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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: fascination

aww dear i love to read your post, logic and sensible🤗

1) for me it was unfair they show a dumb woman on women's day, thank you cv's.

2) People make a post just to bash basher, first they have to learn what is bashing in the first place.
Most of the members were just trying to analyze the situation, and i find it interesting more than drooling over Arnav's pic lol

3) i don't understand why Arnav doesn't want to tell the true to Khushi and to his di.
Ok, she is pregnant but it just the begining of her pregnancy, her life is safe, but what will happen if she discovers Snake's real intention later ? it will be more dangerous for her anf for the baby.

4) Arnav, as i said in a post, he is weak, just a weak person can play with the weakness of other.
He is so concerned about Khushi's movement, that he forgets Snake the evil.
And please Khushi use your brain next time, all you were doing was "akash ji, akash ji" grrr
She is behaving like a kid nowadays...i tought that after all this, she will show some maturity, but no she is just yelling and yelling.



Thanks lovie and your response is lovely to say the least😉
I agree that i like to look at things other than arnav's tight backside and oh so cute dimples...sorry thats just me and to be honest if i am going for hotness looks dont matter much...i like to see intellegenc in a man not how he looks...
If only arnav talks to his di and this time makes sure she doesnt faint and/or changes topic life will be so much simple and easier but no he has to make it difficult for him and everyone around him..later she will have a baby and a creeps baby to deal with...how will that work???
Exactly!!! play fair and if you win then we all will applaud you...this was cheating and i dont like people who cheat..and khushi is not thinking either but in her defense she thinks akash is aware of the situation...but that is no excuse and i really hope the cv's listen to us and make some changes...i am not even looking forward to today's episode who cares if there is romance...they have killed the main leads already
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: uniquebluerose


At last !!!!! Thank god you post really made my day...thought times are such that after episode i curse myself for watching it but come 8 PM and i hope that the next episode will be better and sit and watch it..its bad that just because we want the plot to sensible and want it with consistent characterization people call us basher and so want us to stop watching and stop posting etc etc...change channels etc...Are we not allowed to post our annoyance...

I for one had been giving a loose rope to CVS for pretty long time right from days during the Nainital fiasco and juice in shoes thing when people were blaming Khushi characterization being spoilt i supported CVs saying we should give them time!!! and sometime later when I remember people blaming too much romance and then too much manhandling and people hated the comedy track...but all that while i kept on defending the CVs...Even by the end of Jan i remember how many felt the SBS Teri Meri was better than the actual ...even then i was blaming how it was difficult to please the viewers ...But now well i think i am getting a taste of my own medicine!! I have totally lost my patience and the way they are handling the so called hatred track is utterly senseless and the logic is missing...making me very frustrated after every episode!!!

Both the characterization...who were treat to watch earlier and their love story which was supposedly so different has lost its essence and the current story line absolutely makes no sense at all!!!

I now sincerely regret being addicted to it...I remember the difference of opinion i had with my fiend in office who felt this one is bad copy of an earlier serial by the same production house!!! I used to argue for hours together on how this is better and how that got too mushy so lost is essence...but then i think it at least retained the essence of character up to certain extent...her both the characters are butchered beyond recognition!!!

Thank you so much dear for the lovely comment...it is very kind of you :)
Ever since i started watching this show and became a member of this forum i was waiting and waiting and waiting for some resemblance to normalcy and this is the last straw that broke the camel's back...i dont understand why are we fed this garbage???some people wrote that some people are never happy????well illogical things will not make me happy...
Same here i regret being addicted to it,,,my sister made me watch this and now i am hooked...she has moved on to greener pastures and i am not able to kick my addiction...they wanted to show that khushi is now totally trapped but there are other ways to do that too...this just wasted 2days and 60minutes and we got zilch...
lets see what today brings eh??
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: sana_sugarbun

