He who laughs last, Laughs longer

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Posted: 13 years ago
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This proverb is said to emphasize that the person who has control of a situation in the end is most successful, even if other people had seemed originally to have an advantage.

CVs are currently engaged in showing us how one can upstage your significant other, not so significant in this case because I don't think Khushi means anything to ASR at this point of time.

In yesterday's episode, we saw both the leads challenging one another. We saw a determined Khushi who was hell bent in getting her questions answered . We also saw an equally determined ASR who was flabbergasted by her audacity.

Today however, the tables have turned. We saw a "smarter" ASR who has managed to tilt the game to his advantage. We see a distraught and unhappy Khushi who is still desperately trying to turn the tides.

So does ASR come across as the smart one? To me a smart person will be one who could win a game through his/her wit, intelligence and integrity. Victory through deceit and lies is child's play. Anyone can be a victor through unscrupulous means. One must remember, victories achieved through means of deceit and lies are short lived. That is why we see villains always winning in films and serials because they stoop to underhand tactics.

One may argue that everything is fair in love and war . Is it? Would you continue to trust someone, if you learn later in life that this very same person whom you love dearly has cheated you at one point? The person whom you consider your partner has resorted to unscrupulous methods to prove his point? What's great in winning by hook or by crook? It does not prove anyone smarter or intelligent. Instead, it only goes to prove how weak one is.

For the first time while viewing the serial I thought to myself, does Khushi deserve ASR? Is he priceless as he is touted to be?

To me, ASR comes across as a person who lacks conscience. He does not seem to have feelings of guilt or shame for harming others. He is ruthless in getting what he wants. He is narcissistic to the point of being insensitive. But what makes him dangerous is that although he is emotionally bankrupt at the core, he is a master of creating the "illusion" of having so much to offer.

CVs have been continuously degrading the characters with each passing episode. Why couldn't Khushi have asked the relevant questions over the phone rather than beating around the bush? Why couldn't she see through ASR's treachery?

ASR has now dug a deeper hole for himself. His path to redemption will be an arduous and lengthy one. When his game is up, ASR will have to pay a hefty price to appease Khushi and the respective families.

Happy Woman's Day!

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mishti4maan thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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honestly loved yr post. so truee.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Deceit comes to him naturally i guess.
His character was lovable as a grey protagonist in the beginning but he doesn't seem that lovable any more.
Have the (so called) Creatives forgotten completely that they have built a character so strong and impactful (he has re-gained his conscience - instances of the strong i hate you confessions and restlessness) why are they hell bent on tarnishing it?
is this a new series?
let me use a stupid made up metaphor
a simple one
we saw a ferrari that now turns out to be a modified maruti 800.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mishti4maan

honestly loved yr post. so truee.



Thanks 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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1)So does ASR come across as the smart one? To me a smart person will be one who could win a game through his/her wit, intelligence and integrity. Victory through deceit and lies is child's play. Anyone can be a victor through unscrupulous means. One must remember, victories achieved through means of deceit and lies are short lived. That is why we see villains always winning in films and serials because they stoop to underhand tactics.

2)One may argue that everything is fair in love and war . Is it? Would you continue to trust someone, if you learn later in life that this very same person whom you love dearly has cheated you at one point? The person whom you consider your partner has resorted to unscrupulous methods to prove his point? What's great in winning by hook or by crook? It does not prove anyone smarter or intelligent. Instead, it only goes to prove how weak one is.

I Love your post. I have decided to take a break from this show due to the above reasons you pointed out.I was honestly very disappointed after today's episode. Leave aside the inhumane treatment his trickery and manipulation of a gullible 18 year old did not go well down my books.
No straighforwardness at all. I wish he offered to give her money over this. Atleast he would have been straight forward and honest (not in the best sense but there would have been no lies). He could have offered to take care of her father's medications or something in exchange for staying with him for 6 months.
How will Kushi ever trust him after finding out all of his diceptions?
Anyways Happy women's day to you too!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gitika712

Deceit comes to him naturally i guess.

His character was lovable as a grey protagonist in the beginning but he doesn't seem that lovable any more.
Have the (so called) Creatives forgotten completely that they have built a character so strong and impactful (he has re-gained his conscience - instances of the strong i hate you confessions and restlessness) why are they hell bent on tarnishing it?
is this a new series?
let me use a stupid made up metaphor
a simple one
we saw a ferrari that now turns out to be a modified maruti 800.





What irks me is Khushi is being treated like a captive.. I agree ASR has always been his nastiest best 😆 But then Khushi was free to go home and she had the love and affection of her family. Now she has been ostracised by not only her family but even those in RM are not too cordial with her.

Yet, ASR never misses an opportunity to belittle and taunt her... he is constantly exercising mental torture on the poor girl with threats of Payal's divorce... that is a very cruel thing to do... 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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"He that will cheat at play, will cheat you any way"

This came to my mind when I watched the show, i agree with your assertion that ASR is not playing fair, to me when you throw a challenge fight fairly...what he did was through lies and cheating and that was unfair. Now many may say all is fair in love and war...but again here both parties know either they are in love or at war...not like this where khushi has no clue why he is behaving that way...
What i realised was that this man is not so price catch after all. I love barun and his acting i am talking about the cariature of a character his has become on this show now. He is reduced to petty threats and viciousness which is not becoming him at all. Khushi was going back we knew that given the holi promo and all but the way they are sending her back home is just ridiculous. CV's are sadistic people or someone who just want to make money and dont realise that society has evolved from ekta's soaps where all was okay in the name of love..
I hope they change this story line and perhaps misunderstand gets sorted a bit...i despise this new story line dont like it at all...but all in all a lovely post
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Posted: 13 years ago
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La La

if the CVs didnt build elaborate castles in thin air, how will they extend the story for the next 6 months??

Of course, they completely missed the point that its about entertainment and nothing they show currently is very entertaining. Sad.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arnav always had a narcissistic streak in him, I, ME, MY house, MY Di, MY life, My Brother... everything has to revolve ard him.

Earlier i used to find him mean... but now he is out right cruel. And thats what i cannot accept. He doesnt care for Khushi's tears anymore.


Today a friend of mine had posted this line in FB,
He who takes care of his wife like a princess is sure raised by a queen.
Wonder what that says about late Mrs Raizada Senior.


Edited by frockstar - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You are right. He is manipulative and took resort to lies for that. The outcome will not be good for him. We knew from the promo that khushi would be back. But, we don't need a promo to see that ASR would have to pay big time.
The results are bad if you lie to get your ways. This time it is ASR. One of the times it was Khushi. She lied to get LA back in ASR's life. She wanted to make up for her mistake and she did whatever she could. Lied in letter saying it was from LA to ASR. And we know what happened to LA. A heart broken girl left her love that was not even hers at no fault of her own. ASR's turn is coming...and we will enjoy his sufferings.

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