IPKKND -Classic Defination of Insanity

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Many years ago when I was quiet young, I watched the Presidential debate between Bill Clinton, George Bush Snr and Ross Perot and one thing that Mr Clinton said, I think it fits the situation here perfectly. He said as an answer to Mr Bush that "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results is the classic definition of insanity and Mr President that is what you are doing currently with American Public"I am a true republican but even I have to say that ...how apt. Those words are still instilled in my memory and I never had to connect them with anything but even I was proved wrong because this show just completes the terminology.

Since the day this disastrous MU was created, I was thinking that perhaps there is a bigger picture here which I am not able to see and based on that day after day I tortured myself and watched this show. I love the chemistry of barun and sanaya just like every other person here, but for the first time in my life I thought to compromise on quality and kept on watching this show and in a way I got what I sowed. After reading so so so many posts on how Khushi should now put 2 and 2 together, how she has been given hints and how now she should figure out everything, how she cannot realise that Shyam and Arnav are having issues...

Khushi was forcefully married, she was never given reason for that marriage. The guy runs hot and cold on her since way beginning. He tries to bring her closer and then he kicks her out. We have seen that. She cannot connect the dots because she doesn't think she has done anything wrong. She doesn't know it's because of shyam arnav married her because like us she is thinking that even if a guy thinks that she could do such horrible thing than who in world would marry a girl like that???he will be making plans to send her away not to bring her in the home. Now we know ASR is not a logical or a practical person. She has done everything she can to get the truth out but that man is not talking so now she is thinking of getting financially secure. Good thing she doesn't remember the bhang confession because that would be another blow to get over. She was doing her work when arnav decided to become asr and yell at her and then be the nasty man he was before. Maybe because some normal man decided to praise her or maybe because his precious sister said you can have my life and just because she said it, it will happen...Yes she should figure everything out when the man who did this to her who is mind you very very smart doesn't have a clue and more importantly doesn't even want to think about it.

Now we have ASR who decided that jija was cheating on jiji so let's marry the girl jija was unfaithful with. How smart of him...okay because he is hurt and because of his twisted childhood and for this forum's sake I will give him the benefit of the doubt and say fair enough he was enraged and made the decision in anger. It was a bad move but whatever...since then though his behaviour is inexcusable. He has seen khushi in fact even confessed to her and what's more he remembers it then why in the world he is not able to see that???? Oh one week of holi where love was in the air and then some bathroom scenes and here and there thrown rabba ve's...what about the story??? Why is this great and mighty businessman(and I again use that term loosely) not thinking??? He has to know one why jija was listening to their conversation??and two when he has clearly told jija to leave his wife alone, jija spoke to her in his presence?????? Okay so jija heard him accidently then why did he brought the jiji along??? How about you ASR putting 2 and 2 together...you saw your wife's reaction to that...she didn't looked relived now that her "FAKE" lover is there...she looked tired not excurbiant that her saviour has come to help her. Honestly this is the guy who supposedly made great deals. I personally think khushi should just call his bluff and say fine break di's marriage don't care and let him break it. From what I see payal is more stronger than aakash anyway...she will cry and wash clothes but she will be all right. I would be so happy if khushi just walks out and says screw you and your love, take it and shove it but that won't happen because Cv's are giving us the classic definition of insanity...they need to get their act together and clear this horrible MU very very soon and then show us ASR's pain...I want to see him in pain...and not one day pain I will handle his 3months pain or even more for what he has put khushi though.

Sorry my friends for the this long post but as Sree said I am raving mad today and need to vent. I will go back to the other post and respond to each and every one of you, day has not been kind to me and it keeps getting worse...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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edited: Vibs...a superb and well aritculated post...wish i could do something like this...you see hwne i make direct posts...i end up losing control and it may be seen as bashing!!! so symbolisms in my post!!!

I not only find it difficult to digest this MU track but the reaction of some unlike minded people irks me to no end!!!!

They are going to the extent that Khushi deserved the manhandling and the bruise on her hand!!!!

I dunno from where such levels of insensitivity comes!!!!! Sad thought!!

I also don;t understand why Khushi should figure out ant why not Arnav!!!! People keep ranting on how he showed concern but she never showed it!!!!

But sorry i don't see any concern in any of his actions especially if Khushi's action cannot be called concern!!!

And yes i don not understand this guy giving second chance to jeejaji when the so called great jeejaji has proved he doesn't want a second chance by wanting to apply colors on her on holi and now over hearing their fights ans getting concerned for his wife!!

If she should put two and two together...why can't he put two and two together like her reaction on holi...how much she cares for Anjali and they bond they share...consider a scenario in which Khushi does love Shyam...does Arnav really think she will be in good terms with Anjali the woman who is stopping her from marrying her love!!!

From what i can see the only deal that ASR the great business man does is plan on how to fake black mail and bring his wife back by sending her her sister divorce papers!!! and yes call her classless in front of his security guard and throw water on her in front of his clients!!!

Still worse is why is the audience ok with ASR holding his sister dear and doing everything for her but Khushi does not seem to have the right of doing everything for her sister!!!
is it because of his being a brother and she being a sister thing or because he is rich and she is poor kind of thing!!!