Loved you post hon. I hated yesterday's episode not becoz Im jealous ASR won but due to the fact he stooped so low , blackmailed her and brought sister relationship in b/w to win the round. If the CVs really wanted him to win they could have come up with a better plot and not unfair means. Khushi was shown really dumb in yesterday's episode and i Wonder why since it was outta her character. Many people believe ASR is like that cruel and ruthless and wants his way no matter what. Why the Hell does his cruelty and smartness work only with a poor emotional 18 year old girl??He needs to pick on and play these ruthless games with someone his own age. Instead of wasting time and keeping stupid challenges why cant he use his brains with his "Jija Ji", Mami ji and with his own sister Anjali for crying out aloud??? and he actually is so proud that he has won over an 18 year old??🤢

Thanks sana,
this is what we want CV's to get as well that show some normalcy...please!!!!!! they have killed the characters for me and i wonder how they will revive it...it is beyond absurd, silly and other adjectives we can think of...he doesnt play with a fair and worthy opponent...had he done the same with shyam then it would have been fun to watch because shyam is a lawyer although he never goes to work and i would have loved to see how they would have handled that not this weird mush we got
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: evenjleena28

Thanks sana,
this is what we want CV's to get as well that show some normalcy...please!!!!!! they have killed the characters for me and i wonder how they will revive it...it is beyond absurd, silly and other adjectives we can think of...he doesnt play with a fair and worthy opponent...had he done the same with shyam then it would have been fun to watch because shyam is a lawyer although he never goes to work and i would have loved to see how they would have handled that not this weird mush we got


Egg-actly every episode ASR stoops even low and is losing respect acc to my POV. why cant CVs show him playing such games with Shyam😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: go2sleep83

Quoting from you post "Again what mystifies me is why in the world he thinks his sister will be strong after the baby is born???"

It's not because she will be stronger after baby, but pregnant women can't be stressed in their first semester of pregnancy, it can lead to miscarriage..First 4 months are always sensitive. And in Ajnali's case she already had hard time to get pregnant..So even if she comes to know after 6 months, it won't affect baby


Ok, agreed. It won't affect the baby - but, how will Anjali feel when she realizes her brother hid the truth from her for so long? Even if he had a valid reason? Won't she feel betrayed?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sana_sugarbun


Egg-actly every episode ASR stoops even low and is losing respect acc to my POV. why cant CVs show him playing such games with Shyam😡


One of my friends had made a post asking if ASR could make a good poker player. I had replied back then that ASR would suck as a poker player. Because he makes threats which hold no water at all and someone like Shyam would completely see through it and call his bluff in a sec. However, Khushi has been bluffed by Shyam again and again and yet she believes in the bluff that Shyam will turn good with Anji's baby on the way.
Conclusion : ASR can only win in a game of poker if his opponent is Khushi and NOT Shyam. So, for all the 'brains' that ASR has been gifted with by our CVs, he CANNOT play such games with Shyam.
Edited by wesha - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Initial episodes of this hatred track cvs were successful in showing asr as ruthless, he was way over the line in pushing the girl out f his room but cvs succeeded in showing the dark side of him, the track began in a promising manner ,

from there the story is static ,surprisingly the most important angleo f this whole betrayal- shyam is completely ignored we hardy even heard anyone mention him in the past episodes what is he waiting for valentines day to holi is like 20 days right

I think cvs are trying there own successful formulas from the past {spunky khushi , ruthless asr} possibly to stabilise the trps completely ignoring the storyline

Yesterdays water fight might have made some sense if it was during the initial days of attraction when they were refusing to accept it

Divorce paper plan i dont know what were they thinking when they wrote it may be it was to show that for khushi there is litte room for decision as you say she is shown to believe that arnav can affect her sis wedding

I think may be after hoIi they might get into the actual pIot ateast i would like to believe so

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with your comments. I think that what I would like to see is the truth to come out but for Arnav to interact with Kushi honestly in the future. He has cheated/used his power a number of times and needs to realise that he can not do this and understand the consequences of the emotional damage and hurt he can cause.

I think the fact that the viewers feel confused is interesting and makes the show unpredictable. Perhaps as viewers what we are feeling is something similar to Kushi's confusion, not understanding and wanting answers or a sign.

