorrow she might goof up and that will lead to another fight..😃

Originally posted by: ACTywm

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Thank you so much for posting this!!! n very rightly said the story has moved on, jst bcz it did happen in the way we wanted doesnt meaen it didnt, n actualy it moved in the right way, bcz yes the MU needs to clear up but with that arna n khushi need to understand each other, esp arnav. n that is wat is happening rite now, bcz not until they begin to learn each other character traits they wnt be able t understand one another, n if they cant do that than MU will keep on happening, this one will clear up but than another will happen...so actualy when u look at it the cvs r going abt it the rite way, slowly they r revealing their personalities to each other, see while watching we forget that we as viewers know their perosnalities well as we see everything but they the characters only see a few things n to top it all what they see they dnt exactly interpret in the right way, n so rite now more important than clearing the MU is making aranv understand khushi, n khushi understand arnav, the latter, i.e. khushi manages to understand him better than he understands her bcz she has the help of his family as well as him, that is she realy pays attention to him n therefore gets him, knows how to read his silence n interpret it most of the times in the right way, while he although pays her attention has not managed to really understand her yet n more so he has his prejudices n MUs which make him interpret her silence in the wrong way, as in when she is upset, hurt or watever he can see that n understand it but he does nto manage to ascertain the reason behind her hurt, like for example during the dance yest when he sees shyam ogling at her n then sees her looking away at unease he interprets the unease to be rejection ie. that she doesnt want to dance wiht him but wnts to be wid shyam, while in actuality she is at unease bcz she wnts to dance wid arnav not ASR, she wnts to dance with the man she fell in love with the man who loves her back, not the man who keeps on hurting her mistrusting her...

n so dats y its actualy important, even if it seems as if these various track r jst digressions in trying to lengthen the MU plot, but no they need this inorder to understand each other, plus after all they say that u only truly learn wat a person is like when u live with them, b4 that u may know them ie. their personality n character traits, but u really learn their mannerism, their small but important details, quirks n wat not that realy define who they r once u live with them n so that wats Arhi r goin thru now. they r finaly living together n so now r getting to realy know each other...

n this is all important for when the MU gets cleared too, bcz not until wrnav see n learns that khushi truly is pure hearted, he wnt believe her innnocence n so he needs to see this side of khushi that shows him that this is no act this is who she is, a family person, who lives selflessly for others, not a selfish gold digger n homewrecker...see these things r abt her r beginning to sink in n he is strting to get confused, lyk on mon when he fights wid her abt talking to laxmi abt anjali's wishin g her a long life, he was confused there n then lashed out becz he believed that it was all an act, but gradualy we will see that he stop thinking this is all an act as he gets to know her better n then will seriously start thinking abt whether she is innocent or not so one jst has to be patient cvs r slowly paving the way to clear this MU n strengthen Arhi's bond.

n also wat u said abt khushi reading his silence but not being able to read love in that silence was very apt. yes he himslf is confused so ofcourse she is confused too when it comes to reading off him whether he loves her or not. n personaly speaking ithink she has read many a times on his face that he loves her, but is now afraid to admit it as like u said he has hurt her tooo many times regarding his feelings n so now she ignores it whenever she sees it on his face bcz she doesnt want to give herslf any hope only to hav it crushed into a million pieces again...bcz everytime she has thought he mite confess he does the exact opposite n breaks her heart, diwali nite, during la n his engagement, then on their wedding day n aftr the wedding to, so every time he breaks her heart so u cant expect her too believe it when she see's compassion on his face for her bcz with him everytime he has shown compassion he has also turned around n hurt her da nxt minute...so very rightly said that one he has hurt her too many times for her to believe that wat she sees is love, 2 his words betray his silence, that is his eyes tell her he loves her while his words tell her he hates so u can expct her to be confused n mistrust his emotions for her, n 3 wat they showd 2day was her lip reading and interpreting his actions/epressions mostly n so that is different to understanding his feelings...but ofcourse as u said it eveline how can u expect khushi to understand what he is feeling when he himself is unable to understand what he feels!! 😊

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excellent response...there is progress...but its not what we wanted..so we are ignoring the progression...its not only limited to the story but also to the characters...

Originally posted by: lilkrup4u

Thank You so much for your post. You totally nailed it. Wonderful observations and love the positiveness.

just trying to be positive...glad u liked it..😊