I am also irked with going back to square one as you mentioned in the other post!!!

Please i don't want people saying he is like that right from the beginning...then why did yo9u all say he changed to Arnav in between and asked why Khushi has not changed!!! and again why is it ok for him to be same from beginning but she cannot remain same!!!

Its heart wrenching to see him breaking her spirit day after day!!!!

He is all out to break the spirit inside her...that too of his so called love!!!! this man never fails to shock me!!!

I seriously can't understand his anger yesterday!!! what was the cause? did she hug Shyam again or did Shyam hug her again!!!

What is use of remembering the same scene if you cannot tell it your sister and do something about it!!

Shyam is very dangerous...ASR or Khushi may not know it but then its pretty clear he cannot redeemed

I very badly want this MU to end...its seriously getting to my nerves and yes i will rejoice if Khushi leaves him at least temporarily (though even permanently also i wouldn't mind!!!) and definitely want him to be in pain...i also wish even his sister blames him for all the fiasco!!!!!

She should ask him who is he to decide what she wants in her life!!!!

Edited by uniquebluerose - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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That was some rant😆
To top it up all, now we are going to be shown a brainless Khushi figuring out the whole situation.😕
Whereas a brainy ASR still struggling between dil and dimag.😕
😕CV's are just indulging in slow and steady character assassination of both leads.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Vibs, you are a die-hard Republican ?? 😆 You are right in ASR's league !!😛

But you are so so right - "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results is the classic definition of insanity". and by that definition the show has gone crazy.

And after reading through all your observations on ASR, I have to really pat myself on the back for making that Matrimony post. That ASR is completely unsuitable for marrying anyone in real life has been re-emphasized by that post and now with yours.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: wesha

Vibs, you are a die-hard Republican ?? 😆 You are right in ASR's league !!😛


But you are so so right - "Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results is the classic definition of insanity". and by that definition the show has gone crazy.

And after reading through all your observations on ASR, I have to really pat myself on the back for making that Matrimony post. That ASR is completely unsuitable for marrying anyone in real life has been re-emphasized by that post and now with yours.


Wesha you are so right...I remeber in another serial about sister bonding there were posts sympathetic of the husbands of the sisters as they would have to play the second fiddle and how no man would like that!!

well now when i think about it yes even i wouldn't want to marry man obsessed with his sister!!!!!!
and yes he too proud and too full of himself thinking he writes his own destiny and he great high class...

Good in looks or not!!! I prefer to be treated with care, affection love and respect...I don't want fireworks.dynamite kind of love...i can read them in M & B if i want!!
a warm and cozy by the fireplace kind of love is enough for me!!!
Edited by uniquebluerose - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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And to add to the insanity now, we're going to have a dance and a bed scene??
I really don't know where the CV's are going with this.😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You are just a petty petty man if you hurt a girl physically and say she deserves it!

And all this when she has overtly done only good things by your family.

Think about it this way, what stops her from ruining your sister's life in an instant? Her sister's happiness is a lot more secure and she knows that even if she doesn't use it to her advantage.

You may say she should have told you about your cheating Jija..but people only confide in friends and people who inspire confidence. And hell, you haven't said anything to anyone about your Jija either!

Tch tch...I loved you, ASR but some actions are just too big to forgive and forget!

Khushi will be more forgiving, I am sure. It is an Indian TV drama after all. I just don't know if you deserve it!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: trs21

And to add to the insanity now, we're going to have a dance and a bed scene??
I really don't know where the CV's are going with this.😡


How can any dance and any "bed" scene make up for what he doles out to her? Some consistency from the CVs or is that too much to expect?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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👏res...

No vibha... I am reserving my comments. With the mood you are in... I think I better update my post after some time.
hugs🤗🤗🤗
love ❤️ hope it will coax you out of your grumpy ASR mood... :)

Edited:

👏👏👏..kudoes to the defender of khushi. Yesterday she rocked. How she held her ground in front of a erupting volcano is awesome.

The moment someone accuses you of something, i guess it is a natural instinct of the person's subconscious mind to think about the wrongs\sins one has committed . When ASR first accused khushi of hurting him, She really did think about shyam. thats the only thing she has hid the truth from ASR and She knows it by instinct. CVs did not develop it ok, blame it on the other turbulence happened in khushi's life clouding her vision. I don't complain.

But whatever clues he has provided now, even if she tries to act on it, She can only find out half the truth. She may think that ASR know the whole story about the engagement and Shyams deception. And may be she will conclude that ASR is angry because she hid the truth from him and in a way khushi is standing on the way of Anjali's happiness, that's not the whole picture. She will never ever conclude that ASR considers her as an accomplice in crime. That's illogical (at least in her POV). So my take is that, the story may not go much forward if CVs show khushi trying to find out the truth. It will again be a half baked truth revelation to khushi and of no use to viewers and the story progress. Unless Shyam or ASR explicitly tell her what happened, there is no way she can deduce something from the so called clues. I agree with you wholeheartedly (first time?😉)

The onus of responsibility is on ASR. Unless he starts digging deeper the story will not move forward. But I am not sure, CVs will not pour that mercy on us so soon. After MU it is a complete drag. I love individual episodes, sprinkled with comedy, drama, IHU, IHU more, rabba ve, fake RV, shirtless barun, dupatta less khushi, bhangh... But story wise no progress. To bring out the passion gul promised, they have to build up the drama and ruthless ASR. They have to set a stage where everything goes wrong, they are just twisting the thread more and more to bring the tension. Think about the TRP high when the MU is cleared. So the rhythm has to tighten before reaching the zenith.