I'm in two minds about whether Kushi should leave Arnav, what he has done and how he has treated her is terrible. I think for most people, it would be very hard to forgive but at the same time, we have seen that he is not so smart, does not think deeply about what is happening and is not very perceptive or accurate in his judgement. Arnav thinks short-term about how to get the job done but does not consider the long-term consequences. Kushi on the other hand is far more intuitive and smarter, I would like her to decide her own path and do what she wants and feels is right.

We all know that Arnav will find out the truth and that will be the beginning of his change. If the show has courage, maybe what needs to happen is for Arnav to tell Khushi why he did what he did. Could Khushi forgive Arnav? I think that she has the ability to understand but I think she needs to find out as this will change her and the relationship she has with Arnav in the future.

For me, what would really be ground-breaking is for there to be an acknowledgement that Kushi is a strong and independent woman. It would be interesting to see her become successful in her own right, perhaps with Arnav guiding her.

I think that Kushi has to learn to stand on her own two feet and know how to behave with people in different situations. Kushi's character needs to mature and develop slowly but, she is meant to be 18 and at that age most teens have not had to experience hardships and have been sheltered by their parents.

If Kushi was able to stand on her own two feet and make it, I think that would act as a great example to lots of women. She hasn't been broken yet by what has happened and is shown to be behaving more like her normal self, that in itself says a great deal - she is tough and smart.

This is a love story first and foremost but love can take many forms or be expressed in many ways - trust, friendship, desire, attraction, respect. There could be many ways that these two characters develop and perhaps it would be nice to see a relationship progress without the over the top melodrama that is rampant in other Indian soaps. The fact that this show avoids a lot of cliches is what makes it so great and different.

My favourite twist would be is if Shyam blurted out the truth to Anjali as he could no longer cope with 'his love' for Kushi. That would be amazing!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Updated my reply in page4. Again thank you so much for this discussion.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sukri

I feel what they wanted to show this week was Khushi trying to force Arnav to reveal the truth, Arnav playing unfair and makes her lose - this is perfect - but they messed up big time with the dialogues and half-baked plans and plot.

Biggest mess - I was expecting a hate track - I got a slapstick comedy between the leads instead. This also doesnt mean that I am expecting romance/ romantic moments here, no I want intense hatred, make it believable CVs.

Okay first point - Arnav is threatening Khushi with legal Documents - did he even forget for a second that her supposed lover - Shyam is a lawyer himself and based on just this, they can bring Arnav down in the eyes of entire RM? All Khushi has to do is to show the fake divorce docs to Shyam in front of everyone saying look at this and Shyam can play along - right ?

Or even easier one - she can just call Shyam and ask him what to do next instead of running like a headless chicken.

The very fact that he expects her to act on her own should make him question his thoughts and views of Khushi again. Again the very fact that she is protecting his treatment, hiding whatever he's done so far incl blackmail should make his Teez dimag work no?

I don't even want to get into the KKGSR - I think it was mentioned 5-6 times yesterday and took around 2- 3 mins of screentime, so the day the dialogues are not ready, we should be ready to hear this a 50 times maybe?

Where does Holi promo fit in here? Do the Writers think that females are dumb creatures, whose only purpose to love the male lead irrespective of how he treats her? She knows the fake romance - i know what people will say - see thats why the Bhang
, it brings out their inner feelings - what crap .. unless the MU is cleared, I want to see intense hatred.. (Does hate still mean the same that I think it does, or have they changed the meaning)

Agree with what you said - please who think I am bashing (which I'm not) , don't tell me to change channels or stop watching the show. I know what I am doing and I hope they realise it soon.

I never watched the show for the sake of the Rabba Ves. I didnt like when he manhandled her before, I don't like the way he treats her now.
I still havent given up on the main storyline - that is what keeps me attracted to IPKKND. yes the journey now seems to be uncomfortable, but the day it crosses that and goes to unbearable, I will stop torturing myself.
Nice Post Vibha!

Awesome response to an awesome post. Sukri, I simply adored each and every point you made. 👏👏👏👏👏

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