So they purposefully deny ASR the ability to think as of now :). They can easily attribute the amnesia by 'Shut down when angry' attribute of ASRs brain. My take is that It is gonna be ASR who is going to take up the responsibility of clearing the MU and it is logical. Not khushi. But When? Is a biggest question? The more CVs drag it, the more the shows lifespan increases.

Dragging is ok as long as they have it in the right way. They can definitely show some trust building moments between arhi instead of the OTTs which has no base. And we would love to see how khushi builds trust in him even without any revelation of truth as such. It shows the mettle of the power girl khushi. How her innocence and morals can help her gain the trust in him?. So to believe in someone you don't have to clear the MU exactly, It grows over little things. May be that's why I am not so keen on MU clearing with the blink of an eye. If she wins his trust even with MU it will be double sweet..

Now you will ask me, Why does she have to waste time over this mental psycho anti hero 😆? As someone said, Pack your bags, get a divorce and go to b beach(oh its you!! the b beach lover😊) with NK. Let ASR snuggle up with his brainless sis and JEE-JAA-JI. Oh I am all in for that option :). SP and the majority of the SP viewers will die an instant death over that anathema.🤣
Edited by sree07 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: uniquebluerose

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edited: Vibs...a superb and well aritculated post...wish i could do something like this...you see hwne i make direct posts...i end up losing control and it may be seen as bashing!!! so symbolisms in my post!!!

I not only find it difficult to digest this MU track but the reaction of some unlike minded people irks me to no end!!!!

They are going to the extent that Khushi deserved the manhandling and the bruise on her hand!!!!

I dunno from where such levels of insensitivity comes!!!!! Sad thought!!

I also don;t understand why Khushi should figure out ant why not Arnav!!!! People keep ranting on how he showed concern but she never showed it!!!!

But sorry i don't see any concern in any of his actions especially if Khushi's action cannot be called concern!!!

And yes i don not understand this guy giving second chance to jeejaji when the so called great jeejaji has proved he doesn't want a second chance by wanting to apply colors on her on holi and now over hearing their fights ans getting concerned for his wife!!

If she should put two and two together...why can't he put two and two together like her reaction on holi...how much she cares for Anjali and they bond they share...consider a scenario in which Khushi does love Shyam...does Arnav really think she will be in good terms with Anjali the woman who is stopping her from marrying her love!!!

From what i can see the only deal that ASR the great business man does is plan on how to fake black mail and bring his wife back by sending her her sister divorce papers!!! and yes call her classless in front of his security guard and throw water on her in front of his clients!!!

Still worse is why is the audience ok with ASR holding his sister dear and doing everything for her but Khushi does not seem to have the right of doing everything for her sister!!!
is it because of his being a brother and she being a sister thing or because he is rich and she is poor kind of thing!!!

I am also irked with going back to square one as you mentioned in the other post!!!

Please i don't want people saying he is like that right from the beginning...then why did yo9u all say he changed to Arnav in between and asked why Khushi has not changed!!! and again why is it ok for him to be same from beginning but she cannot remain same!!!

Its heart wrenching to see him breaking her spirit day after day!!!!

He is all out to break the spirit inside her...that too of his so called love!!!! this man never fails to shock me!!!

I seriously can't understand his anger yesterday!!! what was the cause? did she hug Shyam again or did Shyam hug her again!!!

What is use of remembering the same scene if you cannot tell it your sister and do something about it!!

Shyam is very dangerous...ASR or Khushi may not know it but then its pretty clear he cannot redeemed

I very badly want this MU to end...its seriously getting to my nerves and yes i will rejoice if Khushi leaves him at least temporarily (though even permanently also i wouldn't mind!!!) and definitely want him to be in pain...i also wish even his sister blames him for all the fiasco!!!!!

She should ask him who is he to decide what she wants in her life!!!!

Hey hun,
Darling you are more articulate and controlled then I am, because once i start I am a fish mongers wife I dont shut up...thats my problem and I am working on it but looks like more theraphy sessions...lol
This is my point...had they shown the angry asr for few days then him slowly thinking and the holi track and trying to figure I would have had no issues...what I cant handle is why is he NOT THINKING??????? to give an excuse oh he is hurt????hello this is the guy who has many days now to sit down and think???but no the lil girl should figure all out because she is the one who is smart here isnt she???
I think the people who are rational understand that what ASR is doing is wrong, I can understan hurt and I can understand pain but I dont understand stupidity and that is what asr is doing...he is being stupid...think please???i think the CVs are on holidays too and whatever any members says the story goes...
I really dont care anymore for khushi arnav jodi...its waste of talent for barun and sanaya but really is this love worth it???